am I the only one here
No you're not. :)
I think part of the problem is that the Poles feel
the Jews have blamed them more than they have blamed the Germans, whilst never acknowledging that Polish Christians etc (that is to say Poles of non-Jewish faith) also suffered during the war.
There also seems to be blame laid at the Polish door by the Jews for the not "idyllic" relations for the past 200 years or so,
regardless of the fact that Poland was partitioned, ruled by others, and
all relationships were consequently distorted, and that these difficulties and tensions continued after Poland's complicated "re-birth" in 1918 etc. and during her short life. These events, surely, could not have gone unnoticed!
But here comes another problem: assimilation. It’s good that the Jews in Poland preserved their religion and traditions, but to maintain enclaves where the Polish language etc. was completely unknown is taking the matter a bit too far, and tastes of refusal and scorn, unfortunately. True, it is probable that these were not the educated Jews, but perhaps the Jewish intelligentsia should have stepped in here and smoothed the way to more acceptance of all things Polish by the Jews in general, without, of course, forcing anyone to renounce either faith or customs.