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Polish women- submissive or dominant?


Seanus  15 | 19666  
6 Dec 2010 /  #31
Wouldn't you like to know? ;) ;) Big enough to defend my territory :) Then again, it is the lioness that is the hunter and not the lion. He just tidies up the loose ends.
espana  17 | 947  
6 Dec 2010 /  #32
Polish women- submissive or dominant?

always submissive.
A J  4 | 1075  
6 Dec 2010 /  #33
That's a fair way of putting it, southern. They're the domestic cats and I'm the big cat :)

No, you're just fat.

;P
Seanus  15 | 19666  
6 Dec 2010 /  #34
I've slimmed down, so there ;)

I'll give the submissiveness test another go tonight :)
Polonius3  980 | 12275  
6 Dec 2010 /  #35
Native Poles have said that the man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck, and the neck turns the head. If women weren't domiannt, the whole palce would fall apart due to hubby's penchant for booze and general irresponsibility. One Polish riddle goes: What is the difference betwdeen a male and wine? Answer: Eventually wine matures.
OP southern  73 | 7059  
6 Dec 2010 /  #36
I'll give the submissiveness test another go tonight :)

New positions?Or just back door?
Seanus  15 | 19666  
6 Dec 2010 /  #37
The mind boggles ;) ;) It was Jim Morrison who once sang, 'I'm a Backdoor Man' :) There is a submissive aspect to that, yes.
A J  4 | 1075  
6 Dec 2010 /  #38
I've slimmed down, so there ;)

See? My taunting has a positive effect on people!

xD
Seanus  15 | 19666  
6 Dec 2010 /  #39
So it would appear :) :) When it comes to making decisions, there is a noticeable schism. Some, like my wife, are very decisive and make things happen. Others are floaters that drift with the breeze. So, there is variation just like most other nations. I very rarely saw a show of assertiveness in Japan but a select few had the harder Western temperament.
OP southern  73 | 7059  
6 Dec 2010 /  #40
I'm a Backdoor Man'

Yes,many Polki are ready to open their back door.
Seanus  15 | 19666  
6 Dec 2010 /  #41
What does it mean, many Polki? How many is many? Those that frequent special clubs maybe but not your average run-of-the-mill girl, that's for sure.
Natasa  1 | 572  
7 Dec 2010 /  #42
How many is many?

For some one is too many. For others like Southern there is no such thing as too many.
I really raped English language now :)))
At least something.
:)
Seanus  15 | 19666  
7 Dec 2010 /  #43
He enjoys his sexual references, that's for sure. Isn't it ironic that showing sb the back door means you want them to leave? ;)
Natasa  1 | 572  
7 Dec 2010 /  #44
Isn't it ironic that showing sb the back door means you want them to leave? ;)

Same reality, different meanings, it can be interpreted in many ways ;)

In Balkans we don't use any similar phrase when we want somebody out.

Non verbal communication usually solves the problem.:)
Seanus  15 | 19666  
7 Dec 2010 /  #45
Well, talking about back door entry in his meaning is rather personal. The Poles tend not to discuss sexual issues that much but Balkan folk more so.
convex  20 | 3928  
7 Dec 2010 /  #46
The Poles tend not to discuss sexual issues that much but Balkan folk more so.

Old people maybe :) Maybe I'm just not hanging around the classy folks...
Seanus  15 | 19666  
7 Dec 2010 /  #47
It could just be that it doesn't pop up as a topic in discussions that I have. Nothing quite like a submissive aspect to a woman :)
f stop  24 | 2493  
7 Dec 2010 /  #48
Most women know instinctively what their man's ego is fragile about. They navigate it like a mine filed. They slowly work on what they want, sometimes with the man not even realizing that he's being manipulated. They know to defer to the submissive role around his buddies or coworkers, but they also know how to tell him what they're "worried about" - when he's feeling most manly and protective. Is that dominant or submissive?

As far as sexual roles of dominance and submission, women that like to play (not just because he wants them to), can usually play both. That's because many powerful women, after taking care of everything and everybody all day long, find it exciting and liberating to have someone else take over and make all the decisions for them. But if the guy does not know what he's doing, she can probably teach him..
Natasa  1 | 572  
7 Dec 2010 /  #49
that much but Balkan folk more so.

Orthodoxy + communism/socialism (I think there is some correlation between those two, not so independent factors)

I'm sorry... I'm on one of the extremes, not true representative of a Serbian women, I tend to be significantly less inhibited than average , psychology influence. We are godless (psychologists).
Seanus  15 | 19666  
7 Dec 2010 /  #50
Quite a few Serbian women 'looked like' dominant types when I was there but that says little as to the truth. The harshness of some Polish women may make them come across as being dominant but quite a few have a soft inner core.
Natasa  1 | 572  
7 Dec 2010 /  #51
How do you relate inhibition with domination? I didn't understand that.

After all , I think Slavic world shares similar ideas about male/female roles.

Maybe Balkan women incline more to the submissive role than the rest (polish, russian...)
trener zolwia  1 | 939  
7 Dec 2010 /  #52
but quite a few have a soft inner core.

And that's the part we're trying to get into! :D
Seanus  15 | 19666  
7 Dec 2010 /  #53
No harm in trying, tz.

Natasa, inhibition with domination? What do you mean? Some are inhibited and some are dominant.
abdulabdul53  - | 2  
10 Jan 2011 /  #55
i've found that it depends on the girl: people are different.
NomadatNet  1 | 457  
10 Jan 2011 /  #56
Indeed different. Never seen so many walking cucumbers.
DreamOn  - | 3  
27 Jan 2011 /  #57
As a Polish woman born and bred (living in Canada now) id have to agree that yes while we are bossy and dominant a lot in relationships , when it comes to sex I personally am submissive and like to be manhandled. Nothing wrong with that is there??
Rapid  
6 Jun 2016 /  #58
You are so full of S. guys!
I'm actually a man from southern Poland - Upper Silesia to be precise, and the answer to query is:
It depends on a You! Every woman can be made submissive, it's a question of man's attitude. If you're not manly enough and allow a women to be dominant, you'll wind up beeing her B. And boys, polish women are generally very clever beasts, so be careful not to get F.d in your backdoor.

Happy hunting!

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