Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands?

^ Well atleast the moderators have had a busy week!

Maybe it is because we are more affectionate. I am American and my wife is from Poland. During my first trip to Poland and subsequent trips, the Polish women were all staring me down and smiling. I held hands with my wife (who was my girlfriend at the time), or had my arm around her. I noticed that the Polish men didn't do that with their wives/girlfriends...

simply because dating a 'foreigner'/'different race' is somewhat exotic.
Moreso, polish women, for example, seem to be able to drop their inhibitions when they are with someone other than their own countrymen.

I've grown up with Polish family and I've never met a Polish woman who likes black men, in fact I would say that most of them were disgusted when I asked if they would be interested in a black man, and some were very un-ladylike in their replies. In my experience, most Polish women prefer Polish men and that is partly why Poland is not as multicultural as some other places, likewise we Polish men prefer our own women and would rather not mix with others unless we really have to. You never hear anyone saying "oh wouldn't it be great if Africa was more multicultural, more white" so why are Poles called racist because we prefer Poland to be Polish? We're not, we just like our own culture! That said, I quite like Black and Asian women but I would never touch a German or Russian, ever!!!

they like foreigners cos they are not boring :)..

hehehehe....that's soooo funny vm500....lol!

where are the moderators, why dont they close this insane topic?

holaween is over.. go back to the living dead !!!

Perhaps its simple more Polish women now have the oppurtunity to meet foreign men because of the EU, and maybe, just maybe love. Funny old word that "love", in this age of cynicism.

Czesc,
It may be true as I spent a nice night talking to some Polish girls in a pub and they all said that they found it interesting to talk to me ..as a foreigner and from a different country and mindset..So there may be a bit of truth in that ..

But I think they only a small percentage of Polish women like foreigners and its only when they are young and in the mood to experiment..say beetween 20--24... and then its generally Polish men they prefer who live in close proximity and are there to support them emotionally physically and otherwise.

I wonder if that makes sense

My boyfriend is from Toronto and Im polish we met in England and fall in love. Now im sure i was waiting for him i think that i would never find so caring sweet helpful polish man.

We r living in England hollidays in Canada, Easter in Poland :)
I know he is Canadian so far away but as for me the most important is that finally i found my true love :)

I THINK POLISH PEOPLE OUR WONDERFULL ESPECIALLY BEAUTIFUL POLISH WOMEN, I AM MARRIED TO ONE AND THINK SHE, ALONG WITH OTHER POLES I KNOW I THINK THEY ARE SOME OF THE MOST TRUE BLUE PEOPLE I'VE EVER MET. REMEMBER I'M GOING BY MY 50 YEARS OF EXPEIRIENCE.

If Polish woman really wanted to have a boyfriend and a husband, then perhaps I'd agree to be the boyfriend, but I would hesitate to be her husband.

good lord, what incredibly lazy thinking on behalf of the thread starter.

as a foreigner your outspoken (lazy) thinking makes it that much harder for the rest of us; try to be a lil more thoughtful than the stereotypes you project.

BULLSHIET!!!

I am Polish woman living in United States for 15 years and all my Polish Guy friends are doing million times better than any other races and nations. Polish Guys are very hard workers, highly skilled, detailed oriented and in consequence pretty well off. Of course there are exceptions like everywhere, not everyone is perfect but generally speaking we are highly respected and appreciated in USA. Many Natives who talk to me about my Polish origin try to find any Polish connection in their own background, what is kind of funny to me and in the same time makes me proud. I heard many times that Irish, Polish and Germans build this country because they worked the hardest.

And you with your envy against Polish Guys can not change this who we are and what we achive around the World.

Thats because its all true

How somebody can be so ignorant? I don`t understand how do you get to conclusion like this? I don`t even know how to ask you where from you get this nonsense? This is disgusting. Are you a racist?

I dont think its so much that Polish women prefer foreign men, more that foreign men like Polish women and so approach them more often then Polish men will approach foreign women. Hence the disparity.

I know a few Polish women who always thought they would end up with a Polish guy, as that was there preference. However if you go to to a foreign country, esp. Britain, and you are a good looking woman you will be approached pretty much everytime you go out for a drink. Chances are that one of these guys will make the grade and nature will take its course. I dont think this is the case in Poland where approaches are made more through mutual friends and acquaintences. There a lot less 'cold calling' and therevfore vfewer opportunities.

So if a foreigner wants to meet a polish woman, he should approach a Polish girl and ask if she has a friend that she can introduce him to?

I like that idea. Innocent yet cunning.

Excellent...

True point.

Most Polish women prefer a Polish boyfriend/husband. But we must remember that everyone have different preferences.

Edit: I didn't see that it was such an old thread.

Yes! You are right! You know well that, a..

some Polish women are crazy about some Swedish men!! (me including!!!)...maybe some people know why...?!

On the list of hardest working, Irish, Polish and Germans come after illegal Mexicans - who built USA. That's why we need them here, even illegally.

Polish women are crazy about everything that isn't Polish.

It cant be true - they are not crazy about you.

How could you know that?

I am dark skinned. That is 80% of the success with a Polish girl.

But I am not into Polish girls ,so I don't really care :)

Well, I just cant think why anyone would be interested in someone who wrote such things.


Yes, all what polish girls care about is the tone of your skin.


Well, then there is no problem - polish girls arent interested in you, you are not interested in them.