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Why do Polish women prefer foreigners for boyfriends and husbands?


king polkakamon  - | 542  
22 Jul 2010 /  #301
So you think english men despise polish women and they end up with third worldlers?Or do english men also take their part in shagging?
skysoulmate  13 | 1250  
22 Jul 2010 /  #302
Also, if you walk into a bar and flash some cash or an expensive watch, guess what kind of girls are gonna be swooning all over you.

I agree, enough of this "Polish women make excellent prostitutes" mentality. Midas, the BBC reporter you mentioned should've been fired on the spot for that comment, a ridiculous thing to say.

Some men and some women are sluts, loose, or whatever term you prefer. Historically speaking women used to be more "conservative" or discerning than men are but that gap, pun intended ;) is quickly closing. Unfortunately, nowadays equality often means adopting men's bad habits and behaviors rather than for us men to improve our own behavior.

Look at smoking, in the past it was primarily men who smoked, today it's often women who smoke, I remember a study in Sweden showing women in lower income brackets being the "typical" smoker. Alcohol came next and now it's the sex. We're becoming more "equal" by the hour, not by any kind of milestone achievements but by lowering the bar for everyone, the lowest common denominator; I'm talking in general terms of course.

One thing that hasn't changed is that it's still women we like to blame for being loose, etc. The guys, well guys will be guys. Hypocritical.

Men are like that, aren't they?

Some men are like that, I'd hope a tiny minority of us.
Paulina  16 | 4338  
22 Jul 2010 /  #303
So you think english men despise polish women and they end up with third worldlers?Or do english men also take their part in shagging?

Oh, I'm sure they despise Polish women and shag them at the same time.
Men are like that, aren't they?

I think Midas is probably an excellent example of this.
Midas  1 | 571  
22 Jul 2010 /  #304
King Polkamon

Obviously the English take part in the shagging.

Since with your average Polish slut she's usually got ***** fever before you're done with the drinks it would be surprising if the Brits wouldn't take advantage.

I mean, think about. You've got Kate and Agnieszka. Kate's got demands and wants to be an equal partner while Agnieszka's got cream in her pants ever since she heard You inherited a one-bedroom in South Kensington. In the long run - it's Kate, of course, You won't be embarrassed to introduce HER to the parents. But in the short run it's Agnieszka since she's already pretty much ready to go...

I don't really shag Polish women anymore. Too much hassle, too much drama, way too many mind games.
Paulina  16 | 4338  
22 Jul 2010 /  #305
One thing that hasn't changed is that it's still women we like to blame for being loose, etc. The guys, well guys will be guys. Hypocritical.

Indeed.

I don't really shag Polish women anymore.

Bogu niech będą dzięki :) Don't change your mind by any chance :)
A J  4 | 1075  
22 Jul 2010 /  #306
One thing that hasn't changed is that it's still women we like to blame for being loose, etc. The guys, well guys will be guys. Hypocritical

I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment, and think a lot of guys need to get over their own ego, and basically just grow up. She's not your possession. But if girls would change their attitudes just a little, I suspect guys wouldn't have to be so jealous, aggressive and possessive anymore, because I think we all know there's a reason for such behaviour; They're afraid to end up alone for the rest of their lives when they lose their girlfriend to someone else. (Am I wrong, guys?) I usually treat women with respect, but I still think guys are allowed to disagree with girls about a variety of matters though!

I however, don't blame women for being loose. I do think they have too many images in their mind about their perfect partner though, and because of this they've been rejecting some really nice guys, simply because they have these unrealistic demands. (I get the feeling they would rather drop dead than to admit anything though, but you're definitely welcome to tell me if I'm totally wrong about that!) Of course I'm talking about my own country here, and from my own experiences, because I don't know what it's like in Poland. There are more girls than guys out there, but still there are more single guys than single girls out there. Could someone explain that one to me? I'm afraid I really don't get it! I mean, you can count, can't you?

;)
rychlik  41 | 372  
22 Jul 2010 /  #307
So my experience is that they prefer a Polish boyfriend unless she has bad taste or if she smells money.

I think a lot of Polish biatches have bad taste :)
guesswho  4 | 1272  
22 Jul 2010 /  #308
So myexperience is that they prefer a Polish boyfriend unless she has bad taste or if she smells money

your experience, lol
You're either a very bad observer or you don't have much experience at all.
skysoulmate  13 | 1250  
22 Jul 2010 /  #309
Indeed.

Please do not disregard the other part of my post where I also criticized some women. Goes both ways you know...

I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment, and think a lot of guys need to get over their own ego, and basically just grow up. She's not your possession. But if girls would change their attitudes just a little, I suspect guys wouldn't have to be so jealous, aggressive and possessive anymore, because I think we all know there's a reason for such behaviour;

I highlighted the part I disagree with. Jealous? Sure, if you have reasons than it's a normal and an anticipated reaction if you have feelings for someone.

Aggressive and possessive? Never. Why? You answered it yourself in the highlighted section. It's also pointless unless you move her to North Korea to make sure she's all yours. Even then she'll stray if she wants to.

The only true means of being sure is to conquer her heart and to be kind, gentle and loving to her before but especially after becoming partners. Goes both ways.

If she still strays leave immediately as once a cheater always a cheater - she simply wasn't worth your love and your affection. Again, it goes both ways. This comes from a divorced guy so go figure. ;)

They're afraid to end up alone for the rest of their lives when they lose their girlfriend to someone else. (Am I wrong, guys?)

You're right but see above.

I usually treat women with respect, but I still think guys are allowed to disagree with girls about a variety of matters though!

Absolutely! A relationship is just that a relationship that is being molded each and every day. I guess the key is to sometimes agree to disagree.

I however, don't blame women for being loose. I do think they have too many images in their mind about their perfect partner though, and because of this they've been rejecting some really nice guys, simply because they have these unrealistic demands.

...and we, as a society don't put unrealistic demands on women? Really?

AJ, how much time do you need to get ready after you wake up? 20-30 minutes? Get up, brush your teeths, shave, quick shower, put on your tshirt and your jeans, quick breakfast and off you go. Granted military taught me to speed up that process so I can probably be ready in 15 minutes if I have to.

Ladies usually need more time, don't they?
You think women shave their legs and if we're really lucky other areas (yes, I'm selfish here :) just because they want to? Do they put on all that make-up, eye-liners, lipsticks, hair treatments, etc. just because they want to or is it because we as a society put such demands on women from the time girls turn into women? See my point? They're flooded with images of what's expected of them, tv shows, magazines, friends, etc., etc. from early on.

Yes, they do turn down many good guys but we guys turn down many good ladies. Every now and then I get a facebook update on a friend, ex-girlfriend announcing the birth of their child or marital status update and I think, what the hell was I thinking? Why did I break up with her? I'm certain you and many other guys have those moments too.
pgtx  29 | 3094  
22 Jul 2010 /  #310
cheater always a cheater

sad but so true...

Ladies usually need more time, don't they?

just 5 more minutes... it makes 30 mins total for me...all included...

what the hell was I thinking? Why did I break up with her? I'm sure you too and many other guys have those moments too.

i think many people have doubts after some time... but then you have to quickly think why it didn't work out with you guys...

:)
skysoulmate  13 | 1250  
22 Jul 2010 /  #311
Immaturity?

You're quick getting ready btw, you should join the military lol
pgtx  29 | 3094  
22 Jul 2010 /  #312
yep... i don't like that 2-hours-getting-ready thing... it annoys me... just like shopping...

:)
skysoulmate  13 | 1250  
22 Jul 2010 /  #313
Are you sure there's no Y-chromosome in your DNA?? ;)
pgtx  29 | 3094  
22 Jul 2010 /  #314
hahaha... no... and maybe there are some other women out there who are that way... :)
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
22 Jul 2010 /  #315
Midas

somebody sounds like they were screwed over by a few Agnieszkas! i bet you're still single too. i found it hilarious how most of you foreign "buzznessmen" only ever get the slutty Polish women, i am totally not familiar or accquainted with the kind of girls you talk about, with 'cream in their pants' at hearing about money. i suppose you only attract that kind of woman because if all you talk about is your job and your wealth then a smart girl will get bored. you can impress a woman with money and being well off but no good woman will go to bed with you just because of that. i am very sorry that this is the only type of Polish woman you know and in turn demean and despise, i don't blame you but i still stand by my statement that they do not become golddiggers because of communism rooted inside of their brain.

as for British girls, oh boy! you never bumped into a Chantelle who hops into bed with anyone who claims to be a footballer? this seems to be the ambition of many young women in Britain these days. gold digging is not unheard of, maybe not so much as in other countries though because of the generous benefits system...

If a British or American male boasts to his mates about sleeping with a black girl, is he suffering of post communism trauma too? Come on you can't be serious.

Unfortunately, nowadays equality often means adopting men's bad habits and behaviors rather than for us men to improve our own behavior.

It's funny how so many women think they are becoming more equal by acting like thick, arrogant men. It's actually making things worse. But still, it's usually the men who are sluts themselves who call women names when they behave the same way.

It sucks when a woman steals your money but at the end of the day you only have yourself to blame for being naive and letting her have it... The communist b*tch! ;-D

They're flooded with images of what's expected of them, tv shows, magazines, friends, etc., etc. from early on.

It's not that we're brainwashed or forced into it, if we were hairy, smelly with frizzy hair and spotty faces you men wouldn't like us! :D So maybe men are the brainwashed ones because you don't fancy the cavewoman look anymore ha ha.

Yes, they do turn down many good guys but we guys turn down many good ladies. Every now and then I get a facebook update on a friend, ex-girlfriend announcing the birth of their child or marital status update and I think, what the hell was I thinking? Why did I break up with her?

It's always a good idea not to befriend your exes on facebook because all of those unneccesary thoughts and hopes will creep back into your head everytime they update their status. You have to let the past go whether it was a bad decision to break up or a lucky escape! I count mine as a lucky escape, wouldn't waste another breah on the tosser and feel sorry for any females who make the mistake to get emotionally involved with 'it' in the future :)
Amathyst  19 | 2700  
22 Jul 2010 /  #316
How did British women become involved in a thread about Polish girls dating foreigners?
dtaylor5632  18 | 1998  
22 Jul 2010 /  #317
Cos the Polish guys are jealous we are stealing their women :D
jarnowa  4 | 499  
22 Jul 2010 /  #318
I think a lot of Polish biatches have bad taste :)

It's true. often i think...girl...look in the f#kin' mirror...look how attractive you are and then have a look at the dork walking next to you! He might be a nice guy and a good friend, but he's really not in your league as a bed partner!
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
22 Jul 2010 /  #319
then you look in a mirror yourself and think "at least she's got a friend and someone to f*ck unlike me boo hoo hooo"
NorthMancPolak  4 | 642  
22 Jul 2010 /  #320
PMSL

Funny how the Belgian sex god never seems to want to post up a pic of himself, so the ladies can make a judgement... :)
dtaylor5632  18 | 1998  
22 Jul 2010 /  #321
He might be a nice guy and a good friend, but he's really not in your league as a bed partner!

How would you know? Some ugly f*ckin fat girl gave u a bad time?
jarnowa  4 | 499  
22 Jul 2010 /  #322
then you look in a mirror yourself and think "at least she's got a friend and someone to f*ck unlike me boo hoo hooo"

Your reaction tells me this example applies perfectly to you.

You are probably attractive and now you are again facing the fact that your boyfriend's hairy back, fat ass and bad breath isn't exactly what you dreamed of when you was a little girl. Ouch, that must hurt! :)

How would you know?

Using my eyes! You don't have to be gay to see that some guys are just too ugly for their gf.
Paulina  16 | 4338  
22 Jul 2010 /  #323
Please do not disregard the other part of my post where I also criticized some women.

I don't. I agree with what you've written.

Goes both ways you know...

You mean hypocrisy?
I don't know, maybe. Well, in general - yes, after all we're all humans.
But I'm not sure whether it goes both ways when it's about sex?
Because women are expected by society, by men and by women themselves to be different than men in this respect, I think. If a woman is "loose" then she's "a slut", when a man is "loose" that means he's normal, "a stud" even LOL

I'm not writing this because I'm "loose" myself and want to defend what I do, as some "Midas type" guy would probably think. I'm far from "loose", but I really don't like hypocrisy which is going on for ages.

When I was at school we were supposed to read "Inny świat" by Gustaw Herling-Grudziński who was born in my region and lived in my city. He was arrested by NKVD and put in a gulag. The book is about his stay there. I think I don't have to write what a gulag was and that people died there like flies. Some women and some men were having sex with the gulag's personel or other prisoners to get food or get to the hospital in order to survive. Some women also decided to sleep with one man so he would protect them from mass rapes.

But guess what, only women who gave themselves away for food or a place in the hospital where considered by men as "sluts". If a man did this - he was smart and resourceful! LOL This was na observation made by the narrator in the book.

It's really sad that even in such terrible situation men weren't able to think of women as equals and applied double standards.

But I appreciate what you, Skysoulmate, and AJ are writing here.
I'm impressed. You guys are cool :)

How did British women become involved in a thread about Polish girls dating foreigners?

Beacause of the hypocrisy and double standards of men like Midas, I think.

Your reaction tells me this example applies perfectly to you.

Oh, I can tell you that not only to her. It applies to many, many women, if not to the majority of them :) You seem to forget that it's the men who are visualizers. Women not as much. I would rarely see a handsome man with not very pretty girl. But I often see pretty girls/women with not very handsome boys/men.

In the end it's what's inside that matters :)
jarnowa  4 | 499  
23 Jul 2010 /  #324
Funny how the Belgian sex god never seems to want to post up a pic of himself, so the ladies can make a judgement... :)

i don't say that i'm physically the most attractive guy of the world, but if it were really true that Polish girls prefer foreigners than why are my Polish friends more succesful dating hot girls even though they are more ugly than me?

So i keep on saying: Polish girls only prefer foreigners (at least the white ones) if they see them with expensive clothes, sunglasses, etc.
dtaylor5632  18 | 1998  
23 Jul 2010 /  #325
why are my Polish friends more succesful dating hot girls even though they are more ugly than me?

Like we all tell you, the girls probably see the di(k head racist twit in you.
NorthMancPolak  4 | 642  
23 Jul 2010 /  #326
than why are my Polish friends more succesful dating hot girls even though they are more ugly than me?

Because it's not just about looks.
jarnowa  4 | 499  
23 Jul 2010 /  #327
Like we all tell you, the girls probably see the di(k head racist twit in you.

No, i'm sure most Polish girls like brave warriors against multicultural detoriation of Polska/Europe. :)
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
23 Jul 2010 /  #328
Your reaction tells me this example applies perfectly to you.

ha ha yes i need a knight like you to rescue me from my ugly boyfriend ha ha! all my female friends fancy him actually and girls are checking him out on the street so i think i'm not doing too bad for myself :).

ohhh it p*sses you off so much that even the mingers get laid doesn't it! it's hilarious that you think you deserve attention and appreciation from women. with your attitude, you don't even deserve a dog.

No, i'm sure most Polish girls like brave warriors against multicultural detoriation of Polska/Europe. :)

and you're still not getting any! i've never been attracted to black men (apart from will smith corrr ;-D) but i would probably go out with one just to spite you.
A J  4 | 1075  
23 Jul 2010 /  #329
but i would probably go out with one just to spite you.

I think I'm going out with a Moroccan girl tomorrow.

xD
Amathyst  19 | 2700  
23 Jul 2010 /  #330
Beacause of the hypocrisy and double standards of men like Midas, I think.

Midas isnt my problem..for once it would be nice for people to leave British women out of threads..As the old adage goes..If you have nothing nice to say...shut the fek up! (not you personally)

No, i'm sure most Polish girls like brave warriors

Im sure they have all different tastes in men..

Jar, go out, get laid...It cant be that difficult!

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