Indeed.
Please do not disregard the other part of my post where I also criticized some women. Goes both ways you know...
I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment, and think a lot of guys need to get over their own ego, and basically just grow up. She's not your possession. But if girls would change their attitudes just a little, I suspect guys wouldn't have to be so jealous, aggressive and possessive anymore, because I think we all know there's a reason for such behaviour;
I highlighted the part I disagree with. Jealous? Sure, if you have reasons than it's a normal and an anticipated reaction if you have feelings for someone.
Aggressive and possessive? Never. Why? You answered it yourself in the highlighted section. It's also pointless unless you move her to North Korea to make sure she's all yours. Even then she'll stray if she wants to.
The only true means of being sure is to conquer her heart and to be kind, gentle and loving to her before but especially after becoming partners. Goes both ways.
If she still strays leave immediately as once a cheater always a cheater - she simply wasn't worth your love and your affection. Again, it goes both ways. This comes from a divorced guy so go figure. ;)
They're afraid to end up alone for the rest of their lives when they lose their girlfriend to someone else. (Am I wrong, guys?)
You're right but see above.
I usually treat women with respect, but I still think guys are allowed to disagree with girls about a variety of matters though!
Absolutely! A relationship is just that a relationship that is being molded each and every day. I guess the key is to sometimes agree to disagree.
I however, don't blame women for being loose. I do think they have too many images in their mind about their perfect partner though, and because of this they've been rejecting some really nice guys, simply because they have these unrealistic demands.
...and we, as a society don't put unrealistic demands on women? Really?
AJ, how much time do you need to get ready after you wake up? 20-30 minutes? Get up, brush your teeths, shave, quick shower, put on your tshirt and your jeans, quick breakfast and off you go. Granted military taught me to speed up that process so I can probably be ready in 15 minutes if I have to.
Ladies usually need more time, don't they?
You think women shave their legs and if we're really lucky other areas (yes, I'm selfish here :) just because they want to? Do they put on all that make-up, eye-liners, lipsticks, hair treatments, etc. just because they want to or is it because we as a society put such demands on women from the time girls turn into women? See my point? They're flooded with images of what's expected of them, tv shows, magazines, friends, etc., etc. from early on.
Yes, they do turn down many good guys but we guys turn down many good ladies. Every now and then I get a facebook update on a friend, ex-girlfriend announcing the birth of their child or marital status update and I think, what the hell was I thinking? Why did I break up with her? I'm certain you and many other guys have those moments too.