nomaderol, seriously, the only one you make sense to is yourself. I try not to read your posts after I made a mistake of getting involved in a conversation with you about the etiquette of gift-giving. At least that's what I thought it was, until you turned it into some kind of socialist manifesto, or.. who the hell knows what it was. I suspect most of us here, after falling into the same trap once, quickly realize what's going on and treat you like a harmless lunatic. I seriously hope you are young.
Few rules to help you out: don't lie, don't pretend to be somebody you're not, don't assume that anyone believes what you write and most of all, read your posts couple of times before you send them.
i thought i'm the only one who doesn't understand him:D or maybe i don't want to understand.after reading first sentence of his post i always give up.
nomaderol tell me because you didn't do it the last time i asked you. what is your connection with Poland? are you signed up in forums about every country and you spread your pseudo-intellectual theories also there or is it just Polish forums? you said you had never been to Poland, you don't know Polish people . what are you doing here? just curiosity.
What am i doing here? i dont know. if i really knew why i am here, i'd do somethings useful.
i was pulled onto this polish dancing stage. with many people dancing and many many sitting in chairs silently watching people dancing. i guess she was interested to see how i can dance in public. but, hey, i dont know any dance and being one without any dancing partner, i am rambling around on the dancing stage like a headless rooster. what can i do? all i know is world socialism and such things. so, i doing solo dance. my this crow of socialism may pull her to dance stage to dance together? however, i am not sure anymore if she is still there silently sitting in chair and watching people or not. maybe, she didnt like my crow. maybe, she pulled me here to let me know there are also many others silently watching people dancing. maybe, another pair of eye or ear can love my crow, who knows. but, i feel eyes strangely staring on me. if i say you are beautifuls, those pair of eyes will look at me strangely with a mixture of jealousy and hate. what can i do. if i stay motionless on a dancing stage, i can be different and this way, maybe, i can get attraction of some beautiful eyes of silents. but, they not pitying me and i unable to scare them either. they just stay motionless sitting over there. i dont know what to do. i became a like a stone here on this dancing stage without any movement expecting one can hear my crow scream yell and show me how to dance together. maybe, they waiting orchestra to play a better music, who knows, a world socialism song. damn orchestra, they dont have such a song in their repertoire? i need to do all myself? but, i am a macho. if i had a partner, she could write such a song. maybe, one is waiting for orchestra to stop this music and will give a song to the orchestra who will play her song and then she will join the dance, who knows.
I keep hearing this about Polish women not being different, but I really don't know what to call it then. I've seen English girls, a German girl, Czech girl, all very nice and the main thing they felt no need to totally ignore me and cut me off after the relationship ended. Then I see 2 Polish girls, one as a girlfriend one as a friend, a third I knew much shorter time, all very nice girls, but all with one thing in common... all feel they need to totally ignore me and cut me off all with little reason, all about things which could be sorted with communcation, that I would get when I fell out with the English girls or the German girl. How can people tell me they aren't different?? How can there be so much coincidence?
there are different people everywhere.personally i'm on good terms with my ex-boyfriends(i'm Polish) the behaviour you describe is strange.
but we don't know you. you show us only 1 side. maybe there was fault on your side too which made the girls ignore you...you should ask them if you are not sure why they ignore you instead of asking opinion of strangers who know neither you nor your ex-girlfriends.
but of course PF experts know best. they can define everyone on the basis of subjective description. this forum's becoming a place where people come to cry out their grief and talk about bad experiences. do we have a psychologist on the forum?
you are making stupid generalizations ..really. you claim 19 mln polish women are the same as the 2 girls you know.silly.
i'm waiting for you to say it's a part of Polish culture... how many times i have read this here..
I'm writing here because they were Polish so it's related. I am not saying 19 million women are the same, just that the ones I met have something in common. The first was a relationship, that broke down due to distance, so I was partly to blame, but the friend I have, I am surprised. Just we fell out because I had a low mood and happened to repeat some things. But after 8 months as friend I'm surprised that it can't be talked about. She refused me any chance to talk about it. I am just saying that the girls I knew all did the same thing, not giving a chance to talk, just cutting off any chance even to reason with them. I am as surprised as anyone, as I honestly can say I didn't do anything so bad to make these girls just want to never speak again, and doubly surprised due to how great many Polish I met were.
I think talking to a polish gf once a week is more than enough.There is no communication anyway and both sides get bored. Polish women are not reacting.You need the money dope.
I had good communication first time around until the end, then it was cut off ice-cold, but this time with this friend, just really hard to talk to. What's your experience then King?
I had good communication first time around until the end, then it was cut off ice-cold,
This happened because she found a new bf 100%.
but this time with this friend, just really hard to talk to.
There are polish women who don't talk.Sometimes it is better if they don't talk and let their body show the emotions.I mean they are passive.Passive and submissive and may not talk.
What's your experience then
My experience is that polish women are very intelligent but lack practical skills.Basically they can keep cold and aloof despite what you offer them and then change and become affectionate etc.They are largely unpredictable.But I don't pay much attention to them since I have other gfs who are easier to handle and smoother.
So I just don't concentrate on polish.Polish happens but it is not my goal.
I've noticed this, saw this girl just after Christmas, got her a present, seemed affectionate but by the end of the night, after Cinema (a place where you don't talk anyway) we somehow got in a moody conversation about personalities and differences etc, then the next day said she doesn't want to talk again. Probably best to not get so into these girls and get new ones on the go, you're right, else would go mad. Where are you living?
I asked her why she didn’t want to have sex as much as before and her reply was that sex wasn’t an important part of a relationship!! I’m sorry but I was gob smacked at this you see I’ve always been told that its one of the most important parts of it, it is how you show what you feel for the person your with?!
Well, to women, it's more than just sex. Maybe she didn't feel that you really loved her, was just interested in the sexual part of the relationship. Maybe this explains her moodiness. Women want to feel loved first, everything else is second. Her stopping the sex was a way of testing you. If you really loved her, sex wouldn't matter that much. Love and sex are two different things.
Women always use sex to get what they want.If they stop sex,it means that they don't like sth or want you to change sth,or give them sth.They usually tell you what if you ask about it directly,for example does it bother you that... or make the offer they want directly but if you ask straight,what bothers you or what you want they answer nothing and keep silent,so you have to be intuitive about that because we men usually fail to make the appropriate connection,I mean how is it possible to make it if they don't speak?
right man in their minds of all females: rich, handsome, sexy, good character guy and satellite who will listen her like a dog.
when they are unable to find such a complete one (impossible anyway as richness and good character can't be together), they omit some of these step by step when aging more and more. those who trust their pictorial beauties prefer the first, rich guys (by using the concept "love" to cheat the rich guys) as they think that once they get the rich guy, they can find occasions for handsome or sexy guys. indeed they do and they can play these handsome sexy guys as their dogs. never belittle women. they are smarts (!) creatures.
problem? life is short to do all these in a short time. rich males too are smarts (!) enough and they make such females their dogs.
Do you think, that girls don't like guys who think, just those ones, who listen to their orders? Man with no character? No.
sexy
He is "sexy": I might think. Will every other girl think the same about him? "Sexy" isn't a scheme: for instance: tall, well-build, dark-skinned and black-hair Latin American.
handsome
Isn't every woman "attractive" in different way? The same for us: every man is interesting or "handsome" in "his own way".
these are not real adventures and not real challenges.. these are simple night things making people learn the real problems which require real challenges, without escaping.
Good character is ok ;)
it seems it is the least important thing.. is there any character in a world in which money dominates all relations?
money dominating not only daily life style of all, but, also night lifes as it is the money determining who will be with who at nights.
should dominate or should not dominate.
this is a critical question. every one answer will have an effect on the gears of economy nowadays slowed down, almost stopped. minds are locked. every small word and every small action will have a butterfly effect that may generate storms.
we somehow got in a moody conversation about personalities and differences etc, then the next day said she doesn't want to talk again
Don't assume that women know what they want. That can change from moment to moment. Just remember to keep this in mind: With women it's all about them(selves). The female brain believes that (she) is the center of the universe. All else stems from that. This female condition is probably evolutionary.
Well, to women, it's more than just sex. Maybe she didn't feel that you really loved her,
You assumed that he wanted sex and she didn't. Perhaps her mood changed when he was so talky instead of amorous. On more than one occasion I've had women upset with me because I didn't take our relationship all the way.
for humans beings it "starts" in our minds which are in fact very often locked.
if they are very often locked, then, there is a very hard thing there that locks the minds.
she answered then just put the phone down. Really makes you feel great huh?
you must already be used to this. when you somehow reach a boss (not so easy at all, they are humans?) who close the phone first? my guess is you wait for him to put the phone down first.
The female brain believes that (she) is the center of the universe.
if this is not so, then, male brain is the center of universe?
i dont see any difference between male and female brains. being a feminist or antifeminist is a thing confused minds do. such minds think pictures are speaking.
