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All Polish women can't be nutters can they?


scrappleton  - | 829  
2 Jan 2010 /  #91
Western women can actually say and behave the way they want.

Well, you can for awhile..

Beauty is a short-lived tyranny.
Socrates

Pretty Pollack  - | 1  
2 Jan 2010 /  #92
I must admit I only read the first page of Polish Women being " Nutters" , I'm not sure if i am about to repeat any comment already made , but i have to say ;

Given the age difference perhaps you weren't really being realistic about the relationship, after all given the age difference , there is a HUGE difference between early 20's and 30's , as for depleting your income , if that was you way of trying to accumulate her love then perhaps the next time you attempt to buy something you should at first make sure that it is for sale first .

I hate to sound cold or insensitive to what you have experienced , you clearly loved this girl , but if the feeling wasn't mutual then unfortunately that's how it goes sometimes , you did after all come back for another try , she must have been worth it .

It's not that Polish women are harsh or cold hearted , we just know exactly what we want and have been raised not to settle , we are treated as princess's by our Fathers and have very high expectations of the men that want to be in our life as we turn into women .

I have had men do incredible things to try to gain my love and be unsuccessful , it's not you , the same same as it wasn't any of the men from my life that weren't successful , it just that they weren't the right person for me at that time .

I'm sure that you will find someone wonderful that will truly love you and that you will be very happy with , and as for your Polish Girl , you got to be with a much younger beautiful woman , most men never have that opportunity ... Keep it as a warm memory , and good luck :o)
BrutalButcher  - | 386  
2 Jan 2010 /  #93
we are treated as princess's by our Fathers and have very high expectations of the men that want to be in our life as we turn into women .

Excuse me...are you a girl or a guy? According to your nick, you are a guy, but then you say "you were treated as a princess" LOL
George8600  10 | 630  
2 Jan 2010 /  #94
I stopped reading half-way through. While she is the problem, the fact that she is Polish is indeed irrelevant. The fact that you made obvious mistakes is relevant though. You should have told her to stop kissing you and pecking at you after the first declaration of your ending of the relationship so you two could have gone your separate ways without having done so while being in a relationship which seems to have caused the most hassle and disturbance. Clearly it wasn't meant to be, and obviously a friendship couldn't have worked out. If you like Polish girls so much, then try again; but the fact that she was so dithering wasn't because of her ethnicity mind you.

ps. Did Southern get banned? I can't click on his profile haha.
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
2 Jan 2010 /  #95
One thing i have seen is that Polish women seem to like to just make a decision to stop talking to someone, and not even talk and reason with that person. Well, i can say that for three i have known. Although time will show if its true of my current friend too. Is it part of culture or coincidence? I didnt experience it with any girl from other country.

Heh, i just read the first page more, i've met some nice ones, just they have a different mentality, god knows culture difference maybe. They seem to have a unique brand of mentalness. i had a mental experience with a pretty Polish girl and was lucky not to get her pregnant. She got her new black guy to get me to leave while grinning at me, and never spoke to me again. I can laugh now, poor guy, they have a baby and guess what, the guys American, and she wants marriage, hahaha. Must laugh.

Met a very nice girl recently, just friends but wow talk about changeable, its very tricky to talk to her. For the thread starter, remember you can fight back and be evil too. You will know more for next time, and maybe use them. Most importantly, you will feel better...
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
2 Jan 2010 /  #96
Western women can actually say and behave the way they want.

Western women have become spoiled as they have garnered more freedom than men in both law and culture. Unfortunately they abuse these freedoms as western societies have not held women accountable for their actions and behavior. This has started to change.

We've come a long way baby.

Yes, it's been very noticeable how slut-like western women have become. That's nothing to be proud of.
scrappleton  - | 829  
2 Jan 2010 /  #97
We've come a long way baby

What is this? A Virginia Slims ad?
king polkakamon  - | 542  
2 Jan 2010 /  #98
She got her new black guy to get me to leave while grinning at me, and never spoke to me again. I can laugh now, poor guy, they have a baby

Degradation.The pol-groids generation.
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
3 Jan 2010 /  #99
The more i think whats happening with me now, the more angry i get. I start to think if its ok in the Polish mindset to treat people badly, then it can be ok in mine.
SzwedwPolsce  11 | 1589  
3 Jan 2010 /  #100
its ok in the Polish mindset to treat people badly

Stop those generalizations. How many Polish people do you know? There are as*holes in all countries.
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
3 Jan 2010 /  #101
Sorry, her words, how polish are 'honest' therefore not thinking of others' feelings when saying or doing some things. Its made me feel bad from 2 people now. Maybe just me, i should see it as honesty
BrutalButcher  - | 386  
3 Jan 2010 /  #102
The more i think whats happening with me now, the more angry i get. I start to think if its ok in the Polish mindset to treat people badly, then it can be ok in mine.

Man, I don't knwo what's worse in your case. To be left and replaced by some negroid or to have been with a girl who is into negroids :/

Haven't you considered a HIV test? Hmm?
king polkakamon  - | 542  
3 Jan 2010 /  #103
If you get involved with just one polish girl,you will get crazy.I have 4 and even cannot feel relaxed.One is too much.2 better.4 much better.The more you have the better it is.

My advise is ''do not pay any attention to anything she says and focus on the give-take core.''
SzwedwPolsce  11 | 1589  
3 Jan 2010 /  #104
Sorry, her words, how polish are 'honest' therefore not thinking of others' feelings when saying or doing some things. Its made me feel bad from 2 people now. Maybe just me, i should see it as honesty

I don't know if you understood what I wrote. Even if you find a few Poles that are idiots, all Poles aren't.
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
3 Jan 2010 /  #105
Yes i believe that. Man i just wish i could show you these experiences, show you how this girl is, i can't explain it, i can't understand it, but it's something different.

King, i have definitely given more than i took. Just friends with the latest one. This girl has now decided we can't meet or talk again. A day after i bought her an xmas present. Something about me repeating things, and she cant understand me. Even tho we got on well recently. Was shocked, must have been in a bad mood. Wow she is up and down. But before she said we can't be friends, 2 days later changed her mind. Don't know what to think, maybe is serious this time.
SzwedwPolsce  11 | 1589  
3 Jan 2010 /  #106
Yes i believe that. Man i just wish i could show you these experiences, show you how this girl is, i can't explain it, i can't understand it, but it's something different.

I don't know this girl, but ok, let's say that she's an idiot. What should you do?
The sooner you move on, the better you will feel. The more you think about her, the worse you will feel.

If you get involved with just one polish girl,you will get crazy.I have 4 and even cannot feel relaxed.One is too much.2 better.4 much better.The more you have the better it is.

By the way, does the name "Southern" remind you of anything?
BrutalButcher  - | 386  
3 Jan 2010 /  #107
How old are you Barr? Be a strong and don't let some braindead woman mess up your feelings.

Be like Queen Polka kamon

Actually, don't be like him...be smart and move on!
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
3 Jan 2010 /  #108
Hmm, sometimes she seems smart, sometimes braindead, she intrigues me, she's changeable like the weather. Oh and i am 30. I know, should know better, but those feelings cause havoc at any age
BrutalButcher  - | 386  
3 Jan 2010 /  #109
sometimes she seems smart, sometimes braindead,

She sounds like Megan Fox.
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
3 Jan 2010 /  #110
Shes seeing someone, maybe why doesnt want to meet me again. Its like law of averages. Had an insanely gorgeous pole in 2008 who was really better looking girl than i get usually, although bad ending. Then see one who is pretty and my type in 2009. Got nothing more than a kiss and a screwed mind, haha
SzwedwPolsce  11 | 1589  
3 Jan 2010 /  #111
Come on, these things happen. That's life. Just move on! This is your chance to be strong.
Ironside  50 | 12383  
3 Jan 2010 /  #112
Anyone like to hear my story?

no, I don't care one bit about your story, feck off

I-S (another boring sucker
f stop  24 | 2493  
3 Jan 2010 /  #113
At the risk of sounding stupid: everyone wants to fall in love with someone that will love them back. For women, that sometimes involves figuring out if the guy wants anything more than a steady sex partner. Guys worry if she's just after the money. Language barrier makes that part more difficult and long lasting.

As for the original question? Yes, all polish women are nutters. They simply cannot have any respect for guys that put up with all their sh!t.
king polkakamon  - | 542  
3 Jan 2010 /  #114
I let my polish kochanies fek other men and then come back for the last word.No burdens whatever.

she's changeable like the weather

This is slavic quality.I don't pay attention anymore to mood changes.But if you pay attention,vodka helps.(so you will start to resemble slavic men).

This girl has now decided we can't meet or talk again. A day after i bought her an xmas present.

Typical manipulation.She is afraid that you bought the present to entrap her to have sex with you.The advice is to buy the present AFTER and not before.(this is not true for czech girls).

Anyway enough with advice because negroids and paki-pakis may read as well.
wildrover  98 | 4430  
3 Jan 2010 /  #115
She is definatly nuts , but its because she is a woman , not because she is a Polish woman ....There are some lovely Polish women , i have met some , i have also met some nutters , but not just Polish ones , they are to be found in every country....

I have been looking for a nice woman for a few years now , i didn,t care what country she was from , but seeing as i live in Poland a Polish girl was the most likely candidate , as it turns out my special lady turned out to be a Russian lady one thousand miles away , it makes dating a bit difficult , but she is worth it...

Guys , try to discover if the girl is a nutter before you fall in love with them , and don,t mistake sex for love...if she shows the classic signs of being a nutter , then get rid , and keep looking... The nice ones are out there , but sometimes they take a bit of finding...
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
3 Jan 2010 /  #116
I don't care if she gets other one, just want a way to talk to her again, then whatever happens. Just interesting to observe her. Sex isnt possible right now, theres other girls, but that one has my mind a bit, for now. Now we are not talking, i don't want to chase her but if i don't she may not talk again. Just strange to fall out with another Polish.
nomaderol  5 | 726  
3 Jan 2010 /  #117
if she shows the classic signs of being a nutter , then get rid

you didnt mean really that, did you?

when i meet a nutter she runs away quickly cause no one is more nutter than me. i was laughing behind them when they do this. but, lately, one tried to become more nutter than me. hmm, we are challlenging on that road. we gaining anything? it seems no. i think i will let her win to be most nutter one. maybe, then, she can understand being a nutter is a waste of time. bad thing is i am wasting time to teach them without gaining anything. anyway, life is to waste it, maybe. do we have somethings better to do.
wildrover  98 | 4430  
3 Jan 2010 /  #118
Well if you like nutters thats just fine...be happy with one... I have been pretty lucky in avoiding nutters well mostly , but last year a Latvian lady came to stay at my farm with the posibility of us begining a life together...to cut a long story short , i wound up putting her on a bus back to Latvia ..... if i hadn,t done that they would have been looking for her with sniffer dogs...

She took insane jealousy to a whole new level , did my head in completly , i don,t need all that stuff , i just want an easy relationship with a bit of trust on both sides , constant fighting is not my idea of a relationship...
nomaderol  5 | 726  
3 Jan 2010 /  #119
no, i dont like fighting either. i guess i trying to take suchs to my side (socialism, etc) as suchs are in chaos in life and having critical times. it is difficult to find one with my criteria. almost all girls are like machines following same thing, as you know, money. maybe, i can be lucky one day to meet one who will say hey nomad, i too am a socialist, believing in true love and challenge etc. then, it will be easier. but, i havent met such one yet, except some fake ones.
Barr_2009  1 | 252  
3 Jan 2010 /  #120
What would you guys do, if a girl you were getting on fine with said she didn't want to meet or speak again? Since it's an overreation, would you chase her, or think that she would get back to you?

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