I wonder what in the meantime happen between midgeure and this Polish girl. Are they now a couple or what happened? Or have I missed something? LMAO I'm a nosy person I know lmao
Good word, richer. Each failed relationship should be viewed as a learning experience on the road to finding our eventual mate. We should learn from our mistakes, as well learn what we like and don't like in a partner...
Not always, it depends on the partner you had! Sometimes your own feelings cheat you and a time later - back into reality you realize what a nasty taste you've had! Such things are not necessary to know, sometimes it's just a waste of time!
I don't think it a complete waste of time if one learns from it. If only learning not to always trust their feelings... I think this a necessary lesson to learn.
Hi there, i don't normally do chat rooms etc cos i'm a bit old fashioned - would rather pick up the phone or meet face to face, but i typed into google 'what are polish women like' and ended up in this chat room and was very interested in your (and only your) opinion, so perhaps you could give me some advice?
I have been seeing a polish woman for almost a year now but she has a boyfriend and 4 year old child who live together which kind of scuppers your suggestion that all polish couples don't cheat and have true love etc etc. But, i'm not here to argue with you and agree with you with regards to English women which is probably why i was attracted to this girl, now here's the situation:
Beleive it or not i am a 1 woman guy and very loyal (yes there is a few of us) and when i 1st met this girl i knew about the kid but she told me the Dad was back in Poland and they were over so i continued to date her. By the time she came clean with me i had already begun to get feelings for her so i continued to see her on the condition that after 6 months if she wasn't prepared to leave her boyfriend i would have to end it and move on, which i ended up doing, but after 2 months without seeing her i got back in touch and restarted the relationship.
I wish to this day i had left this girl alone as soon as she told me she had a partner cos now i'm madly in love with her and again we are discussing her leaving him but i'm worried that she'll do to me what she's done to him??
Her side of the story is that he was the best boyfriend in the world till they had the kid then he turned into a lazy prick who never heped out and still doesn't even go to the park with her and their daughter which i know is true cos she always rings me every night from the park when he's not there, she also says he never plays with the kid either, and her worry is that if she leaves him for me and we have a kid i'll end up just like him and she'll be in an even worse position than she is now!
We both want kids (in her case more kids) but there's no way she'll have another with him so we've kind of met a dead end! I know she loves me cos she texts me about 20 times a day at every opportunity and we see each other during the day all the time when the kid's in school and he's in work as i'm self employed so i work around her.
Anyway my question is - Are some polish men like this or is she making him out to be worse than he is to justify the affair and do you think i could trust her fi she did leave him and we started our own family once she's seen i'd be a much better father than her current partner or once the relationship (sex) starts to get a bit stale as it always does do you think she'll start another affair?
Your advce would be most appreciated Thanks Scotty P.S She's very pretty both inside and out and loves animals. Also, she doesn't seem as up her own arse as british girls which is what got me as 99% of british girls with her figure and looks are twice as ugly inside, is this true of most polish women or can some of them be as pretentious and devious as uk girls?
Get rid of this one Scotty, she's taking you and the other guy for mugs. If he is so bad she should have just left him and started another relationship when she was free to do so! There is no acceptable reason to cheat, if you are unhappy with some one and you can't resolve the issues just go, there is never a reason o humiliate some one by cheating on them! This woman is just hedging her bets because she's too weak to be alone! In answer to the main quesion, what are polish women like, some are really nice. some are ******* same as the rest of the world! You hear more about the bad ones because in a small group of people they stand out. The bad polish women are nightmares but then so are bad english women it's just easier to avoid the bad english ones because you have a better understanding of them and flaws are recognisable sooner.
Thanks for everyones advise it is exactly what i'm thinking already but (and cos i love her there obviously is going to be a BUT), according to her he was the perfect guy till he got her pregnant and now she's stuck and can't leave him cos of the kid and i know 100% he's a rubbish dad and maybe partner (i'll take that one with a pinch of salt) but as a dad he's a knob head, so do i pursue this girl and offer her the life she wants or am i seriosly blinded by love? She's told me she wants more kids but there's no way she'll have more with him but at the same time she's worried i'll turn out just like him and she doesn't know us brits as well as the poles? ? ? ! ! ! Tough one, maybe i'll give her a dead line and let the penny's fall where they fall???
. Also, she doesn't seem as up her own arse as british girls which is what got me as 99% of british girls with her figure and looks are twice as ugly inside, is this true of most polish women or can some of them be as pretentious and devious as uk girls?
(quote from scotty) you are sadly deluded, men and women are all the same never mind what passports they hold, if you have been attracted to pretentious and devious women in the past why would this one be different?
Noticed this and wanted to drop my .02. I have been married to a wonderful polish/canadian woman for 20+ years now. Best thing I ever did. Polish women are traditional women who actually care about the happiness of their man, plus they are beautiful. They have been brought up by their mothers to understand the importance of family. This is contrary to the masculine sluts that pass as women in the west. Most of them have been brought up by their mothers to be ****** so they can catch a man, but then he has to be dominated by them while they grow old, fat and ugly. I have never understood why my married male friends put up with it when they could dump the ***** and get themselves a loving Polish or Russian woman who will truly love them and be their companion.
Without question, if you want to be happy for the rest of you life, get a Polish/Russian/Czech woman to be your wife.
Really one has to find the key for every category of slavic women.It took me years to find out about the knob of czech women till by accident one Ceska explained me everything.She gave me golden advice and after that I got about 10 czech milenky although I stayed very few days in CR but I visited repeatedly.
The same I had no clue about Polki till I found out how it works.Once you get the modus vivendi it is the same in every case(almost the same).The basic principle is czech women search for boyfriends polish women search for husbands.Then there are lot more things.Czech are good in the regard that as long as you keep your part of the agreement they stick to theirs.They never scam you or surprise you or get hysterical.No heavy mental games like the ones played by polish and ukrainian women.(although the latter have certain advantages especially in terms of performance Polki being the top).
Artist Liroy gives some description of some daughters of Poland.
In general Arabs,Turks etc tell bullsh1t about relationships God loves you etc while we Balkans just go direct and grab the naughty Polki.When we appear all other guys sweat they know the sh1t will hit the fun.The point is to smash the stereotypes/For example they ask me:How does it happen that you are so white are you real Greek?Because they may think that darker guys are more manly.A common misconception as Balkan power proves.It is like a bomb in a heavily populated area effects are enormous.
They can be fun if you get them in the mood. For example, I had a fun night of cards last night (with my wife, of course). Competitive seems to come with the territory. A lot of Polish women like to state what they have as they have a seeming need to validate themselves.
A lot of Polish women like to state what they have
I complimented recently one of my Polki for her handbag and she reminded that I paid for it.Then I saw her taste on boots and she informed it was one of my former presents.So a decorated Polka acts as a messenger to her kolezanky who tend to gather to the source of benefit and upgrade.
I had a fun night of cards last night (with my wife, of course).
You played strip poker?Generally I have found out some polish wives can be kochanki of other men it is a situation of excitement not sth I complain about.
Property? Hmm...not so much. I don't think neighbourhood is that big of a deal for many as the lay of the land isn't like that. Not like in the UK or US. Living in blocks is hardly sth to be ashamed of here. I live in a small block but the interior is lovely. Polish women are happy enough if their place is well equipped.
Polish women are naive in a way and believe everything sb says.This makes them easy target for natural liars like Turks etc. Let's see the turkish way of pick up: -You are very beautiful.Where are you from? -I am from Poland. -Poland?Oh,I LOVE POLAND.(sets his head back and semicloses his eyes like dreaming).I LOVE POLISH PEOPLE. We Turks and Polish friends. -Thank you. -God loves us all.I love you.You are from Poland.
Greek way: -Hej where are you from? -I am from Poland. -Do you like mademoiselle the Greece?Poland Pope Lech Walesa.I am a fan of Lech Poznan. -Have you been in Poland? -No,but I think it is somewhere in the north.I had a polish girlfriend.
As to the OP, I could quote Morrissey and say, "why don't you find out for yourself?". Generalisations are no substitute for seeking out compatibility. If you fail, then you fail. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
It is pointless asking what are people from such and such county like. This forum is seemingly dominated with such nonsense.
My most recent Polish girlfriend was a screaming manipulator and she wondered why I turfed her out after a couple of months of living together. It is very easy to see through manipulation. I have also met a couple of Polish girls who actually tried to do something for me rather than sponge and manipulate.
They try to manipulate by mental games usually it is a connection to non limits sex which she restricts on demand or plays with lots of men to create contrasts in feeling.In this way a man would melt if there were not for the Russkaye and Ukrainki who manipulate usually by reference to manhood(Russkaye) and extreme fluctuations of mood(hot cold Ukrainki).As a steel a man goes through all these hot cold situations and becomes a very strong bear or a vodka lover in slavic cases.