Harry7778
20 Jan 2014 / #1
Hello all,
I am currently living and working in Poland for over then a year and I am married to a Polish women.
My wife her parents are since I got a job daily asking, calling us and ask if we earn enough, if we can live of it etc...
We dont wanna tell them my salary as it is for my private information and nobody have to know what I earn. They think now that we earn 1600 - 2K per month. But since I got an car they think I am rich and they sending my wife letters and asking if I can pay their bills of 200 zł per month as they take all the time loans, wasting too much money on groceries and addicitions they are not able to pay their bills and going in a mood like; see now your dad has to go on bike to work instead of car.
How could you advise to handle her parents? They think that I am able to pay them rest of there life and I gave them earlier money but they never paid me back.
I am currently living and working in Poland for over then a year and I am married to a Polish women.
My wife her parents are since I got a job daily asking, calling us and ask if we earn enough, if we can live of it etc...
We dont wanna tell them my salary as it is for my private information and nobody have to know what I earn. They think now that we earn 1600 - 2K per month. But since I got an car they think I am rich and they sending my wife letters and asking if I can pay their bills of 200 zł per month as they take all the time loans, wasting too much money on groceries and addicitions they are not able to pay their bills and going in a mood like; see now your dad has to go on bike to work instead of car.
How could you advise to handle her parents? They think that I am able to pay them rest of there life and I gave them earlier money but they never paid me back.