treasure
25 Nov 2014 / #1
I have been with a polish guy for almost 2 years. I love him dearly. But i fear it is about to end because i have expectations he said in a relationship that he cannot manage. In January this year I discovered he was checking his emails for profile pics sent to him from a dating site..He says it means nothing. It has hurt me. And in doing this it feels he was still looking for someone else. I am English. The dating site was polish. Secondly . . Sex is a major problem. He claims he doesn't need it that much. A sexual relationship to him isn't that important and i should consider myself lucky to be with him . His lack of care and attention to my needs are having a negative effect on my life and not being wanted in a relationship by him is making me so unhappy. Every time I try to talk to him he is nasty and sarcastic causing me to be frustrated even more. It's like he really doesn't care how i feel. I know he is tired. I appreciate that and don't see him for nights during the week. But when the weekend is here he prefers to play games to unwind and relax than spend quality time with me. We see each other for a little while during the week but almost just as mates. Is this relationship the normal type of way for polish guys..i hate to say that but I just don't understand him as a man..maybe it's a culture difference too big for me to handle. We spend 3 nights a week together but he would rather sleep or play phone games than share ourselves. Yet when he is on holiday from work he wants me around in his company.. He never ever instigates sex though..definitely never during the day. And rarely at night . I know i am not ugly.. In fact I get a lot of attention but i only want it from him. I feel totally alone and lost when I should be feeling so happy. If i didn't love him it would be simple for me to walk away..as i have done from others. He is 36.