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Are Polish and Slavic men perhaps a little bit insecure sometimes?


Sasha  2 | 1083  
2 Oct 2010 /  #61
Probably the first thread where I fully agree with Nat and sympathize with him being treated so unfair.
Nonsense, different people prefer different types. If you see something as insecurity or babyhood another gal may see that as sensitiveness and zest for life. I believe you need to date a Muslim Caucasian to feel that difference...

As for being selective... well how many men here do you think would like to date you considering all you've already said?
Pinching Pete  - | 554  
2 Oct 2010 /  #62
Muslim Caucasian to feel that difference

?? the only one i know is Cat Stevens.
Sasha  2 | 1083  
2 Oct 2010 /  #63
Not racially Caucasian PP but geographically. Here's what I mean.
southern  73 | 7059  
2 Oct 2010 /  #64
I just don't understand why men are so self absorbed and de-masculinized these days.

I think you need a powerful,macho balkan man who will make you feel secure.Next destination Belgrade.
convex  20 | 3928  
2 Oct 2010 /  #65
Guesswho. The poster (usually a reliable one) sugests No Nonsense too. The style and content of posts don't exactly contradict this. :-)

Doesn't take a rocket scientist...
Natasa  1 | 572  
2 Oct 2010 /  #66
Next destination Belgrade.

Not possible. Her narrative is a no no here. Disqualifying.
After pulling investment from talking to just looking stunning, she would be taken as a serious mating partner. Selection is very strict here.

Belgrade sex/ relationship guide:

Musts:

1. 170-180 cm tall (175 is preferable)
2. good legs and rear part
3. slim and fit
4. silent
5. pretty
6. good hair (long)
7. always styled for covers of a decent family type magazines (make up, but not too visible, she has to look like she made herself look like that in 5 min, while actually army of beauty experts were running around her for hours)

8. acting joy while in a submissive role
9. age 25-28

Basically she has to look like high profile (well educated) prostitute who is still a virgin. I don't know how they manage that here, but it's common.

Not allowed:

1. big boobs (considered primitive, good for f*ck , but not considered as a serious option)
2. hint of feminism
3. too much talking, being well informed, but not to loud about it
4. sex or petting on the first date, she has to pretend she doesn't want it at all, and never had it before (basically she has to burn out till his first move, usually a week or two)

5. talking about previous relationships is ending communication, for eternity
6. she can not complain when he is staring at other women in her presence

If all requirements are fulfilled she can choose.
If something is missing then she will get a lousier exemplar.

They know (and have) very efficient ways (and means) of calming upset and unsatisfied women ;)

Crow can make corrections if necessary.
Amathyst  19 | 2700  
2 Oct 2010 /  #67
I understand you don't want loonies coming in and posting irrelevant "nonsense"

Said the selfconfessed "princess"

Be ashamed, be very ashamed, as for "western European men" how many do you actually know? Yet another stupid generalisation! Made by another stupid person.
southern  73 | 7059  
2 Oct 2010 /  #68
I see you stole my list.

I am more generous as to allow big boobs and sex on the first date since otherwise Polki would not fulfill the criteria.
Natasa  1 | 572  
2 Oct 2010 /  #69
I see you stole my list.

I see that Balkan has one list.

allow big boobs

Big boobs and nice lower back with good legs are in negative correlation.
Women bodies can have only one center of mass.

"The center of mass or mass center is the mean location of all the mass in a system. In the case of a rigid body, the position of the center of mass is fixed in relation to the body. In the case of a loose distribution of masses ...."

This loose distribution is again a NO NO!

sex on the first date

I understand. There is no second date, so this rule had to be removed;)

I forgot one thing, she has to be skilled in all sexual disciplines (previous experience with 3 to 5 partners who's names will never be mentioned).

More than 5, 6 is called a "walking disease (carrier of STD's)", less than 3 " piece of wood, meadow (passive)," etc.

I have to say after doing all on the list they are very grateful and rewards are generous and frequent.

Serbs have, thanks to international isolation, succeeded in slowing down the deconstruction of male/female roles.
So, for women who crave for a dominant over self confident macho good looking guys Belgrade is still a good choice.
No insecurity here.

After those pics nobody will read what I wrote:(
king polkakamon  - | 542  
2 Oct 2010 /  #70
The center of mass or mass center is the mean location of all the mass in a system. In the case of a rigid body,

Exactly.Slavic women have flexible bodies except the czech ones.The center of mass among Polki is on their butts but if women are tall they show their boobs instead of legs to be more feminine.Serbian girls have abolished the laws of gravity.

Here we see the croatian center of mass.
trevness  1 | 17  
2 Oct 2010 /  #71
No Nonsense is right what she says about Polish men, they are very insecure ..
OP No Nonsense  6 | 68  
2 Oct 2010 /  #72
I have known many and they are very selfish and childish.

Serbs have, thanks to international isolation, succeeded in slowing down the deconstruction of male/female roles.
So, for women who crave for a dominant over self confident macho good looking guys Belgrade is still a good choice.
No insecurity here.

This is why I switched to only dating Slavs

As for being selective... well how many men here do you think would like to date you considering all you've already said?

I don't care what men here think I don't need reassurance from them, its just that in real life these kinds of discussions are pretty much prohibited and socially unacceptable so that's why I am showing my true colors on a forum. Many of the men are quite selective to and they seem to understand where I'm coming from with it. I'm not unreasonably selective like a nazi lol, I know I'm never going to find someone I'm perfectly happy with but some things like how confident he is and how he dominates, as well as his body type and height are quite unnegotiable. Its a natural thing for humans to be selective in who they choose to be intimate with, we ALL do it. Its life.
f stop  24 | 2493  
2 Oct 2010 /  #73
then your add should read something like this "a spoiled, self-absorbed daddy's girl looking for a Slavic (read: white) man to dominate me". You'll be a big hit at a proper dating site, I'm sure, not here though, please!
OP No Nonsense  6 | 68  
2 Oct 2010 /  #74
You're an idiot, because that has nothing to do with what I'm talking about. You keep trying to act like its only because of my own romantic interests that aren't being fulfilled but what I'm talking about is something many women are tired of and the men are always biased and saying its my fault because I'm a little selfish brat and thats very unfair and belittling. The reason I think they do this is because their insecure and don't know how to be men because our society is so prosperous and all they do is play video games and live in an imaginary fantasy world. I'm not looking to date anybody on here. I just want to discuss why Slavic men these days are becoming so wimpy and effeminate, like the Western men. Men these days have adopted feminine traits (even non gay ones) and do things women do and I'm sorry this is just not attractive to me at all and it is very frustrating. As a traditional, feminine, confident woman with a strong personality I feel like a minority because there are hardly any decent men to choose from that go along with my values and are not insecure or wimpy. I actually strive to find a sensitive man, but one that isn't insecure or has feminine traits.

Not racially Caucasian PP but geographically. Here's what I mean.

That's scary. Actually I can tell the difference easily, I don't need to go on a date with one. There's a difference between a guy who takes care of you and makes good decisions rather than one who forces or smothers you to be or think a certain way. I always have a good sense for things, I trust my gut instinct. When I sense something to be true, it always ends up being true. I could go into more detail, but I don't feel its necessary.
f stop  24 | 2493  
3 Oct 2010 /  #75
You're an idiot, because that has nothing to do with what I'm talking about.

Hello Allison!
;)
trener zolwia  1 | 939  
3 Oct 2010 /  #76
Slavic (read: white)

Always implying someone is a racist...

You're an idiot

Indeed, she is.
Eurola  4 | 1898  
3 Oct 2010 /  #77
Back in the 90's I took a 'princess' to a South African vacation. Of course back then I didn't know better. Never again! This is similar to what we experienced.

The clip is so funny! What movie is that? I'd love to rent it.
OP No Nonsense  6 | 68  
3 Oct 2010 /  #78
Indeed, she is.

You know someone had to pull the race card eventually.
trener zolwia  1 | 939  
3 Oct 2010 /  #79
Eventually?? Lol... With a whiny PCer like Fstop it's every other post.
You'll see. ;)
Chicago Pollock  7 | 503  
3 Oct 2010 /  #80
Agreed. Sock puppets Allison and No Nonsense. Not Guess Who, content is different.
Eurola  4 | 1898  
3 Oct 2010 /  #81
Agree. She doesn't seem to have a clue how easy it is to notice the style. Some "doubles" at least make the effort to sound different at first.
OP No Nonsense  6 | 68  
3 Oct 2010 /  #82
I have no idea what you're talking about, but I am not a previous member if that's what it is. I think its quite odd that you're saying I'm someone else when I'm not and what was so wrong with the last member? It seems to involve some kind of scandal or something.
Chicago Pollock  7 | 503  
3 Oct 2010 /  #83
Agree. She doesn't seem to have a clue how easy it is to notice the style. Some "doubles" at least make the effort to sound different at first.

Yes, clueless.
OP No Nonsense  6 | 68  
3 Oct 2010 /  #84
You have to admit though, you were fooled at first. I'd say I have pretty good acting skills, I can be pretty convincing. Your reactions made me snicker so hard that I had trouble typing and thinking up new posts.
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
3 Oct 2010 /  #86
The clip is so funny! What movie is that? I'd love to rent it.

This 1980 film is called; "The Gods Must Be Crazy"

answers.com/topic/the-gods-must-be-crazy
Best watched with a glass (or bottle) of wine.
f stop  24 | 2493  
3 Oct 2010 /  #87
What I remember about Allison is her expression: pseudo-evolution, her concern about blond genes pool being endangered because of hair bleaching (that's when I tied this thread to her - her strange expression about guys wanting her for her genes), and the thread about being afraid of authority figures, but white men only. Apparently, that is turning into a sexual fantasy for her.
king polkakamon  - | 542  
3 Oct 2010 /  #88
I foresee for her happy life under a serbian leash.
Natasa  1 | 572  
3 Oct 2010 /  #89
At least it's not an electrified leash. Germans have those. But they are for men ;)
And the Serbian owners are generous unlike Germans.
trener zolwia  1 | 939  
3 Oct 2010 /  #90
You should have kept your ruse going. They didn't know for sure, they were just guessing/ grasping. As they always do when a newbie shows up saying things they don't like to hear...

electrified leash

Nata being ornery today! Maybe we need to get you a leash?! :p

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