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Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
16 Nov 2010 /  #1
Let me see, last time I contributed here was ... so many months (or years) back! ...

I've been here with another ID since the day the forum started. At first a non-regular member (without a registered ID) and then a regular one (with the request of some friends I made in here).

Those times the most popular topics were "I need a polish girl" ... "Polish girls and interracial relationships" ... "Polish men and foreign girls"....

Today when I browse through ... its the same argument ... the same fight ... the same topic over and over again!

Polish men going for UK girls, Irish girls, Asian girls ... why and how and should they or shouldnt they? ... How they are betraying the foreign girl or their own girl!... I mean curiosity is one thing and making it a continental issue is another =D ... the worst part is when hate messages keep pouring in =(.

I used to chat here usually when I was single, a student and then when I got into a job. Since I got married (I'm a Polish and my wife a Korean) I didn't come here much. I remember how much hatred somedays will show ... so heart wrenching.

There were actually some of our dear European friends trying to imitate an Egyptian or Indian or Pakistanian and making silly beggings for Polish women ... One can see it easily!

Lol guyz ... there are enough Polish women for our own men and for other men who WOULD LIKE TO FIND LOVE anywhere they can! ... Love can be anywhere ... any place.

I just men an American couple ... I mean the man was an American and the girl Polish ... the girl was not the most attractive Pole ... but they looked happy. Infact they were interested in mixed couples ... any kind of mixture ... and were highly intellectual. They were both white but two different cultures.

Guyz it really looks good ... when you can fill some love in your heart and eyes! ... Anything made of love looks beautiful ... try and accept love as it comes ...

No Polish-Polish or Euro-Polish relationship has any better chance than a Polish-International relationship. Infact the latter one might just have more to offer. Open your minds, and open your heart ...
SeanBM  34 | 5781  
16 Nov 2010 /  #2
Yeeeeaaayyy LTB s back!

I've missed you LTB, you are as always, a breath of fresh air.

And married now, ooooOOOOhhhh!!! congradulations!
I remember you had a thing for Asian ladies, cool, I hope you are both very happy together.

So how's life, love and happiness?
OP Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
16 Nov 2010 /  #3
@SeanBM: She is ... beautiful to say the very least =) ... cute ... they look so innocent =D. Its been months of marriage and she is lovely, she now is more closer to my mom (something I always wondered if could happen).

My father was ok about it, my mom was nervous. My siblings and cousins enjoy that they have a Korean in the family =D ... and no one asked her offending questions! I guess I am proud of my family ... we have a very traditional one with respectable relations.

We have a wonderful time ... God bless ... The Christmas I am looking forward now!

I am happy ... life's alot different ... busy mostly ... I want to do my best with all my responsibilities and do as good as my dad did for me to my future children =)!
Natasa  1 | 572  
16 Nov 2010 /  #4
look like Serb which is acceptable.

I think you wanted to say adorable.
OP Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
16 Nov 2010 /  #5
Children are always adorable for their parents. Those parent who sit to plan the child's color or race or religion ... are not the kind of parents I've come across as "good". Love cannot remain immortal when confined with the bondage of material ... it can only act as an attraction or detraction at a very initial phase depending on your personal attitude and value sets... in the long run it makes no difference, if Love is what have gotten you together.

The mathematics of tomorrow's world is not going to be skin deep. I am happy that some Poles are looking at love, not the color of skin, and I hope soon more will also not look at the religion of divide ... but the belief of unity and love to unite!
SeanBM  34 | 5781  
16 Nov 2010 /  #6
no one asked her offending questions!

:) Family are funny sometimes...

I am happy ... life's alot different ... busy mostly ... I want to do my best with all my responsibilities and do as good as my dad did for me

Good man, you always had a good way of putting things.

I met many Koreans when I worked in London, used to teach them, they were very friendly and told me some interesting things about their country, I would really like to go one day, have you been?
southern  73 | 7059  
16 Nov 2010 /  #7
I guess you chose Korean girl because she could accommodate you and feel dimensions O.K.

I think you wanted to say adorable.

Yes,a Serb is always a charm for the eyes.
OP Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
16 Nov 2010 /  #8
@SeanBM:

I've been in Korea (by the way its South Korea I am talking about).

Her father is North Korean though ... her mother is near the North of South Korea as it goes.

I've met Japanese and Koreans as well as Thais in Lodz (where I am from ... and University of Lodz too). All were friendly ... some my type, others not!

I loved the way Asians look. But now this girl was (is) a total picture perfect =D ... I had a little fear when proposing her, I mean she takes great care of herself ... really perfect =). But she is quite innocent and we started dating.

Her parents were abit skeptical too... but I convinced them of my commitment, and they allowed. Infact I myself wanted that we would convince each other's parents for this. I know its not the usual way these days, but I somehow felt that I wanted to involve my parents and her parents too in this. I love my mom and dad, they are truly special for me ... and infact all my family. We are warmly knit...

The marriage was in Poland ... but we had a ceremony in Korea aswell.

I was careful in not making anyone uncomfortable ... and I can say that I have been reasonably successful =D ...

I guess you chose Korean girl because she could accommodate you and feel dimensions O.K.

Could you elaborate southern?
SeanBM  34 | 5781  
16 Nov 2010 /  #9
I somehow felt that I wanted to involve my parents and her parents too in this.

Again congratulations!

What do you think of S.Korea?

People usually only talk about the South, so I just assume when people say Korea, out loud, that they mean South Korea, they whisper North :)
Hiltiboy  3 | 19  
16 Nov 2010 /  #10
Lodz_The_Boat
Czesc, I really like the way you have expressed yourself about your family about your responsibilities and love, spread the good news mate, Cheers
George8600  10 | 630  
16 Nov 2010 /  #11
Love can be anywhere ... any place.

"Love is composed of a single soul dwelling and inhabiting two bodies." ~Aristotle

"Southern is retarded..." ~Socrates
OP Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
16 Nov 2010 /  #12
I think South Korea is quite good ... infact everyone should visit. Its a bustling place ... the city is beautiful, the people proud and efficient.

I found it to have a very good infrastructure ... there are things which Poland can learn from them.

Respectful people, nice little kids =D ... some interesting hair-cuts ... welcoming friendly people! What else can a man want? ... I mean specially when you have everything working perfectly for you, everything look beautiful anyways =D ... and South Korea is a lovely place to visit!
Natasa  1 | 572  
16 Nov 2010 /  #13
you forgot to mention that you are half Greek.
OP Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
16 Nov 2010 /  #14
I am completely Polish ... or are you asking that question to southern? ... lol =D
southern  73 | 7059  
16 Nov 2010 /  #15
Serbs are known as the most handsome people in the region.Especially Serbian women are from another planet.But I will try to import as more Slavic genes as possible to reach the heights of Slavic beauty.
Natasa  1 | 572  
16 Nov 2010 /  #16
lol =D

I said that to half Greek known here as George.
OP Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
16 Nov 2010 /  #17
I don't think that self descriptions that involve fractions are good for anybody.

There are no fractions really ... a human can be a human only. People have created divisions, national identities and what not ... so being politically correct, people use some of these things.

But its ur life ... live it.

What is THIS? :)

Its Laugh Out Loud ... used in internet communication mostly.

You seem new here ... anyways ... have fun! (everyone is mostly new compared to me anyways)
southern  73 | 7059  
16 Nov 2010 /  #18
I heard that in North Korea they give hotter BJs.
Natasa  1 | 572  
16 Nov 2010 /  #19
There are no fractions really

i was thinking only about the way people perceive themselves, nothing more.
people can choose many characteristics as cores of their identity. I am a man, husband, lawyer, son, from Warsaw, catholic..etc.

For me fractions in self descriptions look "unhealthy" in a way that they can signalize some kind of fragmentation or a good way to achieve the same. It's just the way I see that.

Its Laugh Out Loud ... used in internet communication mostly.

thank you, I knew that, signalization on the end was looking strange =D, this .

You seem new here ... anyways ... have fun!

Thank you :)
jarnowa  4 | 499  
16 Nov 2010 /  #20
Welcome back Lodz_the_Boat,

Unfortunately your happiness didn't help you to think more realistic.

Just look at the facts:

-the majority of all 3rd world immigrants to EU is male.
-many of them are young and single (or they pretend they are).
-many of them are more interested in Caucasian females than in females of their own kind.

this means many extra competitors for the same amount of white females, making it more difficult for the average Caucasian guy to find his dream girl.

so these 3rd world guys are undeniably a threat to white guys' interest. who are you to tell white guys not to fight what threatens them?

Polish should mix in my opinion strictly inside the continent and avoiding certain individuals(Albos etc).

well said, my balkan friend. :)
George8600  10 | 630  
16 Nov 2010 /  #21
you forgot to mention that you are half Greek.

Yes half Greek and half Polish!!! ps why is that whenever I respond to one of Southern's posts or threads you crop up? Are you actually him? lol. Or his GF?

I am completely Polish ... lol =D

I am half Greek and half Polish! My mother is completely Polish though.

I said that to half Greek known here as George.

You also forgot to mention the half Polish part T_T

I heard that in North Korea they give hotter BJs.

With the famine that's going on there, your sausage will go missing....

Its Laugh Out Loud ... used in internet communication mostly.

In the Balkans the internet isn't well known...they are still in the days of dial-up. It's why all their ultranationalist websites and forums are made with bad html and look like they're from the 90's.

well said, my balkan friend. :)

Socrates is very upset with you... as if there is even a noticeable difference. My mix is as mentioned above and many people think I look Italian.
Paulina  16 | 4338  
16 Nov 2010 /  #22
so these 3rd world guys are undeniably a threat to white guys' interest.

I don't think this is the reason why you can't get yourself a girlfriend, you racist... LOL
pgtx  29 | 3094  
16 Nov 2010 /  #23
Let me see, last time I contributed here was ... so many months (or years) back! ...

well well well... look who's back... :)

Since I got married

i thought the hope is gone.... CONGRATS, łódko! :)

"Southern is retarded..." ~Socrates

lol
A J  4 | 1075  
16 Nov 2010 /  #24
Let me see, last time I contributed here was ... so many months (or years) back! ...

I remember your postings. Always about peace and love. (I always thought you to be some kind of Guru, but that's okay!) Hey, I'm glad to hear you're happy and doing fine!! I wish all of us could say the same, really.

:)
Natasa  1 | 572  
17 Nov 2010 /  #25
In the Balkans the internet isn't well known...

That was an attempt of a joke!
It's not successful.
But, you are getting better !!!!

I look Italian.

You are insecure...
So you are half greek half polish American who thinks he looks like an Italian.

Are you aware how bad this sounds?

ultranationalist websites

Everything makes sense now. Don't go there anymore, otherwise you will decompensate.
George8600  10 | 630  
17 Nov 2010 /  #26
First off I am half Polish (non American) and half Greek (non American) I am a first generation American. Secondly, OTHER people tell me I look Italian...not myself.

Only in the Balkans....

The future of Greece and the Balkans:

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jarnowa  4 | 499  
17 Nov 2010 /  #27
I don't think this is the reason why you can't get yourself a girlfriend, you racist... LOL

another one getting personal because she can't deny the facts.
let me guess, you are also one of those Polish girls selling yourself cheaply to 3rd world guys?
Natasa  1 | 572  
17 Nov 2010 /  #28
First off I am half Polish (non American) and half Greek (non American) I am a first generation American

Like I already said?
Still sounds bad.
You just changed the order of the words and added some brackets.

I am a first generation American

Congratulations, you are on the top of the food chain there.

I look Italian

shorty?
Paulina  16 | 4338  
17 Nov 2010 /  #29
another one getting personal because she can't deny the facts.

Well, somebody had to tell you the truth :)
Btw, what "facts"? lol

let me guess, you are also one of those Polish girls selling yourself cheaply to 3rd world guys?

Hehe, firstly, I don't sell myself to anybody, cheaply or not.
Secondly, I don't think I've seen many "3rd world guys" where I live (and it's southern Poland :)). But I've seen two Asian women lately, having a walk with a cute little Asian girl :) I don't know whether they were from the "3rd world" you're talking about, though :)
A J  4 | 1075  
17 Nov 2010 /  #30
let me guess, you are also one of those Polish girls selling yourself cheaply to 3rd world guys?

Let me guess, you always talk like this to a lady?

another one getting personal because she can't deny the facts.

Who's in denial here, I wonder? Hmm? Has it ever occurred to you that *you* may be doing something wrong? (Hey, not that I'm perfect!)

;)

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