My Polish Relationship Marriage ..story to be told. [USA/PL]

Well put. For the life of me I don't understand these guys chasing second or third world birds. Date an American, they're of the same culture, they're well educated and as good looking as any other. KISS (keep it simple stupid) life is difficult enough. No need to complicate further with foreign girlfriends who don't have the same values, ambitions, etc.

Well I was trying to set-up a life with this girl so she could have her family, and that is what I thought she wanted, her kids to be playing in the backyard in the summer in Poland visiting her mother and father. So she could have her freedom to do this. It was more the fact this girl was immature even at the age of 29 years old, and has a lot of growing up to do. She wants to be a mother, but doesn't. She blames me for asking her to settle down with her. From what I understand, once a Polish woman creates an emotional bond to their husband, they will never really fall in love with the next guy.

The immaturity, may have to do with coming from this small town in Europe, never really being exposed to this big city life, and its all new to her. She is really still growing up, based on never really experiencing this lifestyle for herself. I'm just going to let her have it, and if she comes back to me, then so be it. We can always remarry, down the road, but at this point I have squandered to much energy into this woman for this to continue without divorce. That legal binding agreement could really screw over both parties if lets say she gets hurt, she has no health insurance, I would have to front that bill. So I'm simply protecting myself at this point. She wants to have a life without me, but I'm not going to be bound to this woman legally. She wants to stay married for some bizarre reason, but stay separated not living with me, its just immature rational.

Once she gets a nursing job, they will only get 1-week off for the first year. Won't even be able to see her family. She doesn't even know what she is getting into. She probably thinks prince charming is going to sweep her off her feet. These girls are brought up on American television. That is how most of them learn the language. So they really don't have a real world understanding. She may even have an issue with her father demanding children of her. I really don't know at this point, her father is a hard working, good guy if you ask me.

When the sex-in-the-city syndrome wears off, she will realize.

From your posts the differences between you and the misses is cultural. This is One World but we all don't think alike. The only foreign women who will come close to American are English and Canadian, due to the fact that our institutions came from the same source but there will still be cultural differences (not as great). And they speak the same language (huge!). So if you want foreign that's the place to go anywhere else will be difficult.

this story you told is REAL LIFE happening everyday all over Poland