How to find an English speaking boyfriend in Poland

Be careful not to find a K9 man.Just kidding.

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PCers have been brainwashed to be knee-jerk hypersensitive to some forms of discrimination while openly practicing their own. We see this hypocritical double standard all the time over here.

So much that I have become a pro at spotting it. B)

Choose Polakow by choice.

No offense, you need to practice more ;)

Umm, sweetheart, I'm not the only one here who noticed your displayed double standard.

Well, I'm not gonna try to convince you against something that doesn't exist. If you don't wanna read and understand what I wrote I'm not really bothered.

Topicstarter, if you could choose between a nice and average looking Polish guy and a Nigerian you would even choose for the Nigerian because his native language is English?

I hope you are not that mental. :)

But to help you, you should look at couchsurfing.com. There you can select the language of the person you're looking for as well as the town.

Beware that most guys on there expect sex in return for offering their couch.

It exists.
Clearly you have expressed a preference for one type of people and disinterest for another while decrying someone else's suggested preference. And this is likely because you have been conditioned to see one form of discrimination as evil while viewing your own as acceptable.

Just because you fail to see it or refuse to admit it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Since you need some more thorough insight I'll provide. The difference is - I explained in detail why for my personal reasons I choose to be involved with certain group of people. Without deprecating the other group. That is called preference.

The other guy though openly decried a group of people. That is called discrimination.

If you follow your philosophy - when you choose strawberry ice cream - you discriminate against vanilla.

Hey, guys what`s wrong with you? She prefers english speakers than others. Discrimination is normal. I discriminate ugly girls and prefer sexy. One day I may wake up and say to myself - "damn, Now I want to meet only greek/italian girls. And This is absolutely NORMAL".

I didnt see any double standards..She made it clear what she was looking for and got attacked for it...Men go on about what they want all the time on this forum..But because a woman did it..She got hauled over hot coals!


You've evidently never been to Italy or Greece or you'd have noticed that there are MANY beautiful women that hail from these countries *why do men talk such shyte on this forum*

While visiting Warszawa one of the hotels I stayed at was the Westin. There were many business travelers there from around the world. Most of them spoke English fluently. Have a drink at the Hotel's piano bar and take a look for yourself :)

Shellys


I probably know better Italy than Poland, and in Greece I have been several times.

But what`s your point?


Yeah I agree. But, read my post once again. The point of my post is not beaty of european women but discimination, and my prefernces were only examples, of discrimination wchich is present in our life. Discrimination in positive meaning.

If You still don`t understand , You should exchange the word " italian " and put there blond.

The sense won`t change. ;)

Sure.


No he didn't. He expressed (or suggested, rather) a preference.


Sort of. Let me see if I can explain it better this way...

Suppose you came here and stated that you wanted an English speaking American or Brit, etc. but you further stated that you didn't care for Indians, Muslims or blacks.

This would be fine. It would be your preference and you are entitled to it. It's your heart and your body and you are free to share it with anyone -or not- for any reason you so please. PC be damned. There is no "racism" here at all, only preference.

However, the problem -the hypocritical PC double standard- comes when were some else to intone that they prefer or dislike particular groups of people, for whatever reason, and you jump them for it, as you did.

As Jeden pointed out, you DO discriminated with your preferences (against the Polish, against the Russian speakers, the ugly, females, midgets, platypuses...) and that's fine. We all do it. But you can't then turn around and say someone else's preferences/ discrimination is wrong and yours right.

PC is inherently loaded with such hypocritical double standards and society has been brainwashed into hypersensitivity over it. That's why it is utter crap. You saw the word "white" and knee-jerked. Forgetting for the moment that you yourself were indeed discriminating too.

One person expressing a preference for English speakers is no better or worse than another expressing a preference for whites.

I'll say it slowly S H E L L E Y (the other S is optional)



I took it you were suggesting that Italian and Greek women were ugly..my mistake.. :D


It is slightly, anyone can learn English regardless of their colour, a black or asian person cannot become white..Besides she said mentioned Saffers..they speak Afrikaans she also said Samoans, they speak Sāmoan..

S H E L L E Y


My apologize, Lady.


I like them rather ;)

Thats fine.. :0)


I was at school with quite a few 1st generation Italians and a few Greeks so I find it really hard to believe when men call them unattractive, both the boys and the girls did well for attention at school..

This discussion is going off topic now. I understand what you're trying to say but I don't agree completely. I still think that there is place for both terms- preference and discrimination -and they don't mean the same. Maybe it's about the way one describes things, maybe it's about the hate factor or the lack of it. Being brainwashed is not the right way but denying the whole issue isn't either.

Fair enough. But hate is entirely another issue. I haven't seen anyone express any hatered here, only preferences...

I could argue there.. That's why I reacted the way I did.

Greek young generation looks very good now it is difficult to differentiate them from russian or other balkan women.Italian women look clearly mediteranean.This mediteranean look has both advantages and disadvantages.(big breast,big bottom for example) but it is matter of taste,of preference.Slavic women have an edge though in general presentation especially the way they talk,freedom of movement etc,mediteranean are too stuck up and have thick cover.

You mean they dont fall for your BS?

Welcome to PF. ;)

Never a Norwegian?! NEVER! :(

I mean that the game in mediteranean is played on another level due to sovial conditions.A man has to sell face to be connected,wealthy,be normal,have a good car,good job,respectable friends,control his environment,visit high status places etc.Of course with all this competition and the abudance of good looking relatively wealthy men,many men have to lie to show they are better than they really are and the game tops up with air.Women do the same in this regard " lying" about personal appearance by heavy use of make up and by playing mediteranean style hard to get with 100 tricks and double swords.

Slavic women put us out of this difficult condition since most of the former requirements do not apply and if you play good you get results without the social consequences.(only long time cinsequences).In general the good thing with slavic women is you do not have to balance you let your superiority shine while in a local environment this would be challenged you have to fight and respect and keep the average(too many stereotypes and protection).

Aw don't be sad..Norwegians are pretty cool too! ;)

You should put on a T-shirt with logo ''no Pollocks allowed.''

Oh it's you again...Your thoughtful and profound advice has been a real revelation to us all. Thanks...

Getting to the point again; are there not dating sites available that you can use? I'm sure there are English-speaking men out there similarly frustrated with Polish women (for all sorts of reasons.)

The thing is that I don't particularly like those sites- so will need to manage differently. But thanks for the tip!