I have met girls on gadu gadu at 16 who are super smart like that chick from the chat I posted she even revealed to me she lives alone and works and is doing amatura from homesomehow (home school or zalicznie or something). Shes basically ahead of me in life since I lost everything from my immigration and prison. WHy would you think a girl at 16 who lives alone, travels and knows what she wants can handle all that but its the worse thing in the world if she has sex with me? or a guy in his early 30s? Whats wrong with that if she chooses and its legal in Poland? Why do you have a problem with it esp since I dont want kids or get them pregnant or marriage of even long term relationships just fun and friends with benefits.
I dont get your mentality or mentality of yanks and AMericans. Its ok to die in a war, live alone, work but sex with an older loser who happens to be attractive is the worse thing in the world for these girls?
It's not up to us to say what a 16 year old girl should or shouldn't do. It's her decision and no one here is saying that such a girl shouldn't have sex with an older man. In fact, this happens everyday in countries like Brazil, Philippines, Thailand, etc. If a 16 year old wants to have sex with even a 70 year old that's up to her. However, from what you've written today and in the past it seems like mostly the girls were fine with chatting with you but then got freaked out once you came onto them.
but sex with an older loser who happens to be attractive is the worse thing in the world for these girls?
Maybe not the worst thing but hardly good for them. AOC laws are set around early marriage (usually with guys not much older). They are most decidedly not set up so that teenage girls can hook up with horndog losers with stunted personality development and severe mental issues. There is no way that such a relationship can end well for her.
Therapy. Therapy. Therapy. You know you need it, why are you so afraid of it?
How bout this girl whom says she like me recently became an expat but her family moved her from Canada. Me and her have a connection already. Plus, look how hot she is. No 18 yr old girl is even that hot. You guys are seriously saying shes not ready for sex or wants it and you would reject her?
ibb.co/fBRm5G ibb.co/c9U65G
Here is another one with a great ass. You guys seriously would reject such a wonderful time for both you and her because of some big brother from usa morals if you had a chance?
I wouldn't say many underage girls hooked up with Polanski. To my understanding it was 1 or 2, and this was in the 70's. The culture in the west has changed a lot. Even with marriage and kids - it was common for people to be married and have kids at 17, 18, 19. Now that is very rare - at least among white people. Its mostly Muslims and blacks who get married super young and have a ton of kids at a young age. Even Hispanics practice this less and less because they've realized that you shouldn't have kids you can't afford and understand you should first have a steady job and ideally education if you're going to have kids.
But yes, women are attracted to money. An old guy who rolls up in a Mercedes convertible in an Armani suit is much more likely to pick up a 18 year old college freshman as a sugar baby than say some old dude who's driving some pos Honda.
It was way more than just 1 or 2. His accusers alone numner in like 7 and some of them were even younger than her and the oldest was like 20 even his current wife apparently was only 19 and he was like over 50. I look better and even younger for my ag than he for his age so thats the comparison. Btw, in Poland it is still common but only in rural areas you see in places like Jasien girls at 16 carrying cribs to the park.
"But yes, women are attracted to money. An old guy who rolls up in a Mercedes convertible in an Armani suit is much more likely to pick up a 18 year old college freshman as a sugar baby than say some old dude who's driving some pos Honda."
Or me. Like I said before, I was only used by them and everytime I try to make a connection with them even up to this day they use me and have power over me like those girls near palac kultury who tried to extort me for vodka and one was taking pics when I told her not to and acting like a fool running around trying to take my photo when I covered up. Like I said, I never even had sex with a girl younger than 20 in my entire life.
And my situation was always the same, whether here or America, whether I had a car or didnt due to duis whether I still lived at home or now alone, its always same.
Yeah but he is a rich and famous director. It's not about looks to many girls. Usually after high school and first few years of college, girls tend to care less about looks and more about personality, wealth, etc. Arguably, the most important thing to a woman is security. An old rich guy like Polanski provided her with that... or it was because they simply thought it would help their careers who knows.
Yea thats true sometimes, but it can be a risk because some women who are milfs look super good in clothes like dressed up but once clothes come off...
With all that cellulite and stretch marks? Gross...
nah. I'm not perfect neither. nor are you. there is no reason why one couldn't chose a milf that takes care of herself. Sure- gravity is still a *****, but "Kto wybrzydza, ten nie rucha" ;)
nah, but seriously- the best shags I ever had were with women 35+ years old.
They are most decidedly not set up so that teenage girls can hook up with horndog losers with stunted personality development and severe mental issues.
There's something in this.
Therapy
I think that speaking to the right counsellor could help him feel happy about who he is and where he's going in life. I suspect underneath it all there's a really nice person waiting for the chance to come out.
nah, but seriously- the best shags I ever had were with women 35+ years old.
One guy I know in Poland (early 30s, has a doctorate, good looking and a nice guy) only likes ladies over 55, sometimes quite a lot older. Different strokes for different folks.
In fact, this happens everyday in countries like Brazil, Philippines, Thailand, etc.
Majority of those girls are victims of human trafficking or are being coerced into prostitution.
His accusers alone numner in like 7 and some of them were even younger than her
If they accuse him of rape, child molestation, etc. then that means they didn't agree to what he did to them. So it's not the same thing as having sex with an older guy willingly. Do you understand the difference between rape or sexual abuse and consensual sex?
I never even had sex with a girl younger than 20 in my entire life.
You wrote on this forum that you had sex with a 16-year-old girl.
Perhaps. 35 may be okay for someone a bit older. 35 rounded up is 40, and at least for me that alone would be in the back of my mind the whole time. Although yes I've seen some women that were gorgeous even up to 40 and looked closer to mid late 20s
@Paulina In the us an adult who has sex with a willing consensual minor is considered statutory rape so its a bit different than whats traditionally thought of as rape/child molestation. This can even be a 17 year old high school junior dating a 16 year old high school junior, which is technically highly illegal. That person could then go to the federal penn and have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life if say the girls mom didn't like the bf and notified the authorities.
In Poland the age of consent is I believe 15, same as it was for nearly a hundred years. So technically the op wouldn't be committing any crime by hooking up with a 15 or 16 year old. Westerners including poles may find it unsavory, but it doesn't appear to be illegal in Poland. It's a personal/cultural thing. In my high school there were quite a few girls dating guys in college that were like 19 20 I think the oldest like 22, but not over 30. Nonetheless, in many countries marriage and sex occur even young i.e. Muslim countries, african countries, India, etc
That has nothing to do with the OPs sick obsession, that law is more about marriage and/or age peers not casual hook ups with mentally unwell guys over 30...
Again, a good guide for acceptable age differences between men and women as half his age + 7 so a 33 year old with a 22 year old (rounding down) doesn't seem too off. But a 33 year old and 16 year old is just weird and creepy and repulsvie no matter how you look at it.
Similarly a 50 year old and 32 year old seems a lot better than a 50 year old and 20 year old....
mafkesis, what makes you an expert of why they limit the age people can do what they wish with their bodies and have sex? what makes you know the reaosn behind the laws or why they exist? who are you? what authority? And youre wrong. It has nothing to do with marriage but sex. Marriage is usually not even restricted or a lot less than sex, aoc is usually just for casual sex. Usually married couples even young people in history were never punished for sex within amrriage even in usa today in places like alabama this is the case where girls could marry at like 14 still in some places and no one is going after the husands for having sex with them in fact its expected. Again if you think im wrong read about the widows of civil war veterans (the last ones and how old they were vs those old men when they married and started making kids or having sex and this is in the usa the ultimate western country by your standards or ultimate puritan county). SO dont be coming in here acting like you know anything all intellectual like youre somebody. I just found q uora article yesterday or quesitonaire where porn producer sin usa try to get girls as y7young as 18 to participate in this stuff even trick them, thats way worse than a handsome young looking and lonely guy having fun with a willing 16 yo in Poland where its legal. In your country things are legal that are way worse even related to sex. I dont spit on them or **** on them like most of the porn coming out of the usa stuff like facial abuse.
ANd regarding this comment:
"In Poland the age of consent is I believe 15, same as it was for nearly a hundred years. So technically the op wouldn't be committing any crime by hooking up with a 15 or 16 year old. Westerners including poles may find it unsavory, but it doesn't appear to be illegal in Poland. It's a personal/cultural thing. In my high school there were quite a few girls dating guys in college that were like 19 20 I think the oldest like 22, but not over 30. Nonetheless, in many countries marriage and sex occur even young i.e. Muslim countries, african countries, India, etc"
WHat do you mean western? So you consider poland western, but what about ukraine and russia where they had ls studio not long ago and still buying brides or online bride sites with young girls is common? Are those countries less western than Poland?
If Poland is so western you wouldnt have (or youd have cops do something about it) all these girls on gadu gadu at 16 selling their nude pics or at strip clubs people being ripped off and even drugged. Trust me even in your western land of usa you have people like hugh heffner flaunting having sex with 19 yolds at like 80 which is way more weird and nasty to the girls than a handsome 33 yr old guy having sex with them when they were 16 (same girls and you know they start early I love sluts and the fast life).
And regarding the quote about Polanski from Paulina, yea they were the ones who reported but imagine the many he had as like a 50 yr old man around the age I want now as a 33 yr old man who never reported him or found it wrong. Like Kinski for instance or his current wife (even though she was a whooppy 3 yrs older than the age I want even though he was like 20 yrs older than me now).
I dont mind going to the ukraine or belarus, like I said I would do it if I can start my business there and make money. I am just testing the waters and will see if Poland is eastern enough for my tastes. If rings exist, if young girls in villages exist, etc. I love the east lol. I love slavic lands and lawlessness and mafia. Thats my climate. You people forget I did time in prisons. I already lived hell and your western pro female pro protection of laws societies. I want the anarchy, I want the taboo, I want to live a little. But I dont mind moving east if Poland starts beocming to corporate and western. In fact if my family continues to send me money life would even be cheaper there as you can rent an apartment for like half the price as in Poland. Plus the young girls might like me more as russian in general look at me more of all ages. Cause I look and represent the east.
One thing Ive been told is when I get drunk I start revealing too much about me and getting a bit loud and overly laugh, yes I have low or weird social skills. But thats me. I get excited, because I am around so few people when a descent looking girl or woman talks to me so I may laugh a lot or get loud or opiniated. WHy dont they accept that?
Lol another thing with the young girls is how immature they are. I was talking to this girl named Kinga on facebook messenger and I tried to tell her a story or two but she never responded, and in fact even though we had long conversations a cojple times she never messaged me first just waited for me. Well I told her a story how I almost got in a bar fight recently and she didnt even have advice or want to hear me out. I apologised yesterday for telling her too much and writing to her while I was drunk. Shes 16 btw. But she repsonded in a weird way like I like that or something and I asked her if she liked that Im apologising or those drunk texts from me? She responded with another unclear answer saying No I mean that. Then I told her Ive been sober all day or something and she blocked me. WHy do these young girls act like that? WHats that saying, is males can never figure out what they want or whats in their heads? But it was funny because I kept writing Kinga, when she ignored me multiple times and I could just imagine myself outside her window yelling that and throwing stones at her house.
This is a new term I just learnt reading the comment section of this article: wiadomosci.onet.pl/kraj/areszt-dla-16-latka-ktory-zaatakowal-nozem-mezczyzne-w-centrum-wroclawia/hqc1w2p
Lol I need this in my life (at 15/16) I need it: miejski.pl/slowo-Karyna
Btw from comment section above, this sounds exactly like Praga district in Warsaw (I need to be more like this and how I was in California where I dealt with U.S. white trash maybe then theyd want me):
"Chłopie, przecież nikt rozsądny nie pcha się w te okolice jeżeli nie musi. Pasaż Niepolda to istna wylęgarnia patologii. W weekendy zjeżdżają się ziomeczki i karyny z całej okolicy i balują tam całą noc. Takim byle pierdoła starczy do sprzedania kosy pod żebra - wystarczy się na nich popatrzeć. Praktycznie co weekend widzę tam po kilka radiowozów na sygnale i karetki pogotowia."
Poland is at a weird intersectikn beyween east and west. Somethingkraine would be more up your alley. Belarus not as much. Yes hugh hefner was a rich old dude, the founder of playboy so no shyt he's gonna get laid by whoever he wants. Like I said, girls at 16 17 18 even up to 20 care
"Niedawno na Szewskiej pod Banana Dance Club też był taki, co się nie bał. Zmarł w szpitalu parę dni po tym jak go skatowało dwóch "patriotów" z patriotycznymi symbolami na bluzach."
It seems that the patriots or nationalists are the hardest in Poland. Are they hard enough to take on the russian or ukrainian bydlo though? WHen the two groups meet each other and you can twll pure cockyness, confidence, nothing to lose on both groups faces what happens?
Are they talking about banana in wroclaw? I go there all the time
Russian nationalists are great friends of NOP. The soccer hoolis I dk. Oftentimes they'll fight give each other bloody noses then go out for a drink together.
"Like I said, girls at 16 17 18 even up to 20 care"
They care about ages or about money?
Dirk, theyre talking about different areas of Wroclaw one guy seen crazy **** at some banana dance club the other at some street where parties are there all night between hoodlums and loose chicks. Pasaz Niepolda or something.
But drik Ive seen some tough russian faces here in Warsaw. One guy was mean mugging me in a bar and he totally had that flat russian face with nothing to lose. But you never see them around the hooldum aprts of warsaw but the good spots for some reason maybe so they can feel tough being ruskies?
I think it must be a long time since you visited Praga. The whole place has been 'gentrified' as they say in the UK. It's quite safe to go there any time, walk round it at night etc. Socially, it's very much a mix and has quite a burgeoning middle class.
Ahh meant to finish that.. nah I was gonna write that at that age it's usually one of two things - at least from my experience. Either they want a good looking popular guy from their high school/college or oftentimes the more slutty stoner chicks that age pursue relations with older guys bc they like being with someone more mature and one who has money to take them out, buy em liquor get em into clubs, etc but it's usually like 20 22, not 30 though. I like young girls too every guy does but 16 17 is pushing it imo. Then again girls tend to develop faster than men so on3 could argue if the girl is 16 and wants to date a 30 40 year old, who are we to judge? When I was a college freshman at 18 my friends and I were like all in competition to see who could hook up with a milf first. It's okay for young guys to do according to western society, but not so much women. It's a touchy subject either way
I think in almost all western countries only non white people live in hoods there or ghettos and in general the white males are sissy feminine metrosexuals. you dont see people like in thst wroclaw district described in thst onet.pl comment secrion of news article or certain parts of praga or sosnowiec who will stab you for looking at them wrong or chase tou out or evne chekc you just for going in some of those osiedles except poland and non west places in europe like romania, serbia, ukraine, russia, etc. thats the main difference why poland is still gangster and as east as them not france or germany. i didnt see one ghetto when i was in germany and even the street where blacks were dealing had young chicks by thrmselves feles afe enough to hang out or walk alone ther (warschaus trasse) and I saw one tough german dude get arrested as he was trying to fight people but he may not have been german and thats one guy or needle in a haystack. also, the difference is that youc ans till get things done withf avors or through acwuiantances unlike umerica where in poland no lawyers need to be involved hardly anywhere you dont need to constantly sign comtracts to prevent you from suing ppl like you do in america for joining any mma gym and you can get a job without background checks. its less corproate and lawyer heavy thats for sure.
but even germany, a county of the west is totally different form umerica when it comes to sex. almsot the whole world is. no country is so feminist, and extreme in protecting womens rights and girls and girls chastities and onsessed about age even if its only one yr difference than umerica. usa is not even west its a melting pot or crap of the world together.
to the guy who said praga district now is gentrified, i dare you to go inside this one osiedle i took a pic of before they tried jumping me or threatening me for no other reason is i was just looking at the mural and enjoying a beer inside their osiedle. Here is its picture:
go across from where this guy is pissing in thst osiedle thst has a getto praga mural and a back section with a bunch of heads just standing around all day you can see from the main street them standing there or doing some business. also its the most active osiedle in terms of people particularly young males going in and out. here is a oic of me i took im there but i only went to the back secrion for a sec when no one was there kicking it:
if you go to alternatywa or alternative warsaw tour the guide will tell you the main street particularly some osiedlas like this inside it is the worse in terms of murder or heaviest crimes in the whole city. Here is this main street where the osiedle is in one of he doorways to left:
i dare any of you guys to go in there esp all the way to the back area within the osiedle and come baxk out. i would double dsre you to hand out in there for even a minute and see what happens. ill pay you like 50 zloty if you do it lol. esp in mid day or night time. its right across a crumboing wall where fuy is pissing. One time I saw this young hoodlum teen guarding entrance on bike saying we got nothing right now or nothing today.
lol so I find out that 16 yo girl who lives alone ive been talking to on gadu gadu is a self sdmitted sociopath: ibb.co/exeeUb
lol so tske this forum and you guys really think i or you should csre about whats food for her or her feelings or somehow sex can damage her with me beyond what shes already damaged?
you guys really think i or you should csre about whats food for her or her feeling
If it's really a 16 year old girl then she is not able to make an informed decision. Not caring about what happens to her is something a vile socio-pathic animal would do. Start trying to be a better human being instead of justifying crap that you KNOW is wrong (you wouldn't be so desperate for people's approval here if you didn't know it was wrong).
Therapy, stop lying to yourself and others and get therapy.
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