it is a business transaction...
shame on them (as people, not as a nation)...
What I meant was that ... it is not a business transaction (such as the one you mentioned) that we are talking in here, it is about true marriage.
Such transactions are not unknown for any people ... what about men and women who CHEAT their way into a marriage and not inform the other party of their intentions. Atleast your example made it clear and handed over a payment. This means that both the people in such a dirty job were equally fraud.
As for the good people, you cannot just tag "shame on the people". You should scream "shame on the couple".
I have not seen any black going with a Polish girl atleast in my city ... surprising? Well, I don't mind if I do see one with a good black man who is responsible, but I just have seen Egyptian Indian and Bangladesh ... I've seen Turks and Persians but I were not that close with them to know what happened next. The ones I were friends with all now live happily with their children and wife (Polish) doing good in their lives. Enough for me to view things in the right light.
I do not deny foul play happening, but those happen among the desperate (probably mostly uneducated) people would like to get a good life in a more developed country. Do you know that the greatest frequency is still with Russian scammers? Go check statistics and dating site warnings.
Polish men (my own friend) was involved in such kind of business as to get men into USA with such marriages. I've had some American friends I met in such sites who had been victims. So does that mean I am supposed to be categorized in the same level?
Its easy to throw stones at others ... but before that look into yourself. If we point one finger at another person, the remaining four point at us.