6 months with my Polish girlfriend and I still don't understand her..

Polish girls definetely are, but a majority of them are also insane (in good and bad ways) as well

Thanks Ranj,

Yeah i feel bad, empty, lost, things that were planned for her birthday, Easter and other events are gone, just like that!

Yo Sparky, how long do you think you will keep on doing this to yourself. if you are in poland, i suggest that you take some time off to go and enjoy the view or go to clubs and try to get a date, it might take your mind off ( Easier said then done) but do try it.

P.S easy on the drinking. it will take your mind in her direction. ( which you dont want ) go out and do something wild.( dont get caught by the police though :) )

Thats one thing I haven't done, is drown my sorrows, I have avoided drinking, because like you say, the mind will think about her.

People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.
Thich Nhat Hanh

Listen to RazZ and Daffy they know what they're talking about! PEACE :)

Oh, I love him....very wise man:)

still i love that pingwin :)

its experience from the past. so yeah trying to help others learn from our mistakes. ( not the i recall it as a mistake):)

hearing postive and realistic advice certainly helps.

thanks :)

just give her what u need to give her and you and her will be okay
speaking as a woman

Understandle, you've only read the first posting, as you read on, you will see things have concluded.

Understandable (sorry, spelt it wrong)

Nationality make a difference? Sure it does; for some years, I was with a Norwegian woman, and I can tell you, a Norwegian is quite stubborn.

All women are stubborn. They can teach mules.

Yes. It's all very easy: with a Polish woman you can be right, or you can be happy.

Polish women are completely irrational bit who are rational anyway?I doubt if even Zimny has found any.

look man she is not willing to settle for you, move on as she is waiting for mister perfect.

I warn her not to wait.

dream on soutern

Some things are hard to understand and some aren't. What I don't get is how they can be in a huff and then suddenly cuddle up and love you. That's odd!

SPARKY > I too had a 12 month relationship with a polish girl and from the start there were problem's however I felt they were because of the cultural difference's however in truth they were not. I would of been very very wise to of walked away and with hindsight "Wish I had" but I did not and my hurt became more and more although at the same time my feeling's grew more.

With hindsight now you would be better to walk away and try to forget as I have had to do. It has been 14 month's since I last saw my ex' and although I have not met anyone as I have not wanted too do so I know very well that from previous "confusion" with other's with there polish partner's ..I will and would not EVER consider a relationship with a pole.

Forgive me (polish reading this) but polish girl's are meant to be known for being a headf**k and this is something which has been said by lady's and men from all the other EU country's inc' polish men.

Walk away & do yourself a HUGE favour that you will not regret : Forget her .

3 year old thread and you still posting.

What about all the men who made it with Polish women. I did not know that the relationship with Poles was prone to more failures then with other nationalities. Incredible.

hey man, it's incredible to read this for me. I kept trying to convince myself surely it's just me, for months and months, having met these 2 Polish girls, both playing games, hard to communicate with. Both stopping talking to me like I was worthless ****, again and again, I said to myself don't judge by the masses, don't judge by the masses.... honestly I'm a fair person, but there must be something about them. I just want to understand more. I've decided to try to know more just to see if they are all like this. 2 i knew for many months were like that. There were a few others didn't know well just stopped talking. Seems to be something, I'm scared to say here words like mentality, cultural. So I WON'T but what the f*ck is it?? They are different. Great post man.

my post was aimed as a reply to edelweiss' post...

Of course a lot make it with them, it just seems that if there is a problem in a relationship or friendship with them, they tend to run away from it instead of talking to sort the problem, and ....silence.... thus causing break-up.. of course not all like that but it seems to be a feature of their make-up

Polish Women are the smartest, most loving, hardest working, most altruistic, ethical and the strongest in the world. That's why They are so different than today's floozies. If it takes so long to understand a smart, altruistic woman than you should reach for a lower shelf and stick to one of different nationality, traditions and values.

I think you been meeting different women fisher, hah

Not even polish women say that.

my ex polish girlfriend was so loving, after 7 months, she decided she wanted black cock. she screwed black cock the night she got me to leave and never spoke again. Just so loving. So ethical!! .... And such strength to then stop speaking, or 'cowardly' different interpretations, ha.

Harsh. Very harsh.
That would have me downing a bottle of white rum and playing with the traffic.
Dumped.

Girls like this are already screwed in the head.Not a big loss.

It was damn tough for a while, and I'm talking for several months I was a mess. When I say she didn't speak again, I mean literally and utterly. Complete silence, so damn strange. The guy was American. She was good while I was with her, but the end was strange, like someone flicked a switch and boom, she turned into miss evil.


I think you must be right.

aphrodisiac>I in the last 3 year's occasionally check the site out and did this time to glean what was being said about the recent tragedy in Smolensk.

However I read the post that this thread started from and wished to reply < you have a problem with that !!??!! .. uh !

Barr_2008>Thank you Mister. Keep your Strength and dont waste your time to people who are not worth time.