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Met a Polish girl on the Internet, and I'm soon off to meet her...


ShelleyS  14 | 2883  
7 Nov 2009 /  #61
well then some would say its just luck of the irish lol

Or "Irish" eys were smiling! ;D
solarplexus  - | 7  
21 Nov 2009 /  #62
Oh, come on, reality check please!

From a girl's point of view, it is much riskier to meet some relative stranger from the internet. You are not going to visit her in another continent, we are in the EU for Christ's sake and you are a guy.

If you are having doubts, just ask yourself this: if I decide not to go and meet her, will I regret it?

I met my husband online, I went to the US (I have family there), we met. We've been married 7 years now.

Oh yeah, at the time we met I was barely 19 and till date I weigh 115 pounds / 52 kgs (that's to some of you talking about immaturity and internet swarming with whales).
nomaderol  5 | 726  
21 Nov 2009 /  #63
From a girl's point of view, it is much riskier to meet some relative stranger from the internet. You are not going to visit her in another continent, we are in the EU for Christ's sake and you are a guy.

he cant go to another continent? EU is safe everywhere?
why should he go? why shouldnt she go? no?
wildrover  98 | 4430  
22 Nov 2009 /  #64
I have chatted to lots of lovely ladies on the net....only met up with one of them , a Latvian lady who moved into my house....For two weeks it was perfect , then her insane jealousy surfaced , and made each day a nightmare.....I hung in there for two months , but eventually had to put her on a bus back to Latvia to save my sanity , what there is left of it....

Despite this , i belive there can be the right one out there , just a matter of luck to find the right one...!
Steveramsfan  2 | 305  
22 Nov 2009 /  #65
I met a polish girl on the internet too but it did not work out. She always went shopping when I arrived and always went straight to items she had seen before. When I stopped buying things she got a job. She would see me for 2 hours a day then work in the evenings.

I met a different girl who was working as a bar maid last september. I spend every weekend I can now in Lodz in her house, I am happy.

I put the first girl I met down to experience and moved on. I don't regret meeting the girl from the internet, take control of your life, don't just react to what life throws at you.

Go for it.
dara79  - | 1  
6 May 2010 /  #66
hello there how are u doing ?
skysoulmate  13 | 1250  
6 May 2010 /  #67
Liquidlove - of course this could work out - why not? I have a very good friend who met her husband on match.com, they've been married four years now and are very happy, 2 identical twin little girls make them even happier.

You are the only one who knows if you can trust her, just go with your instinct and give it a try. If things work out I'd love to know what website you used to meet a polish lady? One day when I'm ready to start dating again I might try the online dating myself... Apparently that's the way to go nowadays...

Oh yeah, at the time we met I was barely 19 and till date I weigh 115 pounds / 52 kgs (that's to some of you talking about immaturity and internet swarming with whales).

You have some good advice. Was your husband a Polish man living in America? What made you try the online dating and most of all, international type of dating? If there's anything you'd do differently what would it be? Are Polish women OK with moving far away from their families? I live in Hawaii so we're talking 12 hours away... What kind of advice would you give to a guy from a woman's perspective not to get hurt... Sorry about the many questions but I thought about a Polish or a Swedish (I was raised in Sweden - hey, Elin Woods is now single lol) online dating website but don't know much about it. I'm not quite ready yet but one day hope to be and would like to know all the how-to's... Thanks.
decor_ating  - | 10  
6 May 2010 /  #68
ask what she does for a living, ask specifically if she has done pûrn casting or some escorting

date or marry an Eastern European woman at your own risk mate
wildrover  98 | 4430  
13 May 2010 /  #70
I met a lady on the internet , not Polish , but one of those tricky Russians....drove all the way to Kiev to met her...had nine wonderfull days in a nice hotel , in a great city , with the most lovely woman i have ever met.....

Normally i would be very doubtfull about internet romances , but they have as much chance of turning out good as any other way of meeting.....

In my case it was everything i hoped for and more..... its not going to be easy to organise a life together , she lives in Moscow , i live in Poland , but one way or another we are going to be together....
Mr Grunwald  33 | 2132  
13 May 2010 /  #71
drove all the way to Kiev to met her...had nine wonderfull days in a nice hotel , in a great city , with the most lovely woman i have ever met.....

SO YOU DID MEET HER! Tell more! :D
Seanus  15 | 19666  
13 May 2010 /  #72
You met a Polish girl on the net, poor you! I was discussing this with my student just this morning. People aren't themselves oftentimes on fora. Brace yourself for disappointment.
szarlotka  8 | 2205  
13 May 2010 /  #73
date or marry an Eastern European woman at your own risk mate

Spot on. I've been married to one for 28 years, 28 years of happiness, caring, sharing and all good things. But I know she is just biding her time before something dreadful happens to me. I know there will be cynanide in my Horlicks one day soon. Beware all Eastern European girls. Decor_ating is a wise man - not!
Miguel Colombia  - | 351  
13 May 2010 /  #74
But I know she is just biding her time before something dreadful happens to me

She? You married a Western woman?
Seanus  15 | 19666  
13 May 2010 /  #75
It's a bit of a lottery, though. Something like the Magical Mystery Tour. Life is like a box of chocolates indeed :)
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
13 May 2010 /  #76
, a Latvian lady who moved into my house....For two weeks it was perfect , then her insane jealousy surfaced , and made each day a nightmare.

Beware; todays women 'feel' they have no responsibilities and are "entitled" to whatever suits them at-the-time which is always subject to change. Of great concern is the plethora of false accusations of abuse and/or rape. U.S. courts are now inundated with so many false charges that even the female attorney general of New York said, "half of all rape charges are false" and that's being generous. Here is a typical one (of thousands).

telegraph.co.uk/technology/facebook/7685381/Facebook-hacker-jailed-after-falsely-accusing-boyfriend-of-rape.html

Even though women in western societies have more 'rights' than men, it seems that too many abuse them.
espana  17 | 947  
13 May 2010 /  #77
Can i trust her on this?

NO!!!!!! she is polish.
STFU  - | 39  
13 May 2010 /  #78
Can i trust her on this?

Hey, she's a woman..

;)

Go figure!
espana  17 | 947  
13 May 2010 /  #79
Can this work out?

NO

her aunt even greated me on webcam once :P (in polish though)

did she show you her boobs???

im a rather sensitive guy

so you gay??

she probably isnt

of course she is polish

libra

now go to fu,,,, yourself

Thank you for help

you welcome
shush  1 | 209  
13 Jun 2010 /  #80
I wonder how the story finished...
pgtx  29 | 3094  
13 Jun 2010 /  #81
maybe it worked out... :)

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