Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression?

Zimmy seems to believe that the perfect woman should be exactly like a man.

Oh Amathyst, it is most obvious that I would not marry again and I make that clear to my lady friends. That should be obvious despite your erroneous projections. The judicial system is corrupt and indeed, I propose that no man should get married until the legal marriage racket is reformed.

"...the lonely nights you spend on here?"

Um, how many more thread have you logged here than me?.....lol


As professor Higgins said:

Why can't a woman be more like a man?
Men are so honest, so thoroughly square;
Eternally noble, historically fair.
Who, when you win, will always give your back a pat.
Why can't a woman be like that?

Why does every one do what the others do?
Can't a woman learn to use her head?
Why do they do everything their mothers do?
Why don't they grow up, well, like their father instead?

Why can't a woman take after a man?
Men are so pleasant, so easy to please.
Whenever you're with them, you're always at ease.

I laugh. I guess it was not a 23 year old Lebonese man in California who is responsible for the financial crisis?

Zimmy doesnt like boobies so thats why he wants women to be like men? hmm on second thought - many men have bigger moobs than women's boobs :S

So what's the worst thing a woman can do on a first date? Tell the guy he's fat, bald, ugly, past his prime and unendowed. Tell him his car is unmanly and leave the club with a guy who has a Jackie Cooper mini.

first date and she brings a wedding scrapbook she's been creating since she was 5 years old...

You're going in the wrong direction. Boobies are alright, the more the merrier.
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"what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression?"
She should not:
1/ Stare at his crotch
2/ Make strange noises.
3/ Tell him that Hitler was misunderstood.
4/ Tell him that she wants to have his baby.
5/ Tell him any man in pants will do, even him.
6/ Start talking about the latest disease she's got.
7/ Ask him if he thinks she looks like Andre the Giant.
8/ Ask him to make a quick personal hygiene run for her.
9/ Do a lot of knock-knock jokes and then tell him how funny you are.
0/ Tell him you are a feminist and that all men are creeps and you are a victim.

Ah yes, most important number one thing not to do:

DO NOT MALE BASH

if she starts bad mouthing men, most likely he will not want to go on a second date.

You get a Gold Star.

...and a hearty handshake with a pat-on-the-back.

Depends. Sometimes they do it in a jokey way, which is funny. (I like teasing.) If it's a friend, she can talk about men all she wants, although I will probably fall asleep if she's going to talk about them for hours. But you're right, if a girl says she wants to date you, or says she thinks you're a real nice guy, and then starts to go on about all the guys she likes so much better, then it would **** me off aswell. I mean, don't expect us to like it when you're treating us like a fool? If I did the same to a girl I was dating she'd be ****ed off aswell.


I don't mind really, especially not when she's funny and knows how to spice up every little detail. (I don't mind a few little lies either for the sake of entertainment!)


Damn right. I once had a date, and this girl was going on about Polish girls in town who were disgusting because they were sleeping around while they were abroad. Ofcourse she was such a saint, and ofcourse she didn't get naked on the first date. (LOL!) So girls: You really don't have to make yourself look better at the expense of someone else. If you want to make yourself look better, then just be you.


Depends on what they're obsessed with!

;)


I couldn't care less really, if I have it. I don't mind sharing what I have, and I'll be happy to give what I can miss. (Within reason ofcourse!) I mean, what's the reason to be with me? Who I am as a person, or the depth of my pockets? I guess that's what I don't like, and I'm sure many guys feel the same way.


That's actually pretty cute.

;P


Yeah, like when you're dating someone and these guys get all jealous and try to ruin everything behind your back, and if all else fails, they'll try to beat you up somewhere when they think no one's watching, probably outnumbering you by ten to one. The smarter ones will probably try to rough you up as soon as they've heard you've wronged a girl somehow. Yeah, they're so totally honest, completely fair and extremely noble. Oh, and as for the pat on the back; While pulling a sour face maybe?

xD


Like those kids who run away as soon as they've made someone pregnant? Or those babies who think their cars, their egos, their status and their toys are somehow more important than their family? Please.


Most of us are easy to please, so it wouldn't be interesting anymore if women were.


Why not? I'd bash them too! (Well, some of them anyway!)


I like arguing.

;P


I agree, she should actually do something with it, instead of staring.


Define strange noises?


So did you date Allison?

xD


Believe it or not, but there are women who only wish to get pregnant. (One of the reasons spermbanks exist.)


How about; Any girl in stockings will do, even her??

xD


It seems we agree.


Answer: Ofcourse not.


She doesn't have to ask.

;)


Knock-knock jokes! Yay! That's just too funny!


You don't sound too different sometimes you know.. If I have to believe you, then every woman is a feminist who hates men. (Which simply isn't the case!)

;)

Okay. Good morning. Long post. Sweet dreams.

Sounds like you really should be with a man. lol. If you think women should be more like men and that men put you at ease... well I'll let you put two and two together ick.

girls are lovely but one should remember
that :
When the Himalayan peasant meets the he-bear in his pride,
He shouts to scare the monster, who will often turn aside.
But the she-bear thus accosted rends the peasant tooth and nail.
For the female of the species is more deadly than the male.

When Nag the basking cobra hears the careless foot of man,
He will sometimes wriggle sideways and avoid it if he can.
But his mate makes no such motion where she camps beside the trail.
For the female of the species is more deadly than the male

Man, a bear in most relations—worm and savage otherwise,—
Man propounds negotiations, Man accepts the compromise.
Very rarely will he squarely push the logic of a fact
To its ultimate conclusion in unmitigated act.

She is wedded to convictions—in default of grosser ties;
Her contentions are her children, Heaven help him who denies!—
He will meet no suave discussion, but the instant, white-hot, wild,
Wakened female of the species warring as for spouse and child

You're aware that the famous quotes "why can't a woman be more like a man" are from Henry Higgins ("My Fair Lady") which was adopted from "Pygmalion"?

As to your attempt at female shaming language (gay reference); that is so old and tiring that I'm constantly amazed that women still try it. In another forum I've thoroughly debunked such standard shaming techniques used by immature women who are otherwise bereft of real argument.

Let me help you with a partial women's shaming language list;
*"You're bitter!"
*"You need to get over your anger at women."
*"You are so negative!"
*Step up and take a chance like a man!"
*"You're afraid of a strong woman!" (this one's a favorite)
*Suck it up like a man!"
*"Your fragile male ego ..."
*You are just bitter because you can't get laid."
*you live with your mother?"
*"Are you gay?"
Feel free to continue using the above typical female 'feelings' in lieu of honest discourse.


I frankly don't care if some men are gay and some women are lesbian. So what?

soooooo true. When i first started going out with my Polish bf, i had to prove I could drink vodka with his polish mates (not forcibly- but he was impressed.lol), he gets annoyed when I don't clean up and I'm a chef- but he actually said to me the other day, Why don't you ever have dinner ready when I get home?!! I have a fiery temper so he quickly retracted that one. Polish men are quite traditional in their views of women...be a ***** in the bedroom and a cook in the kitchen and laugh at all of his (crap) jokes and you will be fine. And stick up for yourself. They hate that but they back down eventually.

LMAO!

And they wonder why many Polish women are fed up of them and most English women don't want them! It's not the 1950s any more, lads! haha! :)

A certain type are that way. Don't forget that many losers left the shores of Poland to give themselves license to be monkeys. NEVER let them forget that they are only guests! I appreciate all the great hospitality I get here. Many Poles are really generous and criticise buffoons like your bf, sorry.

Don't know your particular situation but I've known the following scenario many times.

Husband is working some blue collar job all day and comes home to his wife who wants him to do half the house work. She claims to have done house duty all day and wants to talk, talk, and talk while he just wants to get loose and relax; maybe even have a drink on his reclining chair.

His wife who claims to do all the housework woke up and watched Oprah, then some soap operas (why do you think these shows have such high ratings) and if there are any kids, they are in school while she additionally bores herself reading 'romance novels' which only addle the brain. Of course she considers herself overburdened and has almost no knowledge of the tough day her husband had digging ditches, constructing buildings, driving big trucks, coal mining, doing electrical work, auto repair, etc, etc, etc.

Difference how women think vs how men think:
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Zimmy whats the deal with you and women?

NO deal:)

the detailed explanation is in the post #133...

Actually I'm a chef and I work 9am til 11pm or midnight...he works 9 til 4 most days and claims to be more hard working. i love the guy, i just dont get the attitude.hes 30, and 30 year olds in England tend not to have such a misogynistic view on women. will he change? doubt it. i do my best.

people don't change...

He has a good point :-)

I think he is an exception. Many Polish women are happy to tell their men where to go. Women can really control their men here. Put him in his place, you are not there to serve him. I'd have rammed the meal in his face if I were you. What a chauvinistic pig!

Ah well, I'm off to clean up the flat. It's every bit as much my job as it is my wife's, no question. Tell that pig to shape up and start pulling his weight.

Thats no explanation at all, yes women play their little games so what? I'm still betting Zimmerman got his sausage bitten off by a feminist and is murdering any girl that comes to close to his basement window since.

Going over the evil women over and over and overrr, thats just not f*cking normal i'm waiting till they find sixty graves in his backyard and a room with "MUST PUNISH FEMALES!!!!!!" painted wall to wall.


Good, women exist to cook.

i ve lived with lots of polish people, including the buffoon, and never heard any of them say anything like being a guest...sounds a bit strange to be honest but thats only cos I don't see my bf as "foreign". just his 1950s attitude stinks at times.

They always claim to be more hard working even if they would spend all days doing nothing and u would be working 24/7. I dont know why is that but i've seen it many times.


He wont change, it will get worse only with time. Run, girl, run!

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dziekuje - i will! :)

Suzan there's a few basic facts you need to learn that apparently eluded you thus far.

1. You have no soul.
2. You're a self propelled sex object that by an evolutionary quirck can talk and think.
3. You're basically boobs on legs, everything between is delay.
4. You dont get to make demands.
5. Pleasing your man is the sole mission of your life, it is the purpose of your existance.
6. Did you even get his permission to post here?

Also instead of posting here ever tried talking, y'know with him? I'm sure its all very engaging reading how you have to rough but b*tching here doesnt change a thing, why not bytch to the guy concerned?

gosh i didn't even think about my situation until now...it's quite bad isn't it! he started out absolutely wonderful, romantic....8 months later...hes lazy...sometimes aggressive (not physically)...moans (not sexually)...Yes, it's all a bit much. Polish or not Polish, perhaps he's no good.

Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression?