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Polish men what is the worst thing a girl can do upon first impression?


f stop  24 | 2493  
8 Jun 2010 /  #31
Now, if your goal IS to make the man loose interest, the best thing to tell him is that you're celibate.
A J  4 | 1075  
8 Jun 2010 /  #32
Not really, because liars intrigue me.

;P
f stop  24 | 2493  
8 Jun 2010 /  #33
yup, I've run accross those as well. Gluttons for punishment.
POLENGGGs  2 | 150  
8 Jun 2010 /  #34
don't be doing drugs. If must smoke up to 10 cigarettes a day ( and not rollies)

Hair dye is no (unless you is going gray, even then id say no)
FoxxiGold  5 | 30  
8 Jun 2010 /  #35
oh, and i guess you hate when guys open doors for you or grab your coat when you're taking it off or pull the chair up for you at a table? am i right? :D :D

Hey i love it when guys get the door first and hold it open for you! I'm not so fussed if a man pulls a chair out cause I don't want to look like a spoilt diva, but it is nice if he makes the effort to get the car door when its raining etc .... these things always go noticed and he will be paid in kind for it later!

Like I say we all have a role in life .... :)
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #36
I like to be paid in kind.For example if I hold the door five times I deserve a royal.
FoxxiGold  5 | 30  
8 Jun 2010 /  #37
Hey if you're holding the door 5 times in 1 day then you're taking her shopping! that deserves Platinum!
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #38
then you're taking her shopping! that deserves Platinum!

I hope it does not regard the platinum pusssy syndrome.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
8 Jun 2010 /  #39
Hey i love it when guys get the door first and hold it open for you! I'm not so fussed if a man pulls a chair out cause I don't want to look like a spoilt diva, but it is nice if he makes the effort to get the car door when its raining etc .... these things always go noticed and he will be paid in kind for it later!

Totally agree, quite a few guys i know told me that here in Britain women hate it when you hold doors for them or offer to take their coat, they instantly snap and screech "I can do it myself!!!" What's that all about, does it make them feel inferior or something?? I used to hate it when i was out and about with my ex, not always wearing sensible shoes ;), and he would never hold doors for me and was darting in front of me, i had to ask him to wait up and he'd get all annoyed. Pr*ck. I saw a little scene in town recently and this Polish girl on a day out shopping with her (very smelly) Middle Eastern looking bf trotting on behind him in her little heels asking him to wait and he just barked something at her and carried on chatting on the phone to his mate. Lovely! I'm guessing he paid for all the shopping that SHE was carrying and i expect she would pay him 'in kind' later but there is not need for this rudeness, she's your woman help her out. Unless you were raised in a barn and you don't know any better which in that guys case might've been spot on. A man with no manners and no respect for women is the most hideous creature out there, if you want respect then show some too. Thankfully my current boyfriend is a perfect gentleman :).
shush  1 | 209  
8 Jun 2010 /  #40
Fairy muff. I wouldn't ever trust a woman either.

Good boy, women arent to be trusted.

When a guy really likes you, you shouldn't be surprised he wants to be nice to you.

I m not surprised, it's a nice thing but very often guys are nice when they are with a woman and then they are complaining that women expect from them to do some things.

I'm not looking for someone who wants to take care of me and be my mum

Taking care of someone = nice, being ur mum =bad.

So maybe you Beyonce-girls should really try to accept the fact that some guys just want to be chivalrous sometimes, because this kind of behaviour doesn't always mean they don't want you to be independent, and it doesn't always mean they're complete doormats either.

Normally when a guy wants to pay i let him; i can imagine that makes them feel nice as well (sometimes) that they may think about themselves as gentlemen etc. But so often a guy pays when he is with a girl and then he complains about that. It;s like split personality - if u dont want to pay then why are u paying and why u dont let a woman to pay her own? i dont understand this.

Now, if your goal IS to make the man loose interest, the best thing to tell him is that you're celibate.

Even more effective is to tell him that u had chlamydia lol

Totally agree, quite a few guys i know told me that here in Britain women hate it when you hold doors for them or offer to take their coat, they instantly snap and screech "I can do it myself!!!"

Those women are crazy; but i prefer to avoid the whole paying-etc things coz of the reasons i said above.

I saw a little scene in town recently and this Polish girl on a day out shopping with her (very smelly) Middle Eastern looking bf trotting on behind him in her little heels asking him to wait and he just barked something at her and carried on chatting on the phone to his mate

That was just rude. You can be on partners'-like level with your boyfriend and still he can treat you with respect, the same about girl. It doesnt mean that you would be some kind of slave.
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #41
Yes,these middle eastern guys always talk loud on the phone telling some bullsh1t.Maybe they think talking on the phone while being with a girl makes them seem important.I cannot stand hearing this buuahaahata.If you want go scream in arabic talk in the ass of your camel.Polki have fallen very low to go with these smelly physically disadvantaged individuals.They like that they face little competition by their camels.
Mr Grunwald  33 | 2131  
8 Jun 2010 /  #42
cunning swines they are!

Mwuhahaha ^^

. It;s like split personality - if u dont want to pay then why are u paying and why u dont let a woman to pay her own? i dont understand this.

Probably he was razed at such and didn't like it but feels it is the only way to go :)

It's like some people don't like to wash hands but were told to do so since they were small kids so they do it.

(I wash my hands either I like it or not, I can't eat or doing anything until I washed my hands... I had a complement from a buddy in School for having such a clean laptop! ^^)
shush  1 | 209  
8 Jun 2010 /  #43
It's like some people don't like to wash hands but were told to do so since they were small kids so they do it.

Yes but if a woman offers to pay her own then if he doesnt really want to pay for two then why not let her :S and then blame women that they are gold diggers and that all they want from men is money :S
Mr Grunwald  33 | 2131  
8 Jun 2010 /  #44
Yes but if a woman offers to pay her own then if he doesnt really want to pay for two then why not let her :S

Because then he won't be able to tell other people that he is a "Gentleman" :)
It's all about reputation ;)
shush  1 | 209  
8 Jun 2010 /  #45
Yeah i guess that may be the case :S
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #46
They ask "do you have some money for coffee?",or "can you give some small money?" or "I have lots of rachunki to pay."
shush  1 | 209  
8 Jun 2010 /  #47
I dont know what kind of girls you are with but i havent heard any woman saying anything like that.
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #48
You must live in USA because you sound like being on the other side of the Atlantic.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
8 Jun 2010 /  #49
and you sound like you're living in suckerland
nomaderol  5 | 726  
8 Jun 2010 /  #50
I know my laugh just sounds so fake.

That you know isn't known by them, by almost all of guys..
Happy fake laughs.
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #51
and you sound like you're living in suckerland

So Polki who ask for rachunki payments,rent and food are suckers?
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
8 Jun 2010 /  #52
no you are, cos they all suck you dry... out of your money
dtaylor5632  18 | 1998  
8 Jun 2010 /  #53
I see some reality distortion here.

REALLY....YOU see some reality???
shush  1 | 209  
8 Jun 2010 /  #54
I see some reality distortion here.

... said a blind man to a deaf person.
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #55
Instead of praising me for supporting the polish economy and the poor Polki I get mashine gunned by the female members!Straw in head what is there?Maybe I invest in wrong stocks.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
8 Jun 2010 /  #56
i wouldn't call paying a Polish blachara 50zl for a quicky an investment
shush  1 | 209  
8 Jun 2010 /  #57
Maybe I invest in wrong stocks.

Maybe u suck wrong socks?
southern  73 | 7059  
8 Jun 2010 /  #58
i wouldn't call paying a Polish blachara 50zl for a quicky an investment

I see here some racism towards blachary?
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
8 Jun 2010 /  #59
racism is not the right word here
shush  1 | 209  
8 Jun 2010 /  #60
blachary is not a race

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