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Do Polish men think that Polish girls are materialistic and demanding ?


ryouga  4 | 59  
13 Nov 2015 /  #31
Of course it happened but how was I meant to know in advance she was like that, she seemed very sweet when we met and friends who knew her said she was a nice girl.

She was just spoiled by her parents that she was the only important person, in her twenties she never left home, got her parents to cook and clean for her.

It is about nationality in the sense that I was meaning girls from any country can be that way.
rozumiemnic  8 | 3875  
13 Nov 2015 /  #32
It is about nationality in the sense that I was meaning girls from any country can be that way.

really ? It sounded as though you were suggesting she was a crazy biatch cos she was British.
Maybe you are just a really poor judge of character? That won't change if she holds a different passport you know...:)

as for " Essentially British women are more manipulative and play the victim "

who is playing the victim here exactly?
Billy9999  - | 33  
13 Nov 2015 /  #33
IMHO Polish women are colder and more "robotic" than their more western counterparts (always thought it was due to a harder upbringing).

Speaking generally, of course!
Levi  11 | 433  
13 Nov 2015 /  #34
IMHO Polish women are colder and more "robotic" than their more western counterparts (always thought it was due to a harder upbringing).

Coming from a place (Latin America) where woman talk loud and cry for everything, i can say:

Thank God for that.
ryouga  4 | 59  
13 Nov 2015 /  #35
I think you misunderstand what I mean, there is a basic similarity in women from different countries, women in the UK like to change a man to what they want and choose a loud man who is confident as they see him as strong and they "tame" him a guy who is naturally less confident and/or more relaxed is seen as dull theres a saying about "thinking with your head not your heart" they like the idea of having the power to change him.

The only thing I would say specifically is based on what was said about Polish women, it seems Polish women are colder and more direct about what they want, British women play games(and women from other countries too but only going by the 2 listed) like pretending to cry to make you feel sorry for them or act the victim by saying they are women therefore weaker so a man has to help them, it even happens in the workplace women refusing to lift heavy boxes then demanding men do them as they are stronger, its all about making a man feel guilty and sorry for a woman so he looks after her even if shes a stranger rather than them being rude to get their way.

In a non relationship way I have spoken to many young women who talk about how they are victims for just being women and "men have it easy" it doesnt matter if they are from middle class or wealthy homes and had a easy life they say just being female means they have it harder than men it was the same mentality my ex had, one of my female flatmates once tried hiting me and chucking stuff at me so I grabbed her by her hands and she threatened to get spread rumours about me being the one to attack her if I didnt let go and have her attack me,

So from what is said Polish women are more upfront about their intentions, British woman want you to feel sorry for them whilst providing for them.

And British (as well as American women as well and more just these few are what I heard) like to keep the best of the old with the best of the new i.e claim to want equality but can get away with things like violence or criminal acts and say they cant of done it as they are women therefore weak.

There has been a few documentaries on the BBC recently that cover things like female violence, one had a guy who was stabbed by his violent wife and beaten before that many times and people didnt believe him, there was online articles where a man was a victim of domestic violence himself for years and again a woman tried to stab him but this one failed and the comments were talking about how he was a wimp, how a woman cant hurt a man, and how he cant be all innocent and they reckon he must of been bad to her for her to abuse him!

Its a social problem, women are seen as weaker and gentle so get away with a lot and know this so manipulate men in the UK.

I had a friend who was the victim of a manic depressive/bi polar girlfriend she was so violent she was banned from working, could not get buses, banned from doctors and in public attacked him regularly such as choke him or punch him, she calmed own when pregnant until the baby was born (maybe hormones?) then became more violent than ever, me and some friends vistied one day and she punched him knocking his tooth out, hit him with a lager can, then lifted up a chair.

Shortly after he left her and she was granted custody of the baby as the government could not believe a woman was violent.
JanekP  
14 Nov 2015 /  #36
Many poles still think that girls are materialistic and demanding, times have changed but still stereotypes are hard to die.

And no wonder that most of polish girls still dream for a foreigner ... The emigration brought out mostly men, the remaining are for a good part poor and uneducated dresiarze with no whatsoever future, and a fraction of the rest are even fugly
ufo973  10 | 88  
16 Nov 2015 /  #37
i came to this country for money and a better life, I don't care about love, I just want a man who has lots of money and can support me in having lots of catholic babies.

Damn....Polish mentality. I AM SO PROUD OF OUR ASIAN WOMEN :D

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