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WHY DO POLISH MEN LIE?


z_darius  14 | 3960  
15 Apr 2009 /  #91
Obviously, that's what you would mean, but why do you thin I meant the same, instead of "better than nothing"?
streamers395  1 | 3  
16 Apr 2009 /  #92
Don't all men lie in every culture? And women can lie just as well. If people lie...move on.
Pani_Polska  - | 89  
27 Apr 2009 /  #93
the best men I have dated were British they are honest kind and are true gentlemen.

I havent had the same experience, but I think looking on a dating site is probably the wrong place to find a man, any man, they are usually on there looking for "chance encounters" shall I say....
Ela26  - | 2  
21 Jun 2009 /  #94
Jun 21, 09, 21:23 - Thread attached on merging:
are polish men cheaters?

I heard polish men, never stay with one woman, they always end up with cheating?
what do you think?
Anuszka  - | 5  
21 Jun 2009 /  #95
Why do you think that only Polish men lie???
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
21 Jun 2009 /  #96
They learned from their mothers.
Anuszka  - | 5  
21 Jun 2009 /  #97
ZIMMY
Or from their fathers!!!
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
21 Jun 2009 /  #98
When talking about lying please note that women are more deceptive than men. Think about it.

Who wears the makeup?
Who um, pads certain body parts?
Who colors their hair?
Who buys ridiculous amounts of shoes? clothes? etc.
Who asks, "do I look fat in (fill in the blank) this?" (and wants a dishonest answer)
Who says "I only look at a cookie and gain 10 pounds" (that's a lie you know)

Yes, yes, there are a relatively few men who fit the above description but the male gender numbers pale to those of women (don't lie to yourself now).
Anuszka  - | 5  
21 Jun 2009 /  #99
Like you said, it's only a relative number... But everybody knows who's thinking with the head, and who with... And women lie her partner, only if she's not completely happy, but men lie to show who's the main, to glorify himself in front of his friends, because...he don't know what he exactly wants...

And all about make-up, clothes, hair... Do you really like greasy, stinky and filthy girls???
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
21 Jun 2009 /  #100
Let's just think about this for one second, its not just Polish men that lie, or even Polish women or British men & women.

EVERYBODY LIES, big lies, small lies, white lies, whatever you want to call them every human in the world at some point lies. It is just part of human nature to want things to be 'easy' one way of getting out of a situation, avoid conflict, keep a secret or just to gain an advantage is to lie.

The fact is you don't even have to be a certain type of person to lie, rich people lie, poor people lie, short people lie, tall people lie, gay people lie, straight people lie, black people lie, white people lie, i think your getting my point by now :)
Anuszka  - | 5  
21 Jun 2009 /  #101
I totally agree with. EVERYBODY LIES!!! Now, only problem is how to cover that lie...
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
21 Jun 2009 /  #102
everybody knows who's thinking with the head,

The head doesn't lie, it's honest.

women lie her partner, only if she's not completely happy,

Women not happy? Oh, then they lie 95% of the time.

And all about make-up, clothes, hair... Do you really like greasy, stinky and filthy girls???

Is that how women are without make-up, ....etc? ...in their natural state? You are too cruel to women.

EVERYBODY LIES,

That's a lie. (Mother Theresa didn't lie, or wear make-up or color her hair, hmmm, might be something there).
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
22 Jun 2009 /  #103
I totally agree with. EVERYBODY LIES!!! Now, only problem is how to cover that lie..

lol :) on a serious note though, life is easier if you assume that everybody lies. It enables you to prepare for something somebody tells you to be a lie. I mean if you take somebodies word for something then your assuming.

I was always told "assumptions are the mother of all f*ck ups" I find its always best to check things out ofr yourself.

The head doesn't lie, it's honest.

thats a very good point, the head does know the truth, it always does. The problem with the head though is if it does not like the truth it will create the lie that spills out of the mouth. Or is your statement a lie too :):)

Is that how women are without make-up, ....etc? ...in their natural state? You are too cruel to women.

in a way when women put on make-up they are telling a lie, or at least making an effort to decieve us. lol

That's a lie. (Mother Theresa didn't lie, or wear make-up or color her hair, hmmm, might be something there).

nah she lied, its just she was so good at it nobody ever found out she lied in the first place
Kapusta  2 | 66  
22 Jun 2009 /  #104
When talking about lying please note that women are more deceptive than men. Think about it.

Men are deceptive too :)

Who wears the makeup?

Men, maybe even before women...warpaint... ;)

Who um, pads certain body parts?

Men! Sock down underpants is not a women thing, neither is it a new thing! ;)

Who colors their hair?

Men. Grecian 2000 was far more well known that many womens hair colouring products. :)

Who buys ridiculous amounts of shoes? clothes? etc.
Who asks, "do I look fat in (fill in the blank) this?" (and wants a dishonest answer)
Who says "I only look at a cookie and gain 10 pounds" (that's a lie you know)

Men. Lets say in particular sportsmen. Footballers to be precise and American rap stars. :)

As to the query "Why do Polish Men Lie?" Well, it's better than standing up sometimes... :P
ZIMMY  6 | 1601  
22 Jun 2009 /  #105
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Who wears the makeup?
Men, maybe even before women...warpaint... ;)

Wearing warpaint is not lying. It is telling enemies, "look out here I come". In fact, warpaint is an outfront warning. No deception there. As a woman you probably don't understand these kinds of things.

Who um, pads certain body parts?
Men! Sock down underpants is not a women thing, neither is it a new thing! ;)

Do you really want to compare how many women pad their bras to the relatively few men (I haven't met any) who do what you suggest? Puh-lease, not even close.

Who colors their hair?
Men. Grecian 2000 was far more well known that many womens hair colouring products. :)

Again, I've previously, in my initial post pointed out that a 'few' men use hair coloring products compared to women. Isn't it amazing how many women are blonds (or redheads) compared to men? Women spend 20 times more on such products than men, and just look at how many advertisements there are for women compared to men when it comes to hair coloring, clothes, shoes, etc, etc. It's not even close.

No Kapusta, women are obviously more deceiving and by a wide margin than men. All one has to do is look around. This begs another related question. Why do so many women dress in such a manner as to be 'sex objects'? What kind of put-on is that? Don't women have free will and use their common sense or will you blame men for that too?
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
24 Jun 2009 /  #106
Men are deceptive too :)

thats what i mean by 'everybody lies' it does not matter if they are male, female or martian :)
pgtx  29 | 3094  
24 Jun 2009 /  #107
lying lying... nobody is lying but stretching the truth a little bit...
;)
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
24 Jun 2009 /  #108
hahaha, nice try but i think they call that white lies :)
OP LAGirl  9 | 496  
24 Jun 2009 /  #109
I havnt written in this thread for a while I leanred that most people lie its hard to trust people men and women you have to becareful
Scarlett  - | 3  
25 Jun 2009 /  #110
Yes they are liar's and cheats! I have first hand experience of being with a polish man....but to be fair....we shouldnt just pinpoint polish guys for lying and cheating...British men do a pretty good job too!
krysia  23 | 3058  
25 Jun 2009 /  #111
Some Polish men act like immature babies. They will lay down in a toy store and throw a tantrum to get what they want.
It doesn't matter who they hurt in the process, as long as they get it.
Seanus  15 | 19666  
25 Jun 2009 /  #112
Are you sure you don't mean young boys, Krysia? ;) ;)
krysia  23 | 3058  
25 Jun 2009 /  #113
Maybe. If you want it to be ;)
OP LAGirl  9 | 496  
26 Jun 2009 /  #114
Hahaha funny Krysia what you said. good one. most mena re like babies.
Cardno85  31 | 971  
26 Jun 2009 /  #115
One question why do Polish men lie.

Same reason as any other guy, to get their hole.
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
26 Jun 2009 /  #116
you wouldn't do that would you ;)
OP LAGirl  9 | 496  
26 Jun 2009 /  #117
oooo bad one.
deanwysocki  1 | 4  
27 Jun 2009 /  #118
no ! its all about morals and how people are raised. dean,usa
polish ex  - | 1  
23 Mar 2010 /  #119
Hi, I have been with a Polish guy 1yr and 8months and now we split up and he has moved out but he keeps texting me. Im 35 he is 24 so maybe u can understand where im coming from. BUT he always told me im the first girl to believe him and his stories, i always did because i loved him and wanted to believe but now i am realising that he was/maybe cheating on me all the time but without me knowing, i still cant tell but im almost sure because he keeps texting allllllllll the time to check on me and as the saying goes those who chech are the cheaters. he has a 53yr old woman, as he tells me that keeps texting him and another from work. but still want me to be in a relationship, please im south african and took him there on a shark cage diving holiday,all he wanted was my money, house and holiday, but i still love him and hope he will change, they lie but u have to know that ;-)
f stop  24 | 2493  
23 Mar 2010 /  #120
Polish ex:
People lie for many different reasons. The way I see it, there are no guarantees in life. Sometimes you get somebody that genuinely needs just a little help and lies to cover some small indiscretions he thinks might turn you off, sometimes you get a grifter that will always tell you what you want to hear. Women like nothing more than to take a piece of coal and turn it into a diamond, but, that comes with a serious risk. If nothing else, you supposed to learn how to be a better judge of people. You really have nobody to answer to but yourself (assuming, of course, that you are not taking food out of your childrens' mouths) so do what feels right to you.

Falling in love - that's another matter. Cherish it. Fool or not, that's the best, and worst, feeling in the world. Even at its worst, at least you'll get some artistic inspiration, or maybe just get to really enjoy some blues. And keep in mind that the older, and more jaded, you get, the harder it is to come by. And in my experience, once I love somebody, I always will.

And, this is going to sound stupid, but when I'm making a decision about investing in some probably a very unworthy cause, I ask myself this question: on my dying bed, am I going to regret doing it, or am I going to regret not doing it.

That's my two cents. Tomorrow, I'll probably feel different. Good luck.

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