My experiences in dating older women: 1. I stripped nude for a 15 years woman older 2. I had an intercourse with a 10 years older woman but I did not see her nude (but she saw me) 3. I had intercourses with several 7 years older women, in daylight and full nudity.
why does it matter to any of you all the age differences?it is a personal and private choice between two people it dosnt matter what all of you all think!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THAT IS A COMPLETLY DIFFERENT THING A YOUNG TEENAGE GIRL AT FOURTEEN DOES NOT HAVE THE CRITICAL THINKING AS THAT OF A GROWN MAN AND WOMAN ,THAT IS NOT A GOOD A GOOD COMPARISON , COME UP WITH SOMETHING BETTER THAN THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND I STILL BELEIVE THIS IS NONSENSE,AND IT IS STILL A VERY PERSONAL CHOICE AND PRIVATE, BETWEEN A MAN AND WOMAN, OR WHO EVER YOU GO TO BE WITH
When I was in my younger years, I always wanted an older BF. I guess I like the feeling of being pampered and treated like a baby. But now that I'm in my almost mid 20s, most of the guys getting involved with me are 2 or more years younger. Even my Polish BF is 3 years younger than me. And well, considering our situation, we kinda manage to make this work. So, I guess it doesn't matter what's the age of the girl that a guy (even non Polish) prefers to date... as long as he understands what he is getting into.
it is all a bunch of non sense to me again it just really bothers me that people have nothing better to do than talk about older women or what ever ,cant everybody just keep there own chioces private and everyone else just respect their chioce ,who is it hurting as long as we are all consenting adults , i am not talking of the under age topic ,because i know someone will just say something about that ,i am stricly talking about of age adults......... and by the way i am polish woman and engaged to a muslim man who happens to be younger then me i will not say any thing more than that,because the rest is nobodies business,
Yes, people are curious about how other people live and what they think. You still do what you believe is best for you.
I had a serious relationship with a Polish man who was 28 years younger than myself. If you had told either of us before this that such would happen, we would have laughed.
But we met online and did not know our ages to begin with and enjoyed writing to each other.
I began to have feelings for him, and he for me but we both were quiet. Then one day, he told me. After eight months of writing, I went to Poland for three weeks and met his family. They thought it was nice their son met a lady from the USA, but they did not understand till later.
Amazingly, they came to like me and accept the situation. He got his visa and came to the USA for a year, and then went back to finish his MA. We were together almost three years, and it was a wonderful relationship for us both.
However, with such a big age difference, I felt we had the best of what we could have and that it was best to love him enough to set him free to be with a woman his age and have children. But we came close to marrying because we were just two people who loved. So, I hate the word boy/toy because he was never this to me. Nor was I a cougar. We are still close, he's married a great Polish young lady and it now makes me happy to see them happy.
No relationship regardless of ages comes with a guarantee. Some men leave same age women to marry younger. Some men who marry older women stay with them. It all depends on the people. I took a chance on love and believe in the old adage it is better to love than not at all.
serious relationship with a Polish man who was 28 years younger than myself
Wow, what a story. I am glad that you had such a great experience in your life. But isn't that what life is all about .... a whole bunch of experiences. You guys could have been the same age and 3 years later FOR WHATEVER reason you guys might have broken up. Thanks to all you guys for your input. So, my conclusion is that AGE DOES NOT MATTER and life is a whole bunch of experiences and you move on with your head held high.
Yes, Latina, that is it precisely. Love never hands out guarantees regardless of how close in age we are. Look for the person. If anyone is in an age gap relationship and needs support there is a great site called "Agless Love." It is not a place to find a younger or older partner, but support for those who need it and those who have been together awhile and can give it. The site is for OW/YM or OM/YW
Hi everyone, im new to the game. I gave a gorgeous guy i like a christmas card and put my number inside and asked him to call me to wish me a merry christmas.When should I expect his call? Also I really like him and how do I let him know or have I done enough for now? He is a polish hunk.
I think you did enough for now. If he likes you he will call you. Just wait a little and let us know what happened? Are you older than him? Good luck Leeann.
What is that supposed to mean, what do u know anyway?
You should talk to him straight and arrange a date.If you gave him the phone number without him asking for it,he may not call you because he may think it is blackmail.
Blackmail! What do you mean by that? I gave him my number because he works in my local shop and I have liked him for a month even though he has been working there for a year. I moved into the area 8 months ago and now I am moving again so I decided to give him a a card and in there I wrote my number. I asked him to call to wish me a merry christmas but so far he has not called. Do you think I should wait untill Christmas Eve. I have not been back to the shop yet. I am 24 and he is 19 but he such a handsome polish guy. When he sees me in the shop, he smiles and winks at me but I am desperately waiting for his call. When he calls me I will arrange a date.
Thankyou Latina, us girls understand each other unlike Mr. Southern who doesnt have a clue. Blackmail, what rubbish!
Do you know if he is available? Maybe he has a girlfriend. Maybe you should have started a conversation with him first. Like getting to know him a little and he could get to know you. There isn't too much of an age difference. Get to know him first through conversation. I made the same mistake of wanting more than friendship from the start and I think that is a mistake.
Well we have spoken yes but because Im moving from the area where he works, I had to let him know somehow. No I dont know if he has a girlfriend but I guess I will find out. When should I expect his call cos I asked him 2 call to wish me merry christmas.
I know him, you dont and he will call. He is waiting because he doesnt want to appear too eager. U havent got a clue about women and how could I ask him for his number? Im not that confident and that would have been too desperate.