DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN?

Eurola is right. The family usually does not approve of the older woman, especially the women in the family. This includes aunts, cousins. But the men in the family treat the older woman like she's a sleaze and like they can easily have their chance with her. I know because I dated a guy who was 8 years younger.

my boyfriend is 5 year's younger than me, and we are from different races :)
he never thought of this kind of relationship before. but it happens. I have to say polish are rather traditional. but it seems his parents like me.

Says who? this is total rubbish, maybe in Poland its not common, but here in the UK I know plenty of gorgeous women in their 30s and even 40s who have never been married.. by choice! (and I include myself in that).. I am 4 yrs older than my Polish bf and its not an issue for us. However, some narrow minded family and friends (Polish) wonder why Ive never been married at my age.. its merely a cultural difference, nothing more.

rubbish... what sort of environment did you grow up in...?

yea they are.. it really depends though

does that make sense to you...?

doesnt seem to make much sense.. shes best of sticking to talking about her tits..at least she's knows something about that

I'm not sure about that - my husband is 7 years younger than I am and we've never had any problems with his family.

I am seeing a younger guy 22, he's gorgeous and I'm in love/lust. Of course he is Polish. He feels the same about me. He's crazy about me. This is the first time I am going out with a Polish guy and don't know much about the culture or anything about Polish families. I don't know what Polish men think. This is the 1st time I have dated someone younger. My X's are older (7 years) so its very different for me. At first I was not comfortable because it has always been implied that men should be a little older than women. But I'm just in LOVE/lust?

never confuse love and lust..

How do you know which is love and which is lust. And why do you say NEVER confuse .....? Please give me tips because I'm really confused and don't know what to make of this whole situation.

I am no expert, I only speak from experience that its not good to confuse the two. How old are you? I have had experiences with younger men, that were fun, but definitely lust..(although at times I thought they were love) Now Im in love (and lust) and I recognise the difference... guess it comes down to whether your relationship is based solely on sex or whether there is a deeper connection.

Lucky you! My ex-boyfriend's family would say all sorts of rude things in front of me. They totally voiced their opinions indirectly.


It's usually lust at the beginning, especially if you've just met him but it can turn into real love with time.

i dated a Grzegorz and he asked me out - i am 52 he is 24 so even Grzegorz' like older woman

good on ya :)

all a bit Oedipal (fuzzking spellin)

Hmmmm, I dated a Polish guy name Grzegorz.....he was younger and definitely the pursuer.......never thought I'd date anyone that young......but oh well......I can say I learned a lot! No regrets, but don't think I'd do it again.

You knew Grzegorz, too? So did I. He sure does get around. :)

I think Giles was right.....Grzegorz must have an Oedipal Complex:)

Second definately no, the first one yes (but I will have to take a look at her without make up) but only If by "dating" you mean sex and not any serious relationship.


It's not me to make It clear.

As far as we all know anyway......:) :)

Clear as mud. :)

:)

Yeah. Hmmm.

For all we know, he followed us all to this forum to see if we would compare notes:)

And my Polish shepherd likes your doggies...

I agree with krysia, and I know many couples like that, exactly 8 yrs of difference, but nobody can notice it, all they look great, man a bit older, Woman younger. I have to add here, that is not question of hot horny 30' and horny stallion around 20, just question of love.


I've heard something like that: Mag, if I want to betray her, I could do it as well as she can. I could be 10 yrs older then she, so if she would be 40 and me -50 always I can find 20 yrs old girl, so point is in love, trust, not age.

So I think the same, I was never into younger guys, I was growing up with my 8 yrs older brother and with his friends. But sometimes life is so surprising and you never know what it can bring to you even if you think that you know everything about life.


If my partner during the years become weak, wrinkled and sick I do not left him because he will be loosing his attractivity. If somebody think about partner only like about piece of meat to ****, or care only about sex, or mainly about it, it doesn't matter he/she is younger or not, will be hunting new goal.

i thought you were looking for a Polish man?

or have you got back with the man that left you for a stripper?

6 Months going out. Is it love or lust?


I thought it was you! Are you sure it's not! How old are you?

By then, yes, you're developing real feelings, if you've spent a lot of time together during those 6 months.