No Nonsense 6 | 68
11 Apr 2011 / #31
Oh whoops, I thought this was about a girl and a guy, but apparently its queer stuff. Just disregard my comment, homo relationships are not the same.
Lost my polish (soul mate) girlfriend, wondering if theres a chance she will come back....
dieseldyke
11 Apr 2011 / #32
homo relationships are not the same.
You have experience? ;))
No Nonsense 6 | 68
12 Apr 2011 / #33
lol certainly not, its just what I've observed. Queers don't care about age differences because they don't have kids. Call me old fashioned, but I think they are just the work of sick minds and its not real sexuality. That's what I was getting at.
Chicago
22 Apr 2011 / #34
I also lost a Polka once and tried desperately to win her back. However, she left me not because of anything I did, but because of who she had become, and it was truly over.
However, based upon other non-Polish experience, I would say that "a non-invasive text" will NOT do. It will be taken as a half-hearted attempt that reflects your lack of regard for the severity of what you did wrong.
Write her a letter (no more than three pages) following this structure: 1) state unequivocally that you are sorry; 2) outline what you think you did wrong (admitting that there are things that you still probably do not realize you did, despite how much you have reflected on it since); 3) then describe how she hurt she must have felt (though, again, you may never truly know just how hurt she was); 4) then simply state how terribly you miss her; and 5) you would love to tell her more about why you did what you did and how you are changing this in person over dinner on a specific date at a specific place.
Of course, its possible that she actually left because she changed and there is nothing you can do to win her back.
Good luck.
However, based upon other non-Polish experience, I would say that "a non-invasive text" will NOT do. It will be taken as a half-hearted attempt that reflects your lack of regard for the severity of what you did wrong.
Write her a letter (no more than three pages) following this structure: 1) state unequivocally that you are sorry; 2) outline what you think you did wrong (admitting that there are things that you still probably do not realize you did, despite how much you have reflected on it since); 3) then describe how she hurt she must have felt (though, again, you may never truly know just how hurt she was); 4) then simply state how terribly you miss her; and 5) you would love to tell her more about why you did what you did and how you are changing this in person over dinner on a specific date at a specific place.
Of course, its possible that she actually left because she changed and there is nothing you can do to win her back.
Good luck.