Lost my polish (soul mate) girlfriend, wondering if theres a chance she will come back....

Oh whoops, I thought this was about a girl and a guy, but apparently its queer stuff. Just disregard my comment, homo relationships are not the same.

You have experience? ;))

lol certainly not, its just what I've observed. Queers don't care about age differences because they don't have kids. Call me old fashioned, but I think they are just the work of sick minds and its not real sexuality. That's what I was getting at.

I also lost a Polka once and tried desperately to win her back. However, she left me not because of anything I did, but because of who she had become, and it was truly over.

However, based upon other non-Polish experience, I would say that "a non-invasive text" will NOT do. It will be taken as a half-hearted attempt that reflects your lack of regard for the severity of what you did wrong.

Write her a letter (no more than three pages) following this structure: 1) state unequivocally that you are sorry; 2) outline what you think you did wrong (admitting that there are things that you still probably do not realize you did, despite how much you have reflected on it since); 3) then describe how she hurt she must have felt (though, again, you may never truly know just how hurt she was); 4) then simply state how terribly you miss her; and 5) you would love to tell her more about why you did what you did and how you are changing this in person over dinner on a specific date at a specific place.

Of course, its possible that she actually left because she changed and there is nothing you can do to win her back.

Good luck.