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Italian girl has a question about a Polish man


hottie29  1 | 2  
13 Jan 2009 /  #1
im a model and im italion..i been talkin to a polish man for a year...he texts me all the time an we do hang out wen we cud...but he does this thing where he will stop talkin to me for days at a time then comes rite back like nothing..hes not even goodlooking...help me understand
ShelleyS  14 | 2883  
13 Jan 2009 /  #2
He sees you as a friend...he doesn't see this as a romantic relationship, so like you would with your friends, you can leave things days, even weeks and then pick up where you left off..simple as that really.

....and always remember hottie, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just because you are a "model" it doesn't mean you appeal to every man on this earth and because you do not consider him good looking that doesn't mean he doesn't have many admirers...

Sounds like you're a little bit pissed off, you seem to think because you are attractive and he is not so attractive, he should be honoured to be your friend....it doesn't work like that.
Kilkline  1 | 682  
13 Jan 2009 /  #3
im a model and im italion..i been talkin to a polish man for a year...he texts me all the time an we do hang out wen we cud...but he does this thing where he will stop talkin to me for days at a time then comes rite back like nothing..hes not even goodlooking...help me understand

Post some pictures and let me decide.
OP hottie29  1 | 2  
18 Jan 2009 /  #4
do polish men easily get mad and expect apologys
McCoy  27 | 1268  
19 Jan 2009 /  #5
yes, no , sometimes. and how do you think, are all polish men the same?
giovannile07  6 | 37  
19 Jan 2009 /  #6
Let me rephrase that to make it more easier.

Are ALL MEN the same?
OP hottie29  1 | 2  
19 Jan 2009 /  #7
i dont know this polish guy is def diff than any american ive known......wtf
giovannile07  6 | 37  
23 Jan 2009 /  #8
well you'll meet guys that are not all the same... i don't think i'm a typical american guy... >.>
Prometeusz  - | 7  
11 Mar 2010 /  #9
Do you love him? Good or bad looking should be horny?
If you are friends, try to change your clothes (under too) next to him. It has always affected on me :) But probably he is a gay or very very shy or an impotent.
space_rebel  2 | 17  
11 Mar 2010 /  #10
but he does this thing where he will stop talkin to me for days at a time then comes rite back like nothing..hes not even goodlooking...help me understand

Just ask him why he stops talking to you for days.
czar  1 | 143  
12 Mar 2010 /  #11
hes liking you but doesnt want to seem desperate to phuck, he most probably lives mostly in reality where im sure you like to play games he knows youll eventually burn through him and hes not really desperate so why bother when he can get off to a picture of you with less headache, also he doesnt want to scare you away but im sure your not that hot and look like scott bayo in a dress, which btw im sure scott bayo has done before, ill google it.

how did i do?
joepilsudski  26 | 1387  
12 Mar 2010 /  #12
im a model and im italion..i been talkin to a polish man for a year...he texts me all the time an we do hang out wen we cud...but he does this thing where he will stop talkin to me for days at a time then comes rite back like nothing..hes not even goodlooking...help me understand

Just Ask Joe

My dear, let me explain some things...

At the risk of being offensive, you sound a bit shallow, talking of 'texting' and other such nonsense...You 'hang out' once in a while: What does this mean?

Polacks are generally not into trendy nonsense, and although you may look good, perhaps this man wants something more substantial...For instance, can you cook?...Italian food is excellent, and perhaps you could cook him a good Italian mean, with chicken or veal...This would show him that you can do more than 'text' and worry about what you look like in the mirror.

Looking good is very fine, as a Polish man does not want a pies...But you must be more 'multi-dimensional', meaning you show him you have some depth.

Perhaps this Polish man is not for you...Of you just want to text and talk about how you can make money and the like, maybe find a Jewish securities broker or something...Then you can be a 'trophy girl', and you can be displayed like an object, and maybe even find a higher bidder.
wildrover  98 | 4430  
12 Mar 2010 /  #13
cud...but he does this thing where he will stop talkin to me for days at a time then comes rite back like nothing..

Perhaps it takes him a while to translate your words....I understand you are not English , but i think if you try to spell words correctly he may write back a bit quicker...
Alx123  - | 180  
12 Mar 2010 /  #14
im a model and im italion..i been talkin to a polish man for a year...he texts me all the time an we do hang out wen we cud...but he does this thing where he will stop talkin to me for days at a time then comes rite back like nothing..hes not even goodlooking...help me understand

So you must be hand model then? hmm..maybe a foot model. I'll go with the foot.
convex  20 | 3928  
12 Mar 2010 /  #15
At the risk of being offensive, you sound a bit shallow, talking of 'texting' and other such nonsense...You 'hang out' once in a while: What does this mean?

Sounds a bit like a 47 year old man to me...

Polacks are generally not into trendy nonsense

Heh, which Poland would that be?
czar  1 | 143  
12 Mar 2010 /  #16
also i never get the italian food thing, not to start off topic or argue for no reason but i dont think the italian model is coming back to the forum. How hard is it to boil water, its just pasta and tomato and why do you think theres a chinese food next to a pizza place everywhere. i mean its not italian chicken what does it have a mustache and talk with its wings, im just saying its just chicken put a side of pasta and dump tomato on it and now its italian, gross, im just saying not trying to start ish heh.
SzwedwPolsce  11 | 1589  
12 Mar 2010 /  #17
Polacks are generally not into trendy nonsense

Take a look at the young generation.
czar  1 | 143  
15 Mar 2010 /  #18
in america kids of polish ancestry dont go for the trends either,or at all, its refreshing and even surprising when you see an old school throwback kid without the skinny fag jeans and 80's sunglasses or whatever hah thats gross, its cause they cant keep up and also they dont relate to the faggy american culture.
Spaceman77  3 | 58  
15 Mar 2010 /  #19
Just give me a number to text you and you won't have to worry about me getting lost for days at a time. I'll text you every day if you want me to. And I will marry you if you need me to do so. Did you say you are a model?
PolskiMoc  4 | 323  
15 Mar 2010 /  #20
Hahahaha!!!
There we go!
You said it 100 percent.

I am a 23 year old Polish American & I just wear what I like & What is comfortable If they can't accept that they are not worth my time LOL

Just jeans, or a band or harley t shirt. Maybe a cap with a motorcycle on it or poland XD

About the guy?

He is probably talking to a few girls. Also, you don't know what he does. Are there certain days he works another job or does sports or the gym?

Polish guys in general don't like to socialize all the time.

We are VERY SOCIABLE people when we want to be. When we don't we can be quite like loners.

Probably the days he wants ot be alone he does not text.

I don't blame him. Texting is annoying nonsense. It is an annoying hassle with no real benefits of any sort.
SailorJupiter  - | 8  
12 May 2010 /  #21
True Shelly is right and I think now you know why he's not contacting you anymore.You live,you learn "sweetheart"

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