What to Get my Polish Guy for Valentines Day.

This definately! Have fun:)

And so people have ups and down MG thats life and its normal. we all fall short of grace. he jokes about a threesome but he is faithful to me and and I am to him he is too mature to do stupid things like leave me for another girl.. he doesnt care what I give him. I just wanted suggestions what to get him.and no we dont use rubber or birth control we do things the natural way.

a sterling silver USB memory stick. Load it with some pictures of yourself.

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Be careful and finish school! MG, has made a point. You have vented and his behavior has been questionable. All relationships are maintenance. Make sure you know what your willing and not willing to put up with. Eight months is still the honeymoon period. Oh, and guys really don't like big deals made on V-day. Love should be everyday. I like the weekend plan..

No the meaning isn't the same. Valentines was never about giving anything except love (as totally silly that probably sounds, :) lol)
It was just to signify feelings, never giving anything material. Now, as you say, it is more commercial, and the present is usually the most important thing, which to me suggests that the meaning isnt the same.

OMG, thats not funny..He was hinting! :D


Yes it is....its just spiralled


Wrong, it was about giving a tolken gift.


Wrong again...


Sweetie, women have always like guestures and gifts, since the the begining of time..so..again.... you are wrong...

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valentine's_Day

my ex didnt want something coz of the romantic side but that she had to have something to share with her female work colleagues about what they received.

This proves my point totally. People don't care about the meaning behind it. Just the show, the 'who got the best present', 'who spent the most money'...

Meaning in the traditional sense is lost.
Yes,, ok, maybe gifts were normal, but nothing really major. And the attitude of people now just makes this more obvious.

you alla re right and you know love is to be shown all year around its just VDAY will be our first VDAY together wanted it to be special. I dont care if I get presents or not. I dont look at what he can give me but his heart.its all my idea. we are going away for a weekend. see he does alot for me.yeah I know what to put up with and what not to put up with. I stand up for myself and tell him off if he gets ignorant again.he is changing alittle bit..I will think of something thanks for all your suggestions. we are not materialistic people.its just my first VDAY with him so its a big deal.

Hi also a newbie here and just want to ask you how to treat a polish guy. I have this guy and I even dont know what he really feels for me. He's kind to me (calls, gifts, he even inviting me for a visit in Poland). I need some advice please. Thanks.

sounds like he likes you! If he didnt I doubt he'd send you gifts and ask you to visit :) just ask him, you'll be wondering forever otherwise...or waiting for him...

Get him Valentine underwear and red hot lips candy!

Don't spend too much money for this day!

agreed :)

A romantic, delicious home-cooked Polish meal, will probably make him burst out in passion (or make him fall asleep, lol!) Stuff him with plenty of carbs. He'll need an adequate supply of energy for dessert!

:)

ah cmon beckski... don't make a woman spend her valentine's day in a kitchen...

You've got a good point there pgtx. Maybe she should prepare a pre-holiday meal, to put her man in a good mood before Valentine's Day arrives.

get something cheesy and tacky, i tell ya


that's hairy

Glad to hear you're doing "the lingerie thing" - always appreciated by us, guys. LOL

Sometimes simple things are the most memorable. I hope bringing up something an "ex" wife had done won't spoil your valentine's mood but my former lady took me out on a picnic in the middle of nowhere. She brought some snacks, a bottle of wine, and just the two of us. We had a great time and although it wasn't meant to be - I still remember that valentine's day.

Keep it simple and cute. That's all.

we are going to Canada for the day and maybe night. we are going to a resturant really high up over looking Niagra Falls. I think I will get him something like a shirt or something to wear and I am writing him a poem and getting him a card.I cook for him 2 times a week. he is all about healthy foods and practicality.thanks for all your advice guys.

And sleeping beauty good luck with your guy of interest.

hmmmm... let him know all about you and how the way we live there, be sweet and be a good listener coz i found most of polish wants to have someone to listen to them.


Me and my husband... before when were still chattig and dont meet yet in personal that time... even he likes me already he still dont want to rush things. like what your guy did... he also did it to me (calls, gifts, introduced me in his family and also want me to come in poland). Im just lucky my aunt invited me in Sweden last year and we finally 1st met the same day I arrived there.

Most of the polish men are loyal and serious in relationship. I think he is serious with you.

Thanks for all the info. Well, he's coming here in Hongkong to visit next week & its gonna be our 1st meeting. Im not saying because of me, just happen he chose here to spend his holidays. Also, where on our way to visit my family in Philippines. Im really nervous, Im really not sure how to get along with him and his friends.

its always like that in 1st meeting... u feel nervous, dont know what to do what to say, how to act in front of him, will u hug or kiss him when u see each other hehehe really funny ^^ but good luck for the both of you

dhennie_jo
thanks!!!

Sounds great ! Add a hotel room and sexy new lingerie and......any man would be happy.
Thats all you need to do.

Valentines day is mostly for girls. Dont be surprised if he doesnt feel the same way about it.

You dont want to embarass him by showering him with gifts.

Whatever you do - do not buy him a bracelet or flowers.

yeah well we plan to do that no he isnt big on valentines day but it would be our first, and now quit frankly we been having problems I am not sure weather to put with him and stay with him.

if you ain't happy, don't be staying!

Go with your instinct.

what a starnge thing, i can never understand what it means

The next time he hints at a threesome, tell him you'd like to pick out the third party and mention a guy's name.

what? instinct?
some people don't like what their instinct tells them. I know in relationships this is common, speaking from excpirience. sometimes, your head really does have to rule ;) haha

Dump him - you've still got 5 days to find a date !