Jesus loves you....even if you are ugly....
Might love you more if you are ugly too. He loves his work too, takes on many hard cases.
It's amazing how this gym sub culture has taken off in this country, i know largely it's due to people being fatter than ever, but it's not just that people that are thin wanna get toned or muscular. And you're right many women in their 40's and 50's look much younger from the rest.
I used to go to the gym. Now I just do chores.
I guess I thought maybe I could meet a like minded male over there but what I found was .. fat people trying to lose weight and elderly people trying to get their hearts back in shape after years and years of sitting.
I've dated 2 body builders over the years. One was even Mr. Sarasota for a while (lived in florida way back), local body building beauty champ. those 2 guys convinced me that body builders do what they do because they are otherwise extremely insecure. Extremely insecure. They liked to stand in front of the mirror and admire their pecs all day when really what I needed was friendly chat and a hand in the garden.
you know what though, since we're on the subject of good looks and health, sort of, this is a good place to bury some info.. here's a couple tidbits from years gone by in my life.. you might disagree, but this my experience, first hand.
twice in my life I've had 2 life-threatening experiences with doctors.. one a jewish OB Gyn in New York City when I was 19 years old, the other a jewish dentist in the south east when I was 45.. the OB Gyn used dirty equipment and I got very very sick ( I did mention the blood in the tube he used to him later, of course he denied it).. as part of his thing to heal me, after he learned who I was and what i was doing in New York (he would have gotten screwed had I died, it would have made all the newspapers, believe me and he would have looked like an ass, maybe gotten arrested).. he then put me on antibiotics (18 months I think I followed his advice in stupidity).. I wasn't getting much better.. he kept saying i had some sort of non-specific female infection down there.. and I didn't learn till several years later he had phoned my parents and told them he suspected I was a prostitute (kid you not) so my parents were believing I was deathly ill from selling sex (all lies, I was a college student with a couple boyfriends and I had gotten pregnant and wanted to terminate the pregnancy).. anyway, after 18 months of this dragging on and costing me every cent i had at the time, I went to a free sex clinic in the city, full of homos, and got a free exam. That doctor took one look, said, quote, 'You've got a yeast infection, my dear', gave me some of those things you insert for that, and I was cured in 3 days. Had I not been so young and so stupid I would have sued his behind off. But after several years, too late..
Then at age 45, I made the mistake of visiting a jewish dentist, he just happened to be nearby, there is no other reason I chose him, didn't even know he was jewish at first just like the first doctor.. I had a toothache, that's it. he said I needed a root canal, on a different tooth than the one that was bothering me.. he talked me into it, I was sooo stupid.. cost a bundle too.. (I had to have that tooth he worked on pulled 2 months later, it had never once bothered me before he touched it).. but anyway in the process I say to him directly, "I do NOT want any mercury amalgam put into my mouth". I must have said that to him 5 or 6 times. He says ok, then does his thing and LOADS that previously just dandy tooth with.. mercury amalgam ( another dentist later x-rayed it and verified that for sure before I had it out and when it was pulled, of course, there it was). His work hurt like heck and again, since I was already a toxic waste dump still cleaning myself up from the painting biz, yes, i got really sick. Couldn't get out of bed, my arms got very numb, it hurt to walk.. and the day before I visited that dentist for that procedure I was swimming laps at the pool and riding my bike every day. That's is how sick he made me virtually overnight.
Luckily, I found an alternative med doctor in a nearby city, an old German guy, who helped me get better, he had a lot to do with my good health today. concerning the dentist, I wrote letter after letter to the American Dental Association, at the good doctor's advice, who instead of coming to my aid, defended the dentist saying that the procedures he followed were standard and they couldn't help, sorry. I definitely still want to sue him and may pursue that one again yet the guy was such a moron. and it cost me a small fortune getting well again because of the idiot.
But you see, my gut feeling is.. it's more than just bad medicine. I was a pretty young girl with a Polish last name in New York, and then later, I was very good looking, strong Polish woman in that dentist's chair. And both of those doctors were Jewish. I sincerely believe there was more going on in both of those situations than anyone wants to admit.
pollacks, beware of jewish doctors. I have been to other doctors in my lifetime without a hitch of course, but the only 2 jewish doctors I ever visited, both almost killed me.
Take it for what it's worth.