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Goal of young Polish girls


Micah  
18 Aug 2013 /  #1
Hey guys, this is my first time posting on this site. I'm just an average 18 year old American guy from Florida (A mix of several ethnicities from Europe: Irish, English, German, Jewish, Norwegian, Hungarian, Scottish, Native American), and I actually know a lot about different world cultures and research topics quite often, just a weird hobby of mine. You will probably laugh your ass off at my situation, and trust me, I understand completely... So basically I met this girl who lives in a small village in Poland, on Chatroulette (which I've honestly only been on a few times just to check it out and/or pass time, you know? **** that site) and she added me on facebook, and that happened over a year ago. I originally just had the intention of being casual friends with her since she's really cute (we Skype every now and then and we talk on facebook at least every other day), well I'm pretty sure that she likes me and the evidence is fairly high... She asks me things like "When are you coming to Poland???" all the damn time, to the point where it gets a little repetitive... She even said once that she wants to travel the world with me. Well the main reason I posted this thread was to understand the relationship between the Polish Community and the American Community when it comes to things like dating, do Polish women seek foreignors or like American guys? I also want to know if I would get green-carded and scammed if I visited her, or if she would be a notorious gold-digger that you hear about from Russian women all the time (Not saying they're anything like Russians, because they aren't). Sorry for my ignorance, but I don't know the history of foreignors (specifically westerners) in Poland and I simply want to have a better understanding of it, so that I can know what to look out for. She seems like an honest and down-to-Earth girl, and I consider myself to be more attractive than the average Joe, but I just want to be sure and to understand the nature of Polish women as a whole. Any advice you guys/girls could give me? Thanks :)
50%Polish  
18 Aug 2013 /  #2
Damn you are a mutt even by american standards thats a lot of subtitles

Dude, you're 18, go live, visit Poland it is awesome there, just make sure you learn something being 18 you have to be pretty stupid, lol.

Are you going to college? I hope you are not considering marriage at 18, you should just give your money to a charity if that is the case.

Just don't mess around with other people's feelings, especially a Polish woman's, that ain't cool.
Wulkan  - | 3136  
18 Aug 2013 /  #3
I also want to know if I would get green-carded and scammed if I visited her

That is not a problem, The Polishforum's detective will visit her soon to do all the necessary research. You will be contacted with the results as soon as posible.

Regards
OP Micah  
19 Aug 2013 /  #4
That's great to here man, but you still haven't answered my question completely :/ Trust me I don't mess around with her feelings, I'm a good guy. :)
mochadot18  18 | 245  
19 Aug 2013 /  #5
So basically I met this girl who lives in a small village in Poland, on Chatroulette

OMG SERIOUSLY HAHAHAHAHAHAHA i'm sorry but HAHAHA LOL chatroulette dont people just go on there with like sock puppets and masks LOL

Dude, you're 18, go live, visit Poland it is awesome there, just make sure you learn something being 18 you have to be pretty stupid, lol.

Are you going to college? I hope you are not considering marriage at 18, you should just give your money to a charity if that is the case.

Yes I agree with that, Dont waste all your money go to school!

Also why doesn't she spend her own money to come to the U.S and visit you??? Why do you have to spend all your money to go see her?
f stop  24 | 2493  
19 Aug 2013 /  #6
If you're serious, save up some money and go visit Poland. You cannot figure out what this relationship is unless you meet face to face.

But don't mess up whatever plans you had for your future. There are great many differences between individual Polish girls, but very few will go for a guy without any "prospects".
50%Polish  
19 Aug 2013 /  #7
That's great to here man, but you still haven't answered my question completely :/ Trust me I don't mess around with her feelings, I'm a good guy. :)

Go and meet if you like (if you have the money)

1. you will enjoy Poland
2. you will meet a nice person, most likely
3. the experience will help you grow as a person just by seeing something other than the swamps in FLA

If no money don't go. You won't enjoy it as much or appreciate as much if it is just for the girl. Internet relationship is the most risky. Skype, email, dating site. Until you meet and spend several years with one another you have no idea if it would work. You can start the process slowly by going to Poland and seeing if this continues.

I felt little connection to the people, I don't mean that in a bad way. They don't know me, I speak english, and they don't care about a stranger form a different country. It was no different than being in a different state in the US. It was the vibe I loved, the country side in through the south, the nice small cities, the history, and this feeling and energy that was present. It is hard to explain. I felt a connection that way. I was excited to be there.

Good luck Gator
local_fela  17 | 172  
19 Aug 2013 /  #8
especially a Polish woman's, that ain't cool

Why especially Polish woman? I think it should be considered a general thought and not to some specific group!

Any advice you guys/girls could give me?

Polish girls are now trying a lot of website to find Love. I've been on few of them and many of them think the Old school tradition is gone now. They would prefer to sit in front of their pc and look for their partner. So I can tell you that she might be a honest chick! Worth a try. I don't think she will cause any harm to you. Just keep some of your things private, even if you get into a relationship with her or something like that.
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
19 Aug 2013 /  #9
Its everyone's goal, not just Polish girls.

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