You again... ?
It isn't "polish women" and in this case not even "women" . It is YOU.
You were told long ago here; if you felt iffy - don't marry her. It did seem she was not as into you as she should be when you first were posting here. But you pushed it through instead of letting her go (if she is such a using troll, I must assume she is first woman that thought you are worth bedding! Or a sexual Olympian you are addicted to).
If she ever stumbled on here I bet we could hear an earful on the whys of her behavior (and that is granting you benefit that she has acted EXACTLY as you described)
Your whining suspiciously smacks of looking for reasons for justification...
will put this out- my own little story quoted by ME (luckily not all men or Russians are the same or I would have become a lesbian after my marriage. I am only giving an example of you never know the other side)
In my case.. with My Monster X... (who tried to poison me for insurance):
He was happy to take my under-table money in contacting. waitressing, etc.
And talk only about my stated earnings as "my part" (which was a subject that came up AFTER I married him. He even tried to make a prenuptial contract 3 months after we married-which got voided later-lol).
When I earned more and started throwing MY financial weight around like he had done to me? Oh the crying!
Things that were in my name alone? Heresy!
He popped the question because I was LEAVING as well. And I regret 5 seconds a day every day of my life that I didn't say NO. And I probably did give a ration of misery while miserable myself. Least I hope so. My friends and family were too far away and later I was too young and too Catholic in our first years to divorce him... I only wish the internet had been as flourishing then! I make my own decisions; but people with examples why it would have been a bad idea; would have been useful to hear.
If I had a hundred dollars for EVERY time I met someone from his work or new family that said "Gee, you are NOTHING like I imagined... your are (_nice_,_pretty_,_interesting_.._adj here_)" ; I could invest in a self business!
He made mistake of being caught talking at an office party while dissing me. Somebody in business who was close to his mom overheard and pointed the camera his way.
Holy crap...! In that conversation, I was basically a 300lb troll with no education or manners that sat at home eating bonbons all day while he slaved to keep up the bills and was a terrible housekeeper! ( he kept up?nada!) His mom was so glad he wasn't gay and could kick him out of her home to be MY problem (she had full time extra maid just to clean up after him and his sister) she was giving us a maintain allowance of 20k a year "stress money", so he could go to college while working up his experience and that we could be a "couple and have a family".
And using the bash an ethinic card was harder for him because I'm mix.
But normally he would still go on with Lazy Fat Mexican (um that kin is PORTUGUESE) or Lazy Indian.
Otherwise it was Money grubbing Bohemian or Jew (but only one Weisz was Jewish). Or being a poor Catholic Democrat Libtard from the wrong side of tracks. <_< My Dad was in Who's who. His dad was a hack!
His mums 5th hubby was the Social Register guy and he lived with his dad growing up. I was a Democrat the year he met me. Period.
Yeah...would any of you here think I was a Libertarian in the making? >_<
But point of story is a person can really exaggerate or cover what their spouse was. If not for OUTSIDE witnesses.. no one would ever have suspected my X was control freak that attempted to kill me on more than one occasion.
Why, gee...he only followed me because he loved me and I asked him. Not because he used money to stalk me all across US 4 times and twice to other countries. He even followed me into the Army! Same Unit.
So don't be so fast to judge the "MASTER's" wife. The fact he made a name like that speaks volumes by itself.
From ALL the copious posts of one sided complaining You have made your bed... lay in it!
At first you came off as some dummy getting used by a sharp girl. But over time you are presenting yourself as a whiner, a control freak, possessive, a bad partner. You come here to bad mouth her and Polish girls in general.
You seem to looking for permission or justification to do something you instinctively know will be looked at as a douche move.
Dude, you need to MAN UP and act like a partner, mate and lover. I suspect it is probably too late at this point.
Right or wrong? My advice, IMHO, is if you still have no kids ...just take your lumps!
Pay your price for separation and move on, so she can find someone who loves her for who she is, not simply wants to own her. And you? you can find that perfect little doll that lets you do everything you want and does everything you say-good luck.
"With kids" complicates it...but even so, if counseling can't help- End it!
