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Polish girls attitudes towards sex.


tornado2007  11 | 2270  
19 Sep 2009 /  #301
and there i was thinking you had a whole basement filled with men, to do with what you liked, lol.
Seanus  15 | 19666  
19 Sep 2009 /  #302
The problem from there is repression. They clearly like the sexual act but you have to be careful as I often get the feeling that I'm being lured into sth. When any kind of guilt sets in, you start treading on eggshells and you are the big bad man for discussing it.
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Sep 2009 /  #303
but they don't like TALKING about it out in the open. they will go online to chat-rooms and say the filthiest things, watch sick prn, but still pretend they're all embarrassed. it's pretty sad.

We call catholic girls ''quiet priest wives'' in Greece for some reason.
Nika  2 | 507  
19 Sep 2009 /  #304
lol, i was not trying to offend anybody,

I know you weren't, no worries :)

and there i was thinking you had a whole basement filled with men, to do with what you liked, lol.

hmmmm, it could be a way to use my basement - I shall think about it...
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
19 Sep 2009 /  #305
sick or dirty pûrn, are you suggesting that in a catholic country people are sitting at their computers and TV's getting some sort of self-gratification from watching.............. doing.............. to................... AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH, tut tut all those chruch going pope boffers :)

The problem from there is repression. They clearly like the sexual act but you have to be careful as I often get the feeling that I'm being lured into sth. When any kind of guilt sets in, you start treading on eggshells and you are the big bad man for discussing it.

Goodness me i never talked about having millions of conversations with the same girl about the same topic of a particular sexual desire!!!! That would just be strange

hmmmm, it could be a way to use my basement - I shall think about it...

do i get an invite?? lol
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Sep 2009 /  #306
You talk too much,you kiss too little.
After all the big academy lies in Lugansk,not Poland.

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Nika  2 | 507  
19 Sep 2009 /  #307
It obviously has a lot to do with the culture/religion in Poland, can i assume that a lot of the population are catholics, well if i can then sex before marriage is meant to be a no no. So therefore that means that the talk of sex would be frouned upon?? right??

well I think that in PL man-woman relations (men-woman in my case hahaha) are more formal, I mean unless people know each other there is a distance to keep, you just don't talk about things considered intimate/personal like that, as it may be taken as lack of respect toward the woman.
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
19 Sep 2009 /  #308
you just don't talk about things considered intimate/personal like that, as it may be taken as lack of respect toward the woman.

that is a very interesting point actually, i'm one of these people who gives as much respect to women as possible, howeer i have never thought talking about sex with them could be considered as 'disrespectful' I mean if she is uncomfortable with the situation/topic of conversation then i'm more than happy to steer clear of it.
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Sep 2009 /  #309
Can anybody explain to me why polish women let you touch them all overwhile they refuse to kiss you?Is this a cultural nuance?However they kiss really good.(sometimes).
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
19 Sep 2009 /  #310
if she is uncomfortable with the situation/topic of conversation then i'm more than happy to steer clear of it.

that depends on the person, but i wouldn't recommend trying to talk about it with Polish girls and probably don't even try unless they start it themselves! they might be quite liberated in bed but they might not be so keen to talk freely about sex.

Can anybody explain to me why polish women let you touch them all overwhile they refuse to kiss you

maybe your breath stinks, sort it out
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Sep 2009 /  #311
maybe your breath stinks, sort it out

Yes,I have to chew more gums.

But I think polish men are definetely spoiled.In othe countries you need to work a whole life to get a fat pig and they have the cream of the top next to them all the time without even trying.Too low motivation in Poland.

The revenge of capitalism.
Nika  2 | 507  
19 Sep 2009 /  #312
i have never thought talking about sex with them could be considered as 'disrespectful' I mean if she is uncomfortable with the situation/topic of conversation then i'm more than happy to steer clear of it.

yes it could be considered as disrespectful.
This is how I see it: if a foreigner asks me an intimate question than I wouldn't be happy but I wouldn't be offended either, because I would think that maybe where he comes from it's normal, if it was a Polish guy I'd take it as a faux pas and would be offended.
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
19 Sep 2009 /  #313
that depends on the person, but i wouldn't recommend trying to talk about it with Polish girls and probably don't even try unless they start it themselves! they might be quite liberated in bed but they might not be so keen to talk freely about sex.

ok, kool beans i take your point, not that i would just start a conversation about sex out of the blue anyway but i understand what your saying.

yes it could be considered as disrespectful.
This is how I see it: if a foreigner asks me an intimate question than I wouldn't be happy but I wouldn't be offended either, because I would think that maybe where he comes from it's normal, if it was a Polish guy I'd take it as a faux pas and would be offended.

to be honest i've never really started any of the convesations, maybe once or twice but i don't make it a regular thing, as you say i wouldn't really discuss it unless they brought it up themselves.
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Sep 2009 /  #314
With polish girls you usually talk about swans and flowers.
Eurola  4 | 1898  
19 Sep 2009 /  #315
We call catholic girls ''quiet priest wives'' in Greece for some reason.

Wow, that's the first time I see you revealing the country you're from! lol.

Regardless of what anybody says, polish women as well as most women in the world have the need to be somewhat emotionally involved before they will go to bed with a guy.

Having sex just because it feels good gets boring and shallow at some point, especially after the emotional connection is gone.
That's when couples run to the lawyers office, change a partner or have affair.
Nika  2 | 507  
19 Sep 2009 /  #316
Wow, that's the first time I see you revealing the country you're from!

how on earth a Greek would know anything about women - I've heard they are all gay ;)
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Sep 2009 /  #317
Yes,with polish girls you usually need to wait 2-3 dates.I remember one friend of mine who enjoyed a polish girl in his car on the 3rd date while I was sitting with her friend on the beach limiting my contribution to touching.

At that time I realized the imortance of motor vehicles over horses.
Nika  2 | 507  
19 Sep 2009 /  #318
I remember one friend of mine who enjoyed a polish girl

your friend must be the only non-gay Greek. Lucky him that he got to enjoy as you call it a PL girl, be happy for him not jealous!
Eurola  4 | 1898  
19 Sep 2009 /  #319
I've heard they are all gay ;)

I'm sure some are, but the ones who love women...oh, boy, they really do! Lots of them! :)
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Sep 2009 /  #320
be happy for him not jealous!

You do not want to know what happened afterwards between him and her.

I've heard they are all gay ;)

Partly true I admit.Gayness here is an epidemic.
At least slavic girls relieved us from greek women.
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
21 Sep 2009 /  #321
Not at all, most of us actually have a sense of humour you know..

good answer :)

I like being the agressor .. alot of women do, so if someone like tornado did this

i would laugh and then walk away

then I would move on, or move in.. depends :) but he would miss out on a nice
gal if he walked away.

Offended no, embarrassed perhaps, how often dose that happen. Usually it's us doing all the hard work so this would make a nice change

hmmm, shy but smart.. not all women are out to take everything you have, its good
to be cautious, if she senses interest, she will add more humor to this conversation.

you could be the lucky one..

I used a pick up line on my husband.... but he used one on me too.
beckski  12 | 1609  
21 Sep 2009 /  #322
I used a pick up line on my husband.... but he used one on me too

It's good in your case the pick up lines actually worked out well, for both you and your hubby. Some of the lame pick up lines I've heard in the past, make me want to pop the guy right on his face.
Sokrates  8 | 3335  
21 Sep 2009 /  #323
Some of the lame pick up lines I've heard in the past, make me want to pop the guy right on his face.

You've got awesome tits, wanna make out?

I used a pick up line on my husband....

Whenever some girl tried a pick up line i didnt know what to say, women are not supposed to bloody pick up guys, its our job, its unnatural when a woman does it.
southern  73 | 7059  
21 Sep 2009 /  #324
Some of the lame pick up lines I've heard in the past, make me want to pop the guy right on his face.

Like ''is your father a cookie maker?'' or ''I have a yacht,are you in for a ride?'',common in my country in the 60''s.
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
22 Sep 2009 /  #325
Some of the lame pick up lines I've heard in the past, make me want to pop the guy right on his face.

I usually start a conversation about something going on nearby, then slowly making the topics more intelligent. If she doesn't know what to say or clearly doesn't understand early in the conversation, I make up an excuse and leave, never to be seen again. If she stops responding in an intelligent way very early on, to me she is not worth the while. But when she is smart and the conversation is nice and funny, after a while I usually ask straight up: "isn't it time we start kissing or something? Isn't that supposed to be the next step?" She usually starts laughing and if she says "maybe" laughingly, I'm kissing her within 10 mins and I probably go home with her :)

M-G (back from the angry-chair)
southern  73 | 7059  
22 Sep 2009 /  #326
then slowly making the topics more intelligent. If she doesn't know what to say or clearly doesn't understand early in the conversation, I make up an excuse and leave, never to be seen again. If she stops responding in an intelligent way very early on, to me she is not worth the while. But when she is smart and the conversation is nice and funny, after a while

I always tried to seem intelligent with dutch girls and make them laugh till I discovered that being boring is always much more effective.
After slavic girls experience I have the same boring discussions with western girls and they respond well while after leading intelligent discussions you kill the sexual attraction and cannot move smoothly to natural state.I mean it is much more difficult to touch her thigh while talking about Nitze than to touch it while talking about her necklace.

Different nationalities have different taboos.For example it is O.K. to ask a czech girl if she is shaved or not,but it is not O.K. to ask this to a russian girl.German girls also can talk about everything,they have no taboos(are like men in this regard).You can talk about any issue with them,there are no forbidden topics.But polish girls are complex,that is why you need to keep it simple.They are so complex themselves,if you are complex as well,it will be the vavel tower,no communication.
MareGaea  29 | 2751  
22 Sep 2009 /  #327
I mean it is much more difficult to touch her thigh while talking about Nitze than to touch it while talking about her necklace.

It works fine for me: first a conversation about Nietsze and then casually making remarks about her necklace. The Nietsze-part is to figure out if she is smart, the funny part is, well, because I can be funny at times (ahem) and the necklace part is because females everywhere in the world like to be flattered. I doesn't work always, but most of the times it does. Not that I plan these things, most of the time I go out to have fun or to be with my friends. But should the occasion arise, it's usually in the same pattern. And sometimes I don't even feel like talking to a woman or to seduce her or something. Then I just drink my beer and talk to the guy beside me at the bar or to my friends.

M-G (nearly off to bed anyway)
Prickiewicz  - | 20  
22 Sep 2009 /  #329
women are not supposed to bloody pick up guys, its our job, its unnatural when a woman does it.

You sound like a slave to women. Men have too many jobs already. You're probably one of those guys who kisses women's hands (uggg).
szarlotka  8 | 2205  
22 Sep 2009 /  #330
women are not supposed to bloody pick up guys,

As a great fan of economy of effort I think it's a wonderful idea that should be actively encouraged;)

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