Polish girls attitudes towards sex.

good choice ;D

I meant your statement about how the others look down on us. Obviously it is easier to socialise with people that don't despise you just because of your origin don't you think southern?

You don't know what milieu I'm talking about? It's funny because you think you know everything about PL people.
I mean foreigners southern, foreigners considered by the locals as being inferior, worse then them.

If that is true then you are truly a rare, rare woman. (but if a man ever changed your flat tire, or jump started your car, or paid for your drink or gave you some kind of helpful advice then you did, indeed, receive some kind of help from a man).

More women should get into occupations like construction and get their hands dirty. Then they'd appreciate how difficult some men's jobs are. Instead, so many women, perhaps not you, whine that they don't make enough money in professions like waitressing or working in a beauty parlor. Well, hells-bells, learn plumbing or firefighting or industrial engineering or become an oil rig worker, a bomb technician or even a hazmat diver, etc.(you get the idea).

The relatively few women who dare go into the above professions appreciate the work men have to do and the higher wages that come with it. (94% of all job related deaths occur to men because of the kinds of work men do to keep their families financially intact).

I think Seanus has a point here.
The feeling of being anonymous (abroad nobody knows you or your family) as well as lack of parental control definitely influences sexual behaviour of some people. Especially if you take young, naive people.

I was more liberated when I went to Japan and Poland. Plus, I was younger ;)

Opposites attract, there is a certain thrill from having sex with foreigners.

totally agree!!!
There is something very exciting about having sex with foreigners - maybe it's because you don't know what to expect or you expect something really special, something different.

Then why don't you become a lesbian, marry a women, move in with her and then adopt a little girl for yourselves :)


I 100% agree with that, i would say 60-70% of my partners have been foriegn nationals, i've always been looking for an answer to why. Its not just about the sex, although your point is very much valid, its about the whole package, different culture/lifestyle etc etc even the approach to everyday living can be different. It makes it more interesting, there is more to find out about somebody than if you dated your everyday English girl.

sure it's not only about it, it's just that we were talking sex with Seanus so I limited myself to this
I do agree that exploring your foreign partner's lifestyle, customs, points of view makes the relationship even more interesting. Also, it's very beneficial - you realise that some things can be done in a different, better way.

It can actually make you a better person in general.
That is why I love mixed couples, God bless them :)

I don't know about being forward seanus but i never found it a problem talking/joking about sex with Polish girls, in fact i think they are more open to the topic than a lot of British girls. I don't know why this might be?? maybe its because Polish girls don't think that everytime you mention sex to them, it means you want sex with them, like an English girl would think in a lot of cases.

oh really? I always thought that British people (men+women) talk sex very freely, even if they don't know each other, I saw it at work and was a little bit shocked to be honest.

A men in PL wouldn't talk sex to a girl unless he knows her well (or is completely drunk), especially at work.

Nika is right, Torny. From my experience of being out and about at pubs, it's not a topic that pops up that often.

I'm talking about all age ranges, since i have recently been young :) lol i'm talking about younger girls 18 -25, i tend to find that in the UK more mature women talk about sex easy/freely or whatever you want to call it but the younger ones maybe not so much. I don't know maybe i've just been talking to the wrong British girls but i found the Poles more relaxed when discussing such subjects.

As we said before, it could be because they are in England and not in Poland. Thus, they feel more liberated. I just don't hear it much here and it's dodgy to raise it.

Oh OK, I don't know about the younger ones - my colleagues were in their thirties.

don't get me wrong i was not 'picking' at older people, i just think they are more likely to talk about it because of life experience and maturity gained by the time your in your 30's-40's.


That is a good point actually, maybe your onto something there, to be honest i would not know about the 'sex' conversation in Poland.

Or maybe, they have learned a little bit about discretion, and less likely to talk about it in a bragard sort of way?

I don't hear young Polish girls bragging about their sexual conquests or what 'trap' they got. Quite the opposite in Scotland. My Polish is good enough to understand almost everything, Torny. They just avoid it for the most part.

I wasn't talking about the 'actual discussion' i was just talking about the discussion of sex generally, who does it and when etc.


no no no i'm not just talking about the bragging, i'm just talking the discussions about sex and sexual experiences.

Still, I would think discretion comes into play.

aaaaaaaaaa I didn't know that people in their 30's were considered older hahahaha

Then I must be ancient. Not quite pre-historic, but at least ancient.

that is true, i was pretty shocked and embarassed when i first heard this. not anymore lol but i've never seen this in Poland, people are much more prude and just the word sex makes them blush! it is an um interesting topic, as long as you don't get into too much detail!

lol, i was not trying to offend anybody, please understand that, its just 30 is older than myself. So therefore the age of 30, in my eyes, is older :)


for older people yes, however just because you are older it does not mean you have picked up all the skills :)


can i clear up that i was talking to Polish girls who were in the UK and not Polish girls in Poland, i can see why the reactions to the topic of conversation would be different if they were in their homeland or a foreign country.

It obviously has a lot to do with the culture/religion in Poland, can i assume that a lot of the population are catholics, well if i can then sex before marriage is meant to be a no no. So therefore that means that the talk of sex would be frouned upon?? right??

So when the Poles get away from that side of their culture they feel they can open up more in foriegn countries

I'm in my 30's and I consider myself as ageing. Then again, I've been ageing since I was born so..... ;) Sex is a reality for most, regardless of age.

Judguing by the amount of sex shops openly on display in Poland id say its fairly liberal.

definitely.
I don't like when a men asks me intimate questions or makes sexual comments, unless it's my men of course.

The sex shop here is quite discreet, though. It's off down some stairs and you can slip off unnoticed. I know because it's near my fiancee's bro's place. It's always good for a laugh, having a rake around. I was at one in Cieszyn on the Czech side. Pricey as hell!

Nika, how many do you have? ;) ;) (men?)

Well, it is still possible to teach some old dogs new tricks. I for one cannot claim to have mastered every technique in the Kama Sutra.

I am sure some Polish girls are a little more adventurous in that department than others. Maybe it comes down to upbringing, religiousness, personal choice (not based on religious doctrine), or availability of appropriate partners.

that might be true, but they don't like TALKING about it out in the open. they will go online to chatrooms and say the filthiest things, watch sick pûrn, but still pretend they're all embarrassed. it's pretty sad.

hahaha sorry I meant a man, one single man!