Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch.

yeah... i'm "Americanized" in some ways... :)

Hes giving it the all "i think shes been abused angle" thats why blah blah blah etc... Fact is she finds him repulsive.

he invited her into his home in a woeful attempt to seduce her. she being smarter than him is sticking to the original offer while taking him to the cleaners at the same time.

he being older sees himself as the father figure and ruler of the roost. he assumes she will turn to him in thanks and give him the shagging of a lifetime.

she probably dislikes him in a way he will never understand and sooner or later will leave him. most likely without ever saying goodbye.

the only reason he won't give the ending to the story is because the above posts have shown him for what he is. and now he realizes it. or more likely, she has already walked.

Sounds about right Wroclaw.

creepy-crawly story...

Oh come on, pgtx, most women in the world love touching, hugging, cuddling - Polish women are no different ;) Of course, if they are with a man they want and have feelings for.


That's the way I see it too...

Or a brilliant strategy for a desperate guy. Only he didn't properly read the clear signs she gave him and didn't know when to call it quits...

If she did, he'd be here already complaining what an ungrateful b***ch she was. No, he still hopes he can guilt/bully/manipulate her into giving in.

i'm talking about strangers, not a man you love...
and it's a mild version, let's not exaggerate it...


those are dangerous... often hidden behind a computer screen, looking for a girl on dating sites... creeps! be careful girls...

:)

Wow, we can be really nasty when we feel we've been spurned.

I bet he's too scared to come back now.

Oh... o_O
Then you're right - touching, hugging and cuddling with strangers... eewww xD


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Probably xD

well, i just mean that Americans like to show off their affection more openly then Poles... that's all...

Aww. This warms my heart. :)

But... affection towards strangers? I don't get it...
I think I've read here on this forum comments of Americans who wrote that Poles leave too little space between people during conversation or on the bus, so I thought they need more space and don't like any physical contact with strangers ;)

This sheds some light at American girls he knew, who might have considered sex as more of a form of entertainment. No wonder the guy was baffled.

Maybe the reason popcorn can't tell us what happened is because the whole thing was a violation of his probation from prison.

(just kidding popcorn)

Hey! >:(

But seriously, think about it... Some young and driven guy doesn't do well with girls so when he finds one he's crazy about he tries the old 'friends first' route... Then, when she needs a place to stay, he thinks 'Hot damn! This is my chance to really get things moving along!'. He thinks having her live there and being around her all the time and giving her money will help him penetrate her chilliness so he can get to penetrating her warm spot. (brilliant plan so far, if she has some feelings for him...)

Once she's there he gets to pawing at her like a puppy. Only problem was that she didn't see him as a potential romantic partner at all. She just needed a sucker ...preferably one that kept his unwanted hands to himself -except for handing her money. And he failed to read her clear rejection signals. Then he starts whining, asking her why she's so chilly to him, further repelling the cold leech... So he comes here and seems to think the big problem is that she doesn't like touching. Lol.

Well, tz, that would be typical. I can never consider myself to be not worthy of any girl here. It's just the way I perceive things and I've never really pursued women anyway. Chatting with Japanese women was better, they were more exotic and enigmatic. I didn't chase the so-called 'yellow cabs' either.

This is likely how they saw you as well.


Lol. Prostitutes??

Not really, no. More the loose ones that don't charge ;) ;) They frequent bars in Roppongi, Tokyo. Hiroshima didn't have a huge scene but there were those bars where they put out. I loved my time in Shinsaibashi or Amerika-mura (American village) in Osaka. Wow, those cats were hip. I fitted in with my red hair. They thought I was a gangster as it's a sign of rebellion in Japan, LOL.

you're out of that game already... :D

I was never really in it as I have had a GF virtually for the whole time I've been here. One for 7 months and then my current wife.

my son goes to Japan for surf contests and promos and he says they treat him there like a royalty or a rock star. He loved it! (except he was getting lost constantly - all it took was turning a corner).

Oh yeah, Japan is a country full of alleys that are like magical mystery tours. Japanese girls tend not to like touching. You might hear 'sawaranai yo' or 'sawannai yo' (don't touch me), depending on where you are. However, they won't scream out or make a fuss as it's fundamentally anathema to their culture. Not that I was doing the touching, you understand. Touching as 'chikan' or 'sukebe/hentai' do in Japan is NOT the Western way.

Well, i was in your corner until you decided to behave like a teenage girl and blow every one off by "i won't tell you anything else". now i am sure you are a loser and the girl most likely told you to get lost. good for her.

In the guy's defense, she must have sent him some signals. He does not sound like a complete idiot. You have to admit, a lot of Polish women like to act coquetish, even when they have no intention of following through. He might have been a puppy she was playing with, until he gave her his ultimatum.

No..some vital parts are missing...!

Hush, wildrover! I'm trying to bring him back.
Is it not possible that she teased him mercilessly, 'slapping' his hand away each time he thought the time was right?
I don't think he would have been this bewildered, looking even for some cultural explanations here, if she did let him know she was not going to sleep with him, no?

I can see him totally disqusted with us, we're practically accusing him of being a molester, while all he was trying to figure out were her confusing signals.

Possible?

I don't think her signals were so confusing as his horny-blinded inability to receive them.

I think that has already been said. Unless he likes to entertaining himself by insulting people, this will not bring him back.