Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her

By US,UK or polish standards?Because a 9 in UK is a 7 in Poland.

It is true that if a woman was born in a place where she looks ordinary she might not be that spoilt in spite of her good looks. However, since she got to Northern Ireland, you have to assume she has been out on the Saturday night and by now whe know precisely how the locals rate her... Women are extremely good at this. And she has either started playing with some of the locals or will soon start. This is the assumption you have to make. Nothing wrong here mate, just the game of life.

Ummm, its a tricky one, probably about a six or seven, I mean, nobody else in work has commented on her so I guess she isn't stunning in a conventional way. She has dark/reddish hair which I prefer and has a very slim, toned body. She carries herself with such elegance.

If she is in her twenties and you rate her a 9, she will have company... a lot of company!

Ah, 6 or 7. There is still salvation for you. Make your move quick and you have a chance!

He says about 6-7.I think there are good chances.Maybe she does not even have a boyfriend.I never saw in Poland an average or below average looking girl have a polish boyfriend.

I understand, as you said earlier she will probably be snapped up by a more experienced fella. It's good to prepare for the worst, while still hoping for the best.


I wouldn't rely on my rating too much, I'm not good at making those sort of judgments, obviously to me she is 10. I'm sort of guessing others views. I do know that a blonde would get more attention so you never know.

Yes, make your move. Just imagine her as an ugly co-worker and talk to her in an enthusiastic way. Invite her out. Use the aforementioned Trident technique as a start.

Then move on and be persistent, would that meet your approval female lobo?

Sorry SheWolf

Ken Noddy you value yourself very low.Men who get the women are not the best looking ones but the ones with confidence.You should think yourself of superior to her as to every woman.

I'll give it a go. Thanks for boosting my confidence. I've got to sign off for now, will let you know how things go over the weekend.

Talk to you then.

Good luck

It is no surprise the jerks get all the hot women.(polish are not an exception).

Getting the girl, is of course only the first step... the real problem is maintaining the relationship, specially if she is also an alpha female. Then it is all very umpredictable as love is a very misterious thing tha can never arrive even when spend a long time having an intimate relationship together... bether not tell this to Ken yet...

After all, recently, a lot of girls like to sleep with their men friends... and that can break a novice's heart in half quicker than anything I know...

Maintaining the relationship needs skills beyond average.Most positive elements are lost as the time goes by and the magic of the first moments fades away.

Chicks are totally unreliable.We need multi translators and iron nerves.

They become more reliable as they get older into their late thirties... for logical game theory reasons...

Yes but then they become very emotional,they cry and blame all men.

Then it is a judgement that you make. Keep or go back to the deck...

In any case it is unwise to only play with one deck...

I found women in their thirties more reliable,better related to men(more educated to men presence) but a little less funny,very serious and more bitter.

Yes, I could not agree more. You are always playing the freshness of the younger women with their spontaneity versus the more knowledge and higher emotional stability of the older woman. There is no right or wrong answer to this question. My particular answer is to try to sample what you can and see if you can find a great girl that you can live with and have a nice life with… but it is not difficult. The arrival of a lot of countries to the EU like Poland, Latvia, etc with a lot of internal immigration to the UK, etc, just made things much more interesting but also more difficult as new standards were somehow created and eyes were opened. It is quite difficult now to close them.

I had a conversation with an old friend of mine in Germany a few months ago and she complained bitterly that all German man want to go out with Russian, Polish, etc women, and German women are not happy. Hey, it is not their fault if these new entrants are tall, elegant, dress to kill, and incredible polite and nice and (let’s face it) are not difficult to bed…

grass is always greener syndrom perhpas

its been very interesting reading the chit chat between you guys, gives us a little insight in the way you view women. some of it is totally way off the mark ,but as for kennoddy your right that a lot of the time its confidence that wins a woman over more so than looks. A man thet can make a woman laugh and keep a conversation interesting oozes charm which works wonders

AE is spot on :) Personality babes ;) its what most men need as we certaintly aint the fairer sex if you get me - ugly lads :) beautiful women!

Perfect example: I was at a wedding yesterday and while eating dinner got talking to a very nice couple. while he was i,d roughly say well into his 50,s , bald very grey and she was at least 20 years younger stunningly beautiful and totally mad about him but he had amazing wit and confidence. other people at the table were commenting after saying thing,s like "what in gods name was someone like her doing with him" but i could see why.He spent the whole evening looking after her making her laugh and was very out going.

And no he wasnt rich. Is a security guard and it was nice to see a couple so devoted to each other and i,d say they were definetly BEST FRIENDS.

Iam going to keep that in the memory

the way to be :)

Weird.

Why so?

Polish girls want to be lead,do they like strong men or do they prefer weaker men to handle them better?

maybe you are confused.

the Polish women cooks and cleans for you. The strong man is in control

Whats all this control crap about. nobody should be controling anybody.
Theres a big difference between being a strong person and a controlling person. :?

someone always is in control

the dominating personality controls