Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her

re-bound relationships are just horrible, because the unsuspecting new lady or gent
has no idea how much was involved and they wont ever measure up, its up to the
one who broke it off recently to take a break, because this causes more problems
in the end, and what if the "old love" shows back up and says I want you back?
the new one gets hurt, then the old love says, oh yeah, I remembered why we
didnt work and leaves again, and thus, another mess..

not good to jump out of the pan and into the fire..

nice that she didn't cut you to the quick like an english would have

This is exactly the point.Exactly.This is the advantage of both polish and english girls.They cut you to the quick.
The difference is that english girls tend to do it in a rough way,so you need guts to approach the next while the polish girls do it so politely that you find it amusing to approach the next.Meeting one girl brings you closer to the next one.

Contrary to swedish or dutch girls who talk to you for hours without any (quality) result.

thanks Southern, i know what you mean about dutch women, lovely and tall though!

I think the average height in Holland is the biggest on earth.184 cm on average for men and 172 cm for women if I remember,that is about 15% of dutch women are above 180cm!

And among young generation possibly about 25% of dutch women stand over 180 cm.

There is a friend of a friend, he had a long time girlfriend, we all thought this was going to end in marriage but they broke up and within a week he was in another relationship. When I saw her I couldn't believe the similarity between the old and the new girlfriend.

Do we have certain 'types' of people that we always go for or was this guy just trying to recreate his previous failed relationship?

this is very common. i reckon we,re just attracted to a certain type of person yes. my husbands many conquests all had simularities to me. but for me now i go to the total opposite of him because i dont want 2 be reminded of him in any way shape or form

There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason behind it. In the past I've seemed to go for ladies with dark hair, (although at the moment, as long as you have a pulse I'm interested. lol)

ha ha thats it ken keep all options open lol ;0 )

For example polish girls.

So, could you tell a girl was Polish just by looking at her?

Attraction is a strange beast, why do we fall for one type but not another.

Yes I can.I can spot a polish girl from 200 meters in whatever environement.

And they can see you coming from a mile off. lol

The women do not have good long distance sight.This is your advantage.

They would need to be blind to be interested in me, lol.

Again the same?Believe it or not,women are blind.
You have no problem.

? Please elaborate.

When women look at you,they do not actually look what is in front of them but what they have in mind about you.So if for example a woman is after divorce and thinks all men are pigs you will look like a pig to her no matter how handsome you are.

If she thinks that sb called Ken has to be a great lover,you will look as a cazanova to her.You never know the strange world in womens' mind.

I think we are all guilty of that to a certain extent.

You are not guilty.It is chick's logic.
You are never guilty.Blame the testosterone.

Whatever you say.

Imagine that you are not simply Ken but the new face of Kazanova.Girls fall for just a blinking of your eyes,a look to them.Man it is simple.For some girls you are Kazanova.The others are simply not lucky.

More like "wondering what you have inside you",
and looking for clues to see what is there, aside from what he wants you to see....
isn't that what everyone does?

Men simply attempt to catch a better view.

Please explain...

So many angles to estimate,but at the end you manage.They are always hidden under a small cloth protuberance.

There is some truth to this.
I also found that women’s memory can be quite selective. So for example if you lived for years happily with a girl but something happens and now she does not like you, she will sometimes rewind the whole past and re-write a completely different one, regardless of the actual reality…I don’t think men do this as much.

not if you are a nudist.


i love this gem.. wonder where this stat. came from?.. what is the percentage of women who are short sighted compared to men.

You're not serious! Why would anyone want to do that?

I've been doing alot of analysizing this past week. I've been going back over some old stuff with a fresh perspective and a few interesting things have occured to me. A few years back there was a girl I kind of fancied (or more accurately lusted after) and only now I'm realising that she tried to hit on me on a couple of occasions. I don't know how or why I didn't pick up these signs at the time. She isn't the sort of girl I am actually interested in starting a relationship with and she's certainly not the type you bring home to meet the parents. She has a bit of a reputation as a maneater and is a bit mad. I think I am looking for an intellectual equal as a partner and I don't think she would fit the bill. I saw her down the street the other day for the first time in a couple of years, there is definately a connection between us but whether alot of men are getting that same connection I don't know. I probably shouldn't even entertain the idea of me and her, it is the old Ken coming to the surface, attracted to the physical looks instead of the person inside. It is difficult to resist these inate male feelings, especially when she has such a killer body!

Ken, the man eater will not do you any harm...as long as you don't stop your quest for the girl of your dreams. And you get war hardened!

Few (single ?) men will turn down a man eater as long as she is reasonably attractive.