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Fell in love with a Polish girl, but find it difficult to approach her


Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
30 May 2007 /  #541
re-bound relationships are just horrible, because the unsuspecting new lady or gent
has no idea how much was involved and they wont ever measure up, its up to the
one who broke it off recently to take a break, because this causes more problems
in the end, and what if the "old love" shows back up and says I want you back?
the new one gets hurt, then the old love says, oh yeah, I remembered why we
didnt work and leaves again, and thus, another mess..

not good to jump out of the pan and into the fire..
alan_uk  - | 7  
30 May 2007 /  #542
nice that she didn't cut you to the quick like an english would have
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #543
This is exactly the point.Exactly.This is the advantage of both polish and english girls.They cut you to the quick.
The difference is that english girls tend to do it in a rough way,so you need guts to approach the next while the polish girls do it so politely that you find it amusing to approach the next.Meeting one girl brings you closer to the next one.

Contrary to swedish or dutch girls who talk to you for hours without any (quality) result.
alan_uk  - | 7  
30 May 2007 /  #544
thanks Southern, i know what you mean about dutch women, lovely and tall though!
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #545
lovely and tall though!

I think the average height in Holland is the biggest on earth.184 cm on average for men and 172 cm for women if I remember,that is about 15% of dutch women are above 180cm!

And among young generation possibly about 25% of dutch women stand over 180 cm.
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
30 May 2007 /  #546
not good to jump out of the pan and into the fire..

There is a friend of a friend, he had a long time girlfriend, we all thought this was going to end in marriage but they broke up and within a week he was in another relationship. When I saw her I couldn't believe the similarity between the old and the new girlfriend.

Do we have certain 'types' of people that we always go for or was this guy just trying to recreate his previous failed relationship?
angel eyes  1 | 131  
30 May 2007 /  #547
this is very common. i reckon we,re just attracted to a certain type of person yes. my husbands many conquests all had simularities to me. but for me now i go to the total opposite of him because i dont want 2 be reminded of him in any way shape or form
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
30 May 2007 /  #548
this is very common.

There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason behind it. In the past I've seemed to go for ladies with dark hair, (although at the moment, as long as you have a pulse I'm interested. lol)
angel eyes  1 | 131  
30 May 2007 /  #549
as long as you have a pulse I'm interested. lol)

ha ha thats it ken keep all options open lol ;0 )
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #550
re just attracted to a certain type of person

For example polish girls.
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
30 May 2007 /  #551
So, could you tell a girl was Polish just by looking at her?

Attraction is a strange beast, why do we fall for one type but not another.
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #552
So, could you tell a girl was Polish just by looking

Yes I can.I can spot a polish girl from 200 meters in whatever environement.
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
30 May 2007 /  #553
And they can see you coming from a mile off. lol
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #554
The women do not have good long distance sight.This is your advantage.
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
30 May 2007 /  #555
They would need to be blind to be interested in me, lol.
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #556
Again the same?Believe it or not,women are blind.
You have no problem.
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
30 May 2007 /  #557
? Please elaborate.
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #558
When women look at you,they do not actually look what is in front of them but what they have in mind about you.So if for example a woman is after divorce and thinks all men are pigs you will look like a pig to her no matter how handsome you are.

If she thinks that sb called Ken has to be a great lover,you will look as a cazanova to her.You never know the strange world in womens' mind.
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
30 May 2007 /  #559
they do not actually look what is in front of them but what they have in mind about you

I think we are all guilty of that to a certain extent.
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #560
You are not guilty.It is chick's logic.
You are never guilty.Blame the testosterone.
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #562
Imagine that you are not simply Ken but the new face of Kazanova.Girls fall for just a blinking of your eyes,a look to them.Man it is simple.For some girls you are Kazanova.The others are simply not lucky.
shopgirl  6 | 928  
30 May 2007 /  #563
When women look at you,they do not actually look what is in front of them but what they have in mind about you

More like "wondering what you have inside you",
and looking for clues to see what is there, aside from what he wants you to see....
isn't that what everyone does?
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #564
isn't that what everyone does?

Men simply attempt to catch a better view.
southern  73 | 7059  
30 May 2007 /  #566
So many angles to estimate,but at the end you manage.They are always hidden under a small cloth protuberance.
Lobo  - | 81  
1 Jun 2007 /  #567
When women look at you,they do not actually look what is in front of them but what they have in mind about you.So if for example a woman is after divorce and thinks all men are pigs you will look like a pig to her no matter how handsome you are.
If she thinks that sb called Ken has to be a great lover,you will look as a cazanova to her.You never know the strange world in womens' mind.

There is some truth to this.
I also found that women’s memory can be quite selective. So for example if you lived for years happily with a girl but something happens and now she does not like you, she will sometimes rewind the whole past and re-write a completely different one, regardless of the actual reality…I don’t think men do this as much.
sapphire  22 | 1241  
1 Jun 2007 /  #568
They are always hidden under a small cloth protuberance.

not if you are a nudist.

The women do not have good long distance sight.This is your advantage.

i love this gem.. wonder where this stat. came from?.. what is the percentage of women who are short sighted compared to men.
OP Ken Noddy  2 | 161  
1 Jun 2007 /  #569
So for example if you lived for years happily with a girl but something happens and now she does not like you, she will sometimes rewind the whole past and re-write a completely different one, regardless of the actual reality

You're not serious! Why would anyone want to do that?

I've been doing alot of analysizing this past week. I've been going back over some old stuff with a fresh perspective and a few interesting things have occured to me. A few years back there was a girl I kind of fancied (or more accurately lusted after) and only now I'm realising that she tried to hit on me on a couple of occasions. I don't know how or why I didn't pick up these signs at the time. She isn't the sort of girl I am actually interested in starting a relationship with and she's certainly not the type you bring home to meet the parents. She has a bit of a reputation as a maneater and is a bit mad. I think I am looking for an intellectual equal as a partner and I don't think she would fit the bill. I saw her down the street the other day for the first time in a couple of years, there is definately a connection between us but whether alot of men are getting that same connection I don't know. I probably shouldn't even entertain the idea of me and her, it is the old Ken coming to the surface, attracted to the physical looks instead of the person inside. It is difficult to resist these inate male feelings, especially when she has such a killer body!
Lobo  - | 81  
1 Jun 2007 /  #570
Ken, the man eater will not do you any harm...as long as you don't stop your quest for the girl of your dreams. And you get war hardened!

Few (single ?) men will turn down a man eater as long as she is reasonably attractive.

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