What is this feeling? <Filipino guy / Polish girl>

I hv been wondering about one thing lately and it just keeps bugging me so when I've found this forum I just thought to give it a go and see what other people think. So here it goes:

I really like Asian guys, I find myself really attracted to Chinese, Japanese, Korean boys. Sometime ago I hv met this Filipino guy and it started to be really weird. We hv the same friends so we hag out 2gether sometimes and it's not like I think about him all the time or daydream or think how cool he is or anything like that... it's just that I cannot concentrate when he is close or when I hear his name I have that weird feeling; when I see him it's like my body goes numb or something, when I hear someone say he's coming I have that sudden urge to see him; once he sat next to me (even though there was plenty chairs around) and I couldn't even swallow or brief properly... (I don't know it's just weird because I've never was like that before with anyone).

And also I'm really scared when I see him, he's always nice to me and says 'hello' first it's like he looks first at me and then waits till I look at him and then says it (and his eyes and smile); he listens when I talk and also starts conversation with me since I'm just to scared to talk to him first I just try to ignore him in case I do something wrong or stupid.... There was a situation once when we sat opposite each other and our friends just wondered off somewhere and I felt really weird that I couldn't even look at him but when I did he turned his eyes in a different direction and then run off...so I don't know... I don't want to think that he likes me or something but maybe we could be good friends.

It's infatuation? If there's fear, I would insist breaking up with him, what love is there then?

Filipino guys have average height of 158 cm and polish girls 168 cm.Probably a mismatch.

we are not a couple and the fear thing is more like I'm afraid of what happens if he'll know that 'I like him', the fear of rejection perhaps... I have never had this kind of fascination for anyone it's like u really care about someone but ur unable to say it because u don't know what that other person thinks.

I think Ningyou you should come to Balkans and change your name to Ninzitc.I guarantee you lots of successes in our valleys and mountains.

gosh does high really matter???? and is 10cm that big of a difference???? it's not about that.


now what that supposed to mean????

You're the best man, LOLOLOL

Of course it matters.10 cm taller woman is considered a big difference.

so how about that i know couples Asian boy/White girl where boy is a lot shorter than girl and they still got married and are happy...

and anyway I'm not that tall and that guy is not that short. I might be just some hopeless romantic but still don't u bring me down people just because there is slight difference of maybe 5cm in the height.

Let me guess.The girl is Polish.

no as a matter of fact she is American and the guy is Chinese

But you wrote you know couples.So you know one couple.America is crazy country.I met a pacific Asian with Greek girlfriend so I don't know whatnot say.If it happened in Greece...the Pacific would remain an option.

are u going to point out now what I said or wrote???? and by the way that couple lives in china so imagine that <chinese people are not very tall either I know cause I hv many Chinese friends and some of them r really small and some some r tall (one of my chinese friends is a girl and taller than me).

I noticed that popularity of Asians among white females has slightly increased and I attribute this to the fact that Japanese and Koreans use techniques,dress stylish and imitate.I remember I had a Japanese friend in Vienna who in one month managed to talk exactly like me to girls,dress exactly like Italians and dance hip- hop like Latins(like Blacks is impossible).

well yes but then again asian female r popular among white boys and their relationship is not odd but more acceptable.

Yes, because Asian girls are very obedient they view you as the master and never say sth bad.

well i hv also heard that they like white guys because they want better material living if u know what i mean and i hv also heard that asian guys r also obedient and they 2 worship their partners and r faithful

Poles and Filipinos have a strange attraction to one another that is difficult to explain. Perhaps it is a physical disparity that the genius of the species wishes to transcend in offspring. In any event it has led to violence. Leon Czolgosz shot President McKinley out of love for Filipinos.

I'm an Asian-guy and I'm 180 so the fact is: the new generation is way much taller than the past =)

And my cousin who is only 14 years old are already 190 (and he is ofc 100 % Asian)

And also I don't think the height does matter so much. My ex-girlfriend was even taller than me. She was 182 and she was always wearing high heel-shoes so with her shoes, she was like 192.

180 boy with 192 girl , you'll do the math.

There were no problems at all and yes, she was blonde, had blue eyes, typical 100 % "clean white race"

clean white race???? so because I'm a brunette and have brown eyes I'm like what worse or something???

but i agree with the height think, it's not really important

Welcome to the club. ;)

Sounds like love to me. And he seems to have the same feelings for you. Go with it and enjoy it. This is what life is all about.


Don't listen to the weirdos here.

How old are you? You sound like a novice in love.

Hi, i would say just follow ur heart and let love carry u on its ways.

i'm 21 but i never really dated or anything i used 2 hang out with this one guy but it was more like friendship kinda relationship. but this time it's something else 'coz i actually feel something for the guy, my heart goes thump thump.


that did build up my confidence a bit ^^

Well it's about time you got started. With each date, with each relationship, you'll gain confidence. As well you'll learn to better read the signs...


Yep, love.

oh those signs... I wish it was easier to know what's what ^^

Well, the truth is that it never gets any easier, really. :s
But as you gain experience in the arts of interaction and romance at least you'll know what to look for.

good advice trener zolwia ^^ thanx

haha no, I didn't say that. That's why I wrote that phrase in this kind of thing: --->>> " " <<< --

That means: other ppl are saying that, not me.

For me, I don't care about the hair-colour or eyes-colour or the height :) or also the weight ;) unless she is over 300 kg, then it might be a problem for me ;P

oooowww that's kinda cute 2 say u know XD you just hear that things about Asian guys liking white girls only when they're really skinny and blond but u kinda cool saying something different that everyone else :)

i never had a Polish girlfriend before but i have a friend she is funny though
not all Filipino are small =) i am Filipino my self but i am taller than my Polish friend =)