As an American I just got out of a relationship with woman who had a lot of Polish ancestry. She displayed some amazing traits and is the reason why I wish to consider dating / marrying a Polish woman.
She desired a relationship with God. She had good, strong genetics. (She was very feminine, but tough too) She loved to cook. She was an excellent mom and she loved to love! (okay the main reason we broke up, she had been rejected by her birth dad, sexually molested as a teenage by her adopted dad, got into dancing - lots of sexual partners (never good for the soul) lost her baby 18 mo girl and a month later discovered her then husband was having an affair. Just a lot of issues stemming from her childhood. But still, she is an amazing woman on an amazing journey.
Anyways, I fly as airline pilot and on the side I am starting an organic raw milk dairy farm in Indiana. Though I can get dirty on the farm, I am not always dirty and smelly is what I am saying.
Where would I have the best prospect for meeting a quality Polish woman who wouldn't mind settling down in the countryside in Indiana? I am NOT looking for a farm wife slave, but a truly a wife whose love I will cherish, and we can be friends and partners enjoying this journey together. My email is cowsfly@hotmail if you happen to want to pass along information and correspond with me.
Maybe some of you PF-ers more experienced in this area could inform this gent of a good Polish online matrimonial site. He is interested in qualtiy Polish womanhood.
I will hold onto it for future reference whenever a PolAm askes about marrying Polish. Incidentally the 50-year-old I mentioend a while back did not have to come to Poland. He met a 40-year-old lady who was caring for her edlerly mum in Toronto and after she died he comforted her and they became friends. She is a widow from Siemiatycze (husband was killed in a car crash). She has a 16-year-old son living with his aunt in Siemiatycze and she is a very devout Catholic. The gent, who had been hoping for an 'innocent and wholesome' 20-some-year-old, has apparently lowered his standards. Whatever the case, I for one wish them well! Ad multos annos!
When in Chicago, be sure to attend Sunday Mass at Holy Trinity Church which draws people, including many attractive and available Catholic young ladies, from all over the metropoltian area.There are social hours after Mass -- a good way to meet people. There are also Chicagoland Polish bars and clubs if your taste runs more to good-time Suzies and other floozies. The choice is yours.
You mean she is what you delightfully referred to as "second-hand"?
She has a 16-year-old son living with his aunt in Siemiatycze
You mean that she is a single mother who has abandoned her only child? I'm amazed that she doesn't have you frothing at the mouth.
good-time Suzies and other floozies.
This Susan who broke your heart all those decades ago, are you planning to die hating her too, just as you hate the editor who wouldn't give you a job on his paper?
As I understood it, the gent had originally wanted a wholesome unspoilt girl in her 20s. Not able to find it, he lowered his standards and settled for what was more readily available. But a widow who went to Canada to look after her sick elderly mother sounds like a good person, even though the age and marital status were not what had orignally been desired.
Quality Polish womanhood would be a decent, respectable, hard-working, loyal and devout Catholic woman who makes a good wife and mother. I presume your priorities are quite the opposite: pierced, tatooed, fun-loving pub-crawling, pot-smoking sleep-about. The kind that rarely if ever darkens a church doorway but never misses a party. To you that is a 'real' woman. To each his own.
Is there a reason that Polonius is allowed to insult Sobieski's wife? I somehow doubt that he'd be brave enough to make those same comments in front of the lady in question (or in front of her husband).
This has nothing to do with anyone's wife. When I asked where my 50-year-old should look, I was merely relaying his want list. Someone asked what was meant by 'quality Polish womanhood' and I replied: Quality Polish womanhood would be a decent, respectable, hard-working, loyal and devout Catholic woman who makes a good wife and mother. Nobody has to agree with it. If someone rejects those priorities -- fine -- it's not against the law.
Only some ad-hominem-obsessed PF-ers are constantly dragging in the employers, family members or private affairs of other posters and try to imoptue simialr mtovies to others.
So, given that he isn't single, why are you commenting on what Sobieski's idea of a real woman is? What makes you think that you can drag other poster's families into your abuse?
Only some ad-hominem-obsessed PF-ers are constantly dragging in the employers, family members or private affairs of other posters
You keep on whining about that but nobody has mentioned your employers or family members of private affairs, have they.
One can be married and still fancy a certain kind of woman that your wife may not be. BTW, re stalking; ask your mate Delph how he could have possibly known that I really am a practising, church-going Catholic. Did he (does he) follow me to church on Sunday or what? You sort it out with him and let us all know, OK?
ask your mate Delph how he could have possibly known that I really am a practising, church-going Catholic.
I'd much like to know what makes you think that Delph reckons you are a practising Catholic. As your words in this thread and virtually every other thread you pollute here show, you are almost as far from a practicing Christian as it is possible for a person to get.
You're the e-gadgetarian so scroll back. It's somewhere in there when he was publically analysing me for some odd, unknown reason. I reckon he fancies that sort of thing. There are outfits that keep sending out spam: Find out what you're girlfriend, wife or chidlren are doing that spy on people for a fee. Maybe he could set up such a firm and earn a little extra on the side. Hey, why not ask him directly,when it was he made that comment. Then it'll be easier for you to find it. Good luck!
sobieski Not everyone reduces everything to attacks or compliments. First you were lambasting the poor bloke for having unrealistic demands, so now when he has revised his requirements, you're back at your favourite pastime -- blasting. Why don't you buy a dog so you can kick him to let off your pent-up frustration. Or. better yet, jump into the bear pit at the Warsaw Zoo and kick the first bear you see in the balls.
I insulted no-one. The word wife was never mentioned. But since you have constantly derided the notion of a fresh, wholesome, untainted and innocent, God-fearing girl in her 20s, you obviously have a different aesthetic.
I am absolutely sure that you would have to try hard to find fresh, wholesome, untainted and innocent girls in their twenties, especially in the countryside, in any century; they might look fresh and wholesome, but most of them would have had some sort of sexual experience by that age. Historically, a girl in her twenties was not seen as a potential bride, but a withered old maid! They were either married by that age and probably already mothers, or left on the shelf. Ladies of the night excepted of course, these probably lost their innocence a lot earlier even than today (very early teens if we are to believe contemporary accounts).
something like that. rent-a-geisha mentality, as if Poland is this rural society stuck in the middle ages and women are cattle or something. friendly advice: turn off Fox News, get a damn passport and come and visit Europe. you'll be surprised.
