Expat marrying Polish - honest experiences

what? do you know my wife do you then?

first i heard of it lol

that doesn't help much with the flow of conversation, does it ?

nevermind

taking it slightly out of context there wroclaw. anyways polish women are usually bang tidy

Well, to sum up - it is about a female, being most likely Indian ( other threads she started/contributed to point towards it ), starting a thread named "expat marrying Polish", asking "what it is like to be in an interracial marriage here in Poland" then getting severely pissed off when people ( I for one ) assumed she was marrying a Polish guy, almost to a point where one would think she considers marrying a bloke from Poland being tantamount to having babies with a man-eating tiger.

Pretty much a complete synopsis :-)

Well as a daughter in law I am seen as a slave for the family, the where quite suprised that I did not play the liitle games and the test the mother in law had set up for me. I did not go out of my way to seek there approval the mother and the daughters in law felt that it was an honour from me to be related to them and that It was my lifes purpose to be their driver, bank machine, abuse taker, so needless to say I did not live up to their standards .

My inlaws are always causing trouble for us and expecting us to get them out of jams that they created them selves. That has been my honest experience.

^^ Somebody doesn't take crap from their "tesciowa". Bet they were surprised.

Great stuff, madam.

It is not racist to notice and be aware of an obvious difference. Why does it bother you? I do not mind when the people of color notice that I am white. I am proud of who I am. I am sure you are proud of your background. It is reasonable to expect or even demand a respectful and dignified treatment, it is simply insanely PC to try to make people pretend not to be seeing something they obviously do see.