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Do Polish couples have children outside wedlock ?


roynelson2012  2 | 12  
4 Apr 2012 /  #1
Hi just wondering do polish couples have children outside wedlock ?
OP roynelson2012  2 | 12  
4 Apr 2012 /  #3
cause i know many couples in germany and netherland that do have children but are not married
ReservoirDog  - | 132  
4 Apr 2012 /  #4
O.k. sorry I didn't check your profile ;).yes, it happens, but most people get married sooner or later. Sometimes this depends on your financial status, marriage involves costs, especially Polish wedding. Sometimes incompatibility of characters makes that people split :) - immaturity. Having children outside marriage, especially being married to another person, betrayal is criticized.
OP roynelson2012  2 | 12  
4 Apr 2012 /  #5
th reason i asked is im married to a polish woman and we are going through a divorce at the moment . but my girlfriend at the moment is also polish. we want to get married but we cant , not till the first marriage gets cancelled. we dont want to wait to get married to have children . pls advice
ReservoirDog  - | 132  
4 Apr 2012 /  #6
we dont want to wait to get married to have children

:) wait. You didn't wait at the first time and now you want divorce. What if your new girlfriend got pregnant and will never marry you?? you could lost your child...just look at Anglik1 thread.
OP roynelson2012  2 | 12  
4 Apr 2012 /  #7
so ur saying its not a good idea to have children with my current girlfriend and that i need to wait for the divorce to come through .
Barney  17 | 1623  
4 Apr 2012 /  #8
That would be good advice

Edit
Why the rush for children or to remarry?
OP roynelson2012  2 | 12  
4 Apr 2012 /  #9
and what if the divorce takes time. and me and my girlfriend want to start a family or if she gets pregenant suddenly
Barney  17 | 1623  
4 Apr 2012 /  #10
That's not multitasking.
OP roynelson2012  2 | 12  
4 Apr 2012 /  #11
I just need some some solid advice . please as a friend tell me what i need to do , causei have absoulutiely no idea. with a civil marriage under my belt i cant do a church marriage . i need cancel the first marriage with my ex wife. and then move on . please
isthatu2  4 | 2692  
4 Apr 2012 /  #12
EditWhy the rush for children or to remarry?

Leave to remain under EU right to family life clause.......
OP roynelson2012  2 | 12  
4 Apr 2012 /  #13
what does that mean . i dont understand
Amathyst  19 | 2700  
4 Apr 2012 /  #14
Me thinks someone is spot on..first woman he married - decided it wasnt for her for whatever reason, now he's after getting one pregnant to ensure he retains his rights! I wonder when Polish women will get wise to these kind of men?

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