kareof
5 Jul 2013 / #1
Met Polish Bf in the US, together for 6 years, broke up for a year (I stayed in US) but restarted relationship again in September. Because of his chaotic divorce in US, he ran away back to Poland and started another divorce proceedings. I changed profession to be with him and started to work here around late 2009 and come back and forth US-Poland as I am a US Citizen and basically live in US.
We always argue as always because he is a VERY jealous man, has guilt-inducing tactics to control, I can't have close friends as he finds it a threat to the relationship, very suspicious about everything I do, hates my having passwords (everyone has, including him!) but I shouldn't have. He hacks my FB account, all my accounts therefore knows everything I write or do on my laptop, even a comma. Meanwhile he has password on his phone, once in a while he disappears for a long time, incommunicado, comes home early morning. I of course don't just take it, that's why the fight every so often. My feelings are honestly sliding down the drain and cannot figure out anymore positive reason to stay; especially that he's jobless and owes a lot of child support money and the old mother still supporting. He is the most jealous and envious man, to the absolute power!
Now, I'm feeling trapped and in a dilemna. I found a shocking message (in google English) on my FB after coming back from US and it's from a Monika:
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I know that you came back
Tomasz is dating with me if you wanna know, he told me that I shouldn't tell you about this becouse you are bit crazy
and I want you to know that we are meeting for long time and we want be together and I don't understand what you want to do and why?
you should understand that this is the end and he don't want you , it is so hard to understand for you? are you blind?
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Isn't this too audacious and ballsy and arrogant and cocky, therefore flabbergasting and jaw-dropping? I haven't met or have known of a woman like this until now. She did the dirty job of telling me because the coward guy couldn't. Of course, it's too good to have me and someone else who is oh-so-willing to have an affair with. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. What do you think guys?
We always argue as always because he is a VERY jealous man, has guilt-inducing tactics to control, I can't have close friends as he finds it a threat to the relationship, very suspicious about everything I do, hates my having passwords (everyone has, including him!) but I shouldn't have. He hacks my FB account, all my accounts therefore knows everything I write or do on my laptop, even a comma. Meanwhile he has password on his phone, once in a while he disappears for a long time, incommunicado, comes home early morning. I of course don't just take it, that's why the fight every so often. My feelings are honestly sliding down the drain and cannot figure out anymore positive reason to stay; especially that he's jobless and owes a lot of child support money and the old mother still supporting. He is the most jealous and envious man, to the absolute power!
Now, I'm feeling trapped and in a dilemna. I found a shocking message (in google English) on my FB after coming back from US and it's from a Monika:
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I know that you came back
Tomasz is dating with me if you wanna know, he told me that I shouldn't tell you about this becouse you are bit crazy
and I want you to know that we are meeting for long time and we want be together and I don't understand what you want to do and why?
you should understand that this is the end and he don't want you , it is so hard to understand for you? are you blind?
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Isn't this too audacious and ballsy and arrogant and cocky, therefore flabbergasting and jaw-dropping? I haven't met or have known of a woman like this until now. She did the dirty job of telling me because the coward guy couldn't. Of course, it's too good to have me and someone else who is oh-so-willing to have an affair with. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. What do you think guys?