Do African or Afro- American women find Polish men attractive?

Who is this Cuban?

Ola Szwed. Very nice lalka.

She isn't Cuban. She's Polish, born and bred.

I know she's not Cuban, but I thought the name would speak for itself.

Making assumptions when it comes to names and nationalities can get you into a lot of trouble. Erich Zelewski could easily be mistake for being Polish, what with a name like that (along with being born in Poland and having Polish mother), but he was actually the Nazi bastard who destroyed most of Warsaw. Similarly, a bloke with a name like Frédéric François sounds like he should be 100% French but saying that can cause a fight in certain pubs here.

Anyway, back to the topic "Do African or Afro- American women find Polish men attractive?": if the Polish man in question is standing next to our resident North American racists, any woman will find that Pole attractive.

Well, Erich is not Polish, Ola/Aleksandra is ;)
Anyway, it was obvious I was talking about a 'coloured' Polish lady. There are more, but I can't remember their names...

I think it is possible. I wouldn't say for certain. My father is 1/2 Polish, and my mother is from the Caribbean, mixed with white, African and Chinese. So I look interesting.

I am a dark skinned black woman living in the USA who is in a long term relationship with a half polish/half german man. I am not considered multiracial as both my parents identify as African American, though I am sure everyone in this nation has some mixture of races in their ancestry. I cannot speak for the experience of anyone else, but there are people on this planet that look at the quality of a person's character and do not consider race in their coupling choices. I happen to be one. If the original asker of this question is interested in my opinion, I would say get to know some African or African American women and if you're interested in someone that you meet, ask her out. If she says no, move on to another woman. Beauty is really in the eyes of the beholder. Some men prefer thin, fair skinned blonde women. Some men like big butts and they cannot lie. Some guys like a nice pair of legs. We can't judge one another based on our personal preferences, all we can do is accept it and move on with our lives.

I dont know where you are gathering your information. My father and all my uncles on both sides of my family as well as my cousins and brothers are very hard working men, those with children are present for their families and most are college educated. I feel this is an unfair assessment.

I agree it depends on the person. I would encourage everyone to read up on Loving vs Virginia. Its a great story about two people in love in a time when it was illegal to love as you choose. Many people saw what they went through and decided to "stick to their own". When I go out with my bf, we still get crazy looks from crotchety old men and black couples alike. Everyone just needs to get over it. The world will eventually remix itself.

What does "Remix" mean?

I am not attracted to Poles at all. i am a mixed races woman and I experienced mostly unpleasant behaviour. Polish men do not respect women and look at the people of colour as on an inferior human being. Many of them are quite narcisstic and have this Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde personality which can charm you in the beginning but once they win you over true colours come out. They are not gentlemen and treat a women with lack of respect. In general, men from Eastern Europe are not a good choice for a partner for a person of any race Arrogant, aggressive, weak-willed and spoiled rotten by their over-protective mothers.

And vice versa

And Fathers who are MARRIED to their over-protective mothers.
72% of Black children are born to un-wed mothers who can't afford to spoil their children.
When a Polish man is looking for a Black woman he is looking for a trophy to get all he can.
When a Black woman is looking for a Polish man she is looking for a sugar daddy to get all she can.
So if the Polish man can keep the cash flow going to a Black woman she is very attractive to a Polish man.

You see your limited experience as a general law here, which is unwise of course even for a person of mixed origin

BTW, to represent your limited experience as a general law, you have to have personal relationships with several millions men and their number must be growing or use statistical

methods....

Bit of an outlandish statement I think.
Polish men are rarely sugar daddies in the USA/UK and black women are not generally considered trophy wives either. We are just talking about two average ethnic groups that could be attracted to each other or might not be. Attraction really does depend on the individuals involved!

And when a Polish lady is looking for a black man? I'm waiting for your answer.

If you seek to upset the poster then you should channel your nonsensical comments back to her, and not to the entire black race. She came out of nowhere, only God knows for what reason, just to attack Poles on here, but you should remember that not everyone in her race share the same sentiments as her. Her comments shouldn't give you the yardstick to bring the entire black race into disrepute.

You mean the same racial prejudice as her? You're right, not everyone.

Indeed, the women usually carries the stereotype of "money grabber" especially in Europe where Social programs allow for child birth and/or University studies.

My2cents described the typical White Male in Western Society from a middle class home.

You claim to be from Slovakia but you are preoccupied with thoughts about awful Poland and ugly polish men. Is Slovakia more racially tolerant than than Poland ? Though it is evident you do not like Eastern Europe as a whole.

Do you think that writing long heartrending posts will bring greater comfort and pleasure into you life than going back ( possibly to non -European) home ?

Hey,
Im Afro American.
I dont know how I found this thread.....lol.

But I think it was because I was typing in 'Aboriginals from Australia" or something.

Now, I cant speak for ALL Americans or Afro- Americans but I'll say that most Black Woman stick with other Black men.
Mainly because we share a cultural bond that we can relate with each other with.
So because of that; many Afro/Black Americans dont go outside of their race.
But its not just that we only specifically stick with men of say, African backgrounds.

Its even rare for Afro/Black Americans to date men from Africa (I. E. Kenya, Nigeria, Ethiopia, South Africa) because we too are culturally different.

Now, once agin, I'm not saying it doesnt happen, because Ive seen Black woman married or dating Africans/Asians/Hispanics and white men.

But im just saying its rare for us to venture out.
Now the question is,

"Do African or Afro- American women find Polish men attractive?"
You know, it all depends. There is no true answer for that.
But I'll say if you're confident and forward (without being sexually aggressive and overly forward) with a Black woman, you'll atleast get a date.

We dont like when men beat around the bush with their affections. Because to most of us we find it unmanly.
We like you straight and to the point.
If you want to take a Black Woman out for a date, you dont hint to the question like,
"So Ive got two tickets to see this movie, but my friend backed out..... " and pause and wait for a reaction or response.

We dont have time for that ****!
What you do is say,
" Hey Denise, I was wondering if you'd like to watch this movie with me tonight, Id really like some company...."

Culturally, we dont play or beat around the bush. We get to the point with our intentions and motives, and if a man is hesitant with his intentions it comes off weak to us.

No hate towards anyone, just thought I'd throw in my two cents.

In Western Civilization [and abroad] Black Woman are below white, latina, asian. Then you add the element of black men being promiscuous and/or prone to crime/prison. It is sad to see blacks in america not give up the african [african-american] tag by now.

Black/African Woman + Polish Man?

Pros: Polish Man wants a powerful woman to challenge and make him a better man/father. Our culture does not wash laundry in public.

Cons: The obvious, multiculturalism.

As odd as the pairing sounds, it is not unheard. An educated/grounded woman breaks any barrier

You mean different races. Multiculturalism is obviously something entirely different.

Pros polish men have massive kielbasa in general

@nothanks

Lol......We think the same about Polish men in America.

Remember, when Polish came to America they were considered beneath Irish, Italians, and the Jews.

But, like I said, We Black American woman would prefer not to go outside our race.
But I do find it FUNNY you calling yourself superior, especially the way Poland is right now.

Your country is pretty much a third world country. No offense, but you know its true.
You guys barely got into the E. U.
But hearing a Polish Man claim he's superior just makes me laugh.

I'm not even offended.
My Grandmother was born in 1925. And she said as a child she used to pick potatoes with alot of Immigrant Polish people who were poor, uneducated and didn't even know the English language.

So a Pole claiming some sort of superiority is beyong hilarious. I would never date a Pollack because I see you as ignorant and uneducated.

I have a masters degree in chemical engineering, and would never date an immigrant who is non- american.
It has nothing to do with color really, I would just prefer to date an African- American man because they are better looking, or even any one really.... But only if they are American and maybe Canadian. Because America is the most powerful country, with the most powerful men.

Dont worry, an American would never date you. Black, White, Asian, or Hispanic. Just stick to the other White girls in Europe, you'll have better luck their than here in America.

Also, you may have better luck getting a peasant Chinese girl or Japanese/Korean bar maid then any Asian American here.
Seeing they too are highly educated and obviously passed you in status.
Lol....
A Polish or European man? NO THANK YOU!
But if you are American, Canadian or British.....ANYTIME.
Powerful men in powerful countries ONLY!
TATA!

Really? So how come you spew that racist garbage just because somebody said something on the internet. I would say you're very offended.


If so.. why would you care if someone of a different races shared that sentiment?


They have been among the first settlers and were very respected. You mean to say when they came in numbers in the 19th century.


Hey that as well might be true. However they were considered above blacks. lol!


What's that? You're an American black and you should be proud of it rather than spew racist rants. Shame on you.


No, its is not.


Bah, maybe he is an American Pole? what's then? lol!

Chillax!

@Ironside

I dont spill racism. Just facts.
And if you're upset about it, dont cry, but accept how people and most Black-Women view you. LOL
And yes, your country is a third world country.

I've visited it on several occasions for business.
You have some cities that are progressive, but your villages....another story.

Also, of course other Europeans were above Blacks in America.
That's why I didn't exaggerate the fact. I speak truth.
Poles were not pioneers in America.

Poles were the remainder of immigrants entering into this country.
You want to talk about pioneers?
Black Americans built this country, and the Chinese built most of the West Coast.
Most of you Poles came to America and did not spread out nationally.

Mainly living in the east coasts of America and Chicago.
If anything, you stayed stagnant in American history and had little to less of a significant role in American history.

Dont talk about pioneers and make it seem like you had a big role. Because your people didnt.

You seem offended by facts. And that's what I gave.
You just dont like my response.
That's fine....but know the difference between a racist. I never said I disliked whites.

But, im not fond of Polish men for sure. And your response and the response by @nothanks is a prime reason I look down on you Poles.

I tried being nice on here, but ignorance doesn't die out with a people when theyve been educated by their uneducated parents.
Im Done.......
Enjoy replying to a post where you will get no further response.

My point has been proven.
So please, in the future, Polish men stick with Polish women and Black American Woman stick with American men.
By the way, here in America Black- Americans use the terms African-American/Afro-American and Black-American interchangeably.

But of course, you wouldn't know that because you are ignorant and uneducated...Sucks to be you huh?

What facts? What you present as facts are not actually factual.


If anyone stared crying and ranting it was you, just because @nothanks posted something that you didn't like, you start ranting about Poland and Poles. Are you sure that you're new here?

Seems that this forum have a problem with a pest, a resurfacing troll.
So, either you're so insecure that you grossly overact to something someone said on the internet.
Do you even know if he is Polish? I have no idea who and what that guy is.
So, what that says about you if you are a genuine new poster here and not a troll?
Nothing good.


As matter of fact they don't. Mostly because they don't care one way or the other.


No, is it not. That is no factual.


Really? So in your opinion Poland is a third world country. Good for you. Do you want a golden star?
Nah, you don't deserve one.


Well, facts say otherwise. Obviously you wouldn't know that would you!


Please, don't talk about something you obviously have no idea about. Its boring!


No, you wanted to give an offence but in reality you have proved your ignorance as to facts. Good day to you.


No, I don't like your attitude. Other than that you can say whatever you want. Thing is I can do it too and I'm using this opportunity to call you on your BS.


You said that you preferred men from within your own race. That doesn't necessary makes you racist but given your rants about Poles it sure has given me a hint as to your real feelings.

Now you say you aren't racist....I don't really care if you are.


That is a lie. I have responded to you only after your rants anti-Polish BS. Are you telling me that some remark made by nothanks about whom you know nothing set you off in this ugly way? It means you're not a nice person or you're just a troll.


Good, we don't need your kind here.


In your dreams.


No, thanks. Go with this offer to whomever else. I'm not interested.

@Ironside, I am surprised you even talk to that troll. :p

That good for you because Polish men almost never find black women attractive, in fact black women are considered the least attractive from all the races according to surveys. From my personal experience as a Polish man I can say, even if you rarely see physically attractive black woman she still has big mouth and temper issues so what's the difference?


You mean cities that are developed, progressive can be political ideology so called far left.


I don't look down on any nationality, probably because I'm not racist like you.


Up your, I'll stick to any women I want, whether you like it or not.


Run!

Your posts are full of spelling and grammatical mistakes; one would expect better from someone who claims to have a Master's.