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Advice on how to make this Polish girl see me as more than a friend


AndyP99  
28 Apr 2012 /  #1
I've known this Polish girl for a couple of weeks now, we're both at college & I want to make her see me as more than a friend but, don't think I'm racist but I'm not into black girls so can she be not into English guys? Any help would be great. Do I need to do anything different to if she was English??? Thanks
jack010  2 | 18  
28 Apr 2012 /  #2
Im English from UK, I'm not much older than yourself, and im in a relationship with a Polish woman,
In my opinion Polish women especially the nice ones, dont usially go for looks or money, or what country
the guy is from, but they need to know that you care and that you will look after them, take care of them.
isthatu2  4 | 2692  
28 Apr 2012 /  #3
Do I need to do anything different to if she was English???

First off,after greeting her with a click of your heels and a quick bow of the head,take her right hand in yours,place it on your left shoulder and rub noses for exactly 7 and 1/2 seconds,no more or you are considered married no less and you are considered gay.

After the initial greeting no Polish girl can resist you telling her how big her bum is,they love it,if you really like this girl comment about her child bearing hips and massive thighs to,they just cant get enough. Now,I know its odd but remember,its a different culture,its not our place to judge old boy.

Good luck and let us know how you get on.
irishguy11  6 | 157  
28 Apr 2012 /  #4
Just grow a pair and ask her out. Have you had a gf before.
PennBoy  76 | 2429  
28 Apr 2012 /  #5
Advice on how to make this Polish girl see me as more than a friend

You can't. It's just something that is or isn't there, you should be able to see it by the way she looks at you.
OP AndyP99  
29 Apr 2012 /  #6
Thanks. Some helpful answers, some not so. We'll see...
pam  
29 Apr 2012 /  #7
I dont think it matters whether she is polish or not! All us women are the same deep down.Just talk to her, be nice, and she will see you in a different light.Flowers and chocs always help! Do take an interest in her culture though. Best of luck!
jusia9  - | 36  
10 May 2012 /  #8
just ask her :) , Polish girls hardly ever do first step... if she is keeping you close that means she already likes you :)
thats our culture... girls hardly ever hunt they prefer to being hunted... also we dont start to talk about our emotions first.
you need to take this risk and ask her first.. she will say no or yes !!!

and this is an advice from a Polish girl :)
NorthMancPolak  4 | 642  
10 May 2012 /  #9
I've known this Polish girl for a couple of weeks now, but, don't think I'm racist but I'm not into black girls

eh??

1/2 Polish at best ;)

if you don't like black girls, why would you want to be "more than a friend" anyway? Unless I'm missing something here.

I dont think it matters whether she is polish or not! All us women are the same deep down.

This makes sense.

Don't waste time, just get on with it. Wait weeks, and "just a fiend" is all you will ever be.

No point wasting days or weeks on it - it's far better to get the rejection out of the way early lol.
El Gordo  
10 May 2012 /  #10
if you don't like black girls, why would you want to be "more than a friend" anyway? Unless I'm missing something here.

Yeah,you are missing his point.Read it again (and again if necessary),you should get it at some point.If you won't come back to me and I will explain it to you.
NorthMancPolak  4 | 642  
10 May 2012 /  #11
You can shove your guest account up your smug, patronising ***, troll.

I'll explain, shall I?

a. He doesn't like black girls.

b. This girl appears to be black.

c. Yet he wants her to see him as more a friend.

It hardly needs a Masters in logic to work out that it's a bit strange to want (c), if (a) and (b) are true...

... unless he's not telling us something, or you come some backward village (highly likely) where "more than a friend" means something else to round here.

Capisce?
El Gordo  
10 May 2012 /  #12
You can shove your guest account up your smug, patronising ***, troll.

Let me think....No, I won't.

It hardly needs a Masters in logic to work out that it's a bit strange to want (c), if (a) and (b) are true.

Of course not,still too much of a task for your intelect (for the lack of better word) as It is obvious that you simply can't comprehend what you are reading.Try again!Here's a hint-The girl is not,I repeat NOT black.

you come some backward village (highly likely)

Another miss,I come from a medium size town.

Capisce?

No,not at all,to be frank.
NorthMancPolak  4 | 642  
11 May 2012 /  #13
Of course not,still too much of a task for your intelect (for the lack of better word) as It is obvious that you simply can't comprehend what you are reading.Try again!Here's a hint-The girl is not,I repeat NOT black.

Get a proper member account, then we can talk. I don't debate with guests.

Until then, genius, you have plenty of time to work out just who the girl is in the sentence below.

A clue: he's NOT talking about more than one girl. And the girl he IS talking about is BLACK.

I've known this girl for a couple of weeks now, I want to make her see me as more than a friend but, don't think I'm racist but I'm not into black girls

El Gordo  
11 May 2012 /  #14
Get a proper member account, then we can talk.

I already have one.

Until then, genius, you have plenty of time to work out just who the girl is in the sentence below.

I have figured it out a long time ago.

A clue: he's NOT talking about more than one girl. And the girl he IS talking about is BLACK.

She's not black.Period.

but, don't think I'm racist but I'm not into black girls so can she be not into English guys?

He is asking wheter (by analogy/likewise) she can be not into English guys in general like he's not into black girls.It is that simple.You get it now?You need to work on your reading and comprehending skills and logic.
jusia9  - | 36  
11 May 2012 /  #15
El Gordo - you are right

NorthMancPolak - its only you who didnt understand him... pls end up its not funny
Ironside  50 | 12383  
11 May 2012 /  #16
pls end up its not funny

on the contrary it is hilarious!
pam  
12 May 2012 /  #17
NorthMancPolak - its only you who didnt understand him... pls end up its not funny

on the contrary, i dont understand either. i like to think i am not completely dim, but to me , it is blatantly obvious this girl is BLACK.
jasondmzk  
12 May 2012 /  #18
Tell her how you're "not usually into black girls". She'll be so overwhelmed with flattery she'll be sure to jump you, right there.
NorthMancPolak  4 | 642  
12 May 2012 /  #19
on the contrary, i dont understand either. i like to think i am not completely dim, but to me , it is blatantly obvious this girl is BLACK.

Yeah.

If their example is correct, and I'm wrong, then it's simply an example of some kind of bizarre twisted logic.

It's like me going to Prague and telling someone "I love Czech women, but I don't date black women, so do you think Czech women won't date Poles"?

Who on earth thinks like that??? Only a weirdo! lol
pam  
12 May 2012 /  #20
have finally sussed out where they are coming from on this, and from above statement so have you.Bizzare?100%.talk about misleading! confused? you will be.i have come to the conclusion that there are some very strange people on pf........
NorthMancPolak  4 | 642  
12 May 2012 /  #21
And yet they still have the nerve to suggest that we are wrong! lol :)

Tell her how you're "not usually into black girls". She'll be so overwhelmed with flattery she'll be sure to jump you, right there.

heehee, exactly.

" I don't usually do black girls, but you're buff and ting so I'll make an exception innit" should do the job VERY nicely if he's English hahaha :D

Actually, come to think of it, maybe he should try a similar line on fat/ugly etc girls as well - what a Lothario :)
Patrycja19  61 | 2679  
12 May 2012 /  #22
no Polish girl can resist you telling her how big her bum is,they love it

and if she chases you with a broom and whacks you with it you have isthau2 to thank for his lovely advice on how to snag

a polish girl ;)
Wangus54  
30 Jun 2017 /  #23
My god what a dumb argument 😂 Because of northmancpolak.
Let me explain moron. He is saying that he is not into black girls as to show an example of how he isn't into somebody just because of their culture/race. So by that standard is wondering if being a polish girl she may not be into him simply because he is english, relating the situation to his own preference. And that train of thought has also led him to the idea that due to her being from a different culture, is there a different way to attract her than to how he would usually approach English women. It really is very simple and you are making yourself look a fool xD

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