yes he wants me to sort it all... all he wants to do is sort his suit and the vodka ...
So tell him that if he wants the wedding in Poland, he has to sort it out, you will take care of your dress and make-up & hair (by flying your make-up artist and hairdresser out to Poland). If he insists you sort out the wedding, you will sort it out where you are able to sort it out: in the UK. For one thing, you lack the language skills to organise a wedding in Poland.
Also, when it comes to Polish men, you have to put your foot down hard and often: if you start your married life like this, he'll be treating you like a servant every day for the rest of his life.
for a foreigner the prices will always be higher and the conditions less flexible.
100% right.