Is Poland and EU giving rough time for legally staying foreigners ???

I have a polish boyfriends and sometimes people misunderstood me like I am with him to get polish citizenship. So his decision is not to marry till I can settle in poland by myself. Well, I agree to that. But, everyyear, I have to go through alot of paper works to legalized my stay here while people who destoryed their own passports and migrate as refugees are easily getting benefits in EU.I even started thinking what they do is kinda right. Working in poland also doesn't make much money each month even working as white collar employee. I am applying for polish citizenship from president office as well but I have no hope with this right wing president. Should I just get asylum in some high paid EU countries?

@NoToForeigners
I am neither muslim nor have 20 members of illegal family member. I am one of many foreigners staying legally in Poland. I pay tax to polish goverment, I work, I pay school fee more expensive than EU citizens, I secured myself with insurance and etc, I shows **** loads of money for my stay.My point is that system is giving hard time to people who s staying legally and giving perks to illegal migrants.. And we would like to marry wihthout his family misunderstanding. That's why I am applying for citizenship before mirrage.

Never said you have to be any of those. ;) Currently in EU you can simply lie about it and leftist western goverments will accept it as truth just to avoid being called racist or intollerant. :)

I wonder why some people pretend to be war victim or need of protection while they can do it in legal way. It's giving hard time to the rest of the legal foreigners.Now, It is almost impossible for non-eu to work in country like switzerland because of the abuse of schengen agreement . No strict law has to be applied if no body over use the advantage.