I agree with you on this. I've often heard the word "free" used in conversations which I have assumed is a reference to the impediment of family culture.
You probably won't find much support with that theory among Poles, but I think there is definitely an element of it. For example : look at the trains whenever there's a long weekend - they're packed full of students going home. There are so many other things, but it is my opinion that the family culture hurts the employability of many people. It's even as simple as students going home every weekend rather than staying to gain experience in their field - or treating holidays as holidays, not as time to get that experience.
Like you say, the word "free" being used is almost certainly a reference to being able to do what they want rather than being obliged to return home.
It would be interesting to compare receipts for a weekly shop for a family of four. Trouble is you would never get a like for like comparison.
I think - in all fairness - Poland would win in the raw ingredients stakes, but would lose badly in other respects. For example - a dish involving chicken, rice and vegetables would be cheaper here. But if you wanted to make an Indian using pre-prepared things, then it would probably cost more - anything 'speciality' tends to come at a premium. On the good side, it encourages you to learn how to cook - but it's still frustrating that some ordinary things in the UK cost so much in Poland. And some things are just marketed differently - in the UK, for instance, lentils are ridiculously cheap. But in Poland, they're seen as an "eko" product with the price tag to match. Same with chickpeas. On the flip side, I don't think anyone in the UK thinks in terms of kilograms for meat.
And there are no ridiculously cheap jars of curry sauce here :(
Then there is the lack of safety net if life goes pear shaped which it can do in a moment.
Now - this is something. Poland is absolutely unforgiving if life does go pear shaped - I think it does encourage personal responsibility, although I guess the standard procedure is for the family to help if something goes wrong. What always seemed strange to me was that the Polish culture seems to think that it is cruel to put an elderly relative in care, even if the person needs it - instead, family members are supposed to give up their lives to care for the person instead. I don't get it, and I think it's a form of imprisonment for the family.
It depends on your reference point really. If you are using a Bangladesh slum as a reference point then extreme poverty doesn't exist in Poland unless alcohol is involved. I've yet to come across an apartment building in the UK (I'm sure there are examples) where a single toilet is shared between a whole floor and not one apartment has a bath. I have visited two such places in Poznan. Interestingly these people living there do not use the "I'm poor feel sorry for me" ruse, but better off acquaintances do.
Were these in the city centre by any chance? What usually seems to happen is that these places are recovered by the original owners, but they don't have the money to renovate nor the means to get those people out. And of course, who is going to renovate a building if the tenants don't have the means of paying anyway?
We don't actually 'employ' anyone anyway because this makes no practical sense.
So for all your posturing, you actually admit to employing people on junk contracts with no job security? :)
For what it's worth, good schools can and do offer umowa o prace.