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Everything this guy says I feel about Poland


siuraaaacki  
23 Jun 2019 /  #31
I always considered russians super friendly. I domt kmow about the ukrainians but russians on vacation in various countries including some i met who lived in palo alto were always friendly.
pawian  221 | 25808  
23 Jun 2019 /  #32
We should get this straight.

Yes, that is really amazing that you want to be so intrusive and overbearing with your crazy Hello on the beach. :):) Leave people alone, for fuk`s sake! Don`t meddle in their affairs, it is not your shity business if they want to hear your moronic hello or not. Poles are freedom-oriented guys, they don`t want to be forced to do things that various idiots expect them to do. :):)

He's an idiot Doug.

Our traditional birdbrain moron has joined the discussion. The more, the merrier. :):) But later don`t go to mods, crying you were abused, ashole.. :):)
TheOther  6 | 3596  
23 Jun 2019 /  #33
@Miloslaw

Why do you say that? Interpersonal behavior that is expected in the Anglosphere is considered strange elsewhere. That's the main reason why Brits and Americans believe that the French, Dutch, Germans and Poles are rude for example.
Dougpol1  29 | 2497  
23 Jun 2019 /  #34
It's a cultural thing.

Maybe Pawian doesn't do hikes. I find it ignorant and highly intimidating when people don't greet me back on an isolated beach.
I don't give a fukk what Pawian and other people say who can't accept change. You wanted the EU and it's money. Get a life.

Happy to say that after 30 years here. I might be an old drunk but I can't abide rudeness.
Miloslaw  21 | 5158  
23 Jun 2019 /  #35
Poles are freedom-oriented guys, they don`t want to be forced to do things that various idiots expect them to do. :)

Whilst that is true, to a degree,Poles do not mind when friendliness is shown.
Even if it is in a way that is alien to them.
Poles adapt quite quickly.
You underestimate them.
pawian  221 | 25808  
23 Jun 2019 /  #36
Happy to say that after 30 years here.

If that makes you believe you are a better guy, I must disappoint you - you are a loser. :):)

You underestimate them.

Birdbrain, I don`t underestimate anybody. Just don`t like when losers come and try to teach me how to live.
Chemikiem  
23 Jun 2019 /  #37
should not necessarily say a cursory hello?

It depends, if someone nodded, smiled or said hi to me, I would return the greeting, but I wouldn't go out of my way to say hello to a stranger.

They consider such behavior fake and shallow.

That's because it is. Good post, agree completely.
TheOther  6 | 3596  
23 Jun 2019 /  #38
who can't accept change

Why would they have to change? Just because a certain behavior is the norm in Anglo-American countries doesn't mean that others have to copy it. Think of the queueing in Britain. Time-honored tradition. Now try the same in France and you will see how far your manners get you. After 10,000 people have skipped the line you will capitulate... :)
Siurackii  
23 Jun 2019 /  #39
here is another good one that he talks about reminding me of Poland:

youtu.be/Ib7zdzJkkK0

the warsaw fakeness or judging people by looks or clothes.
Miloslaw  21 | 5158  
23 Jun 2019 /  #40
- you are a loser

You are probably the rudest, most insulting Pole I have ever come across.
I bet you are even proud of that.
Yet you insult the strong Polish tradition of politeness and courtesy.
You are a disgrace to Poles.
pawian  221 | 25808  
23 Jun 2019 /  #41
hahaha your production here is a disgrace to human intelligence, I know you don`t realise it, good for you because you are not aware of your idiocy so you must be a happy person. I sometimes envy you. :)):
Miloslaw  21 | 5158  
23 Jun 2019 /  #42
Think of the queueing in Britain. Time-honored tradition

Na, long gone.
Dougpol1  29 | 2497  
23 Jun 2019 /  #43
Have any of the critics here, including Pawian, tried walking from Kolobrzek to Hel?
I have, and anybody who has would know there are beaches where you might not meet people for 15 kilometres, because they are only open at certain times because of NATO exercises.

So they are secluded
Yet Pawian pretends that humans should ignore each other in a totally secluded environment?
Who is the weirdo here?
pawian  221 | 25808  
23 Jun 2019 /  #44
Yes, I consider it perfectly all right that I leave people alone to their thoughts and business and do not meddle into their private affairs. :):)

Where did you learn this fekking intrusiveness? Not in Poland. You must have brought it from England, right? :):)
pawian  221 | 25808  
24 Jun 2019 /  #45
So they are secluded. Yet Pawian pretends that humans should ignore each other in a totally secluded environment?

I see you are mistaking Sahara or Gobi Deserts with a Polish beach. Sorry, even secluded beaches in Poland don`t allow you to be so intrusive.. :):)

where you might not meet people for 15 kilometres, because they are only open at certain times because of NATO exercises.

That`s a useless statement, you can walk for 50 km without meeting anybody on the beach and that still doesn`t mean anything because it is enough to turn right or left, cross the dunes and the wooded strip of land and you will run into locals in a nearby village.
kaprys  3 | 2076  
24 Jun 2019 /  #46
There are secluded places especially in winter, early spring or late autumn.
Still some would think it odd or slightly dangerous if a stranger said hello to them in such circumstances. And if we're talking about being friendly why such a reaction just because someone doesn't greet you back? Not very friendly or sociable really. A smile or a nod would be ok, too. But perhaps my perspective is different as I'm a woman.
mafketis  38 | 11106  
24 Jun 2019 /  #47
I've said it before and I'll say it again, the British (far more than other peopels IME) are driven to anger (or even blind rage) at norms of behavior that are different from their own....

And it's only (some) long time Brits in Poland who are perversely proud of their poor knowledge of Polish....
Dougpol1  29 | 2497  
24 Jun 2019 /  #48
I don't know what that means mafketis. If you have cracked the B1 barrier, then good for you. Have a cigar. For myself, I reached A2 level Polish after the first year here and have never improved my language skills apart from vocabulary, because I don't write in Polish. That would have required study and effort for a reading and writing learner, and I'm as lazy as Boris Johnson allegedly is in that category. Why would anyone be proud of being lazy? That's just the way they are in some respects.
Atch  24 | 4354  
24 Jun 2019 /  #49
Poles are cold at the beginning, they need time to warm up to you.

Sorry Pawian, but it's basic manners and common courtesy to 'salute' as we say in Ireland, a stranger whom you encounter in a situation such as the beach one that Doug describes.
mafketis  38 | 11106  
24 Jun 2019 /  #50
but it's basic manners and common courtesy to 'salute' as we say in Ireland, a stranger ... such as the beach

According to who? Poles might well perceive it as getting in their faces and forcing your presence on them... co kraj to obyczaj...

After a few years most people learn to deal with a foreign country as it is (and not as a deformed version of their home country).
Atch  24 | 4354  
24 Jun 2019 /  #51
According to natural human instincts which are to interact with other humans. We're social creatures. Incidentally, on this very topic, I came across this article the other day.

The benefits of talking to strangers:
bbc.com/news/world-48459940

And in this instance ie on the beach or a country walk, we're not talking about trying to engage anybody in conversation, merely acknowledging their presence in a pleasant manner.
antheads  13 | 340  
24 Jun 2019 /  #52
And that's exactly what I wrote in my brilliant book:

ooh a PF author. Is this book available on the interwebs?
Rich Mazur  4 | 2894  
24 Jun 2019 /  #53
Sorry Pawian, but it's basic manners and common courtesy to 'salute' as we say in Ireland,

Salute or an open palm gesture shows that I am not a threat.

In the US, it's normal to have a 30-second small talk where it's possible, including checkouts. If you can include a joke, it's even better. My best was at an IRS office when I told the agent that whatever she is paid she is underpaid. You should have seen a smile on her face. Self-serving but effective.
OP Swirekkk  
24 Jun 2019 /  #54
In the US even while registering as a sex offender people next to you that arent will small talk. ive seen it done. Some lady was small talking with thi dude regsitering and she was there I think to file some report or something.
Atch  24 | 4354  
24 Jun 2019 /  #55
Salute or an open palm gesture shows that I am not a threat.

In Ireland 'to salute' a person comes from the French word 'salut' which can be used as hello or goodbye, a bit like czesć in Polish. We have some peculiarities in Hiberno-English stemming from the Norman colonization back in the 12 century. Incredible how we've retained them for 800 years! If you say that a person failed to salute you, it means they didn't acknowledge you either by a word or gesture.
OP Swirekkk  
24 Jun 2019 /  #56

Lyzko  41 | 9671  
24 Jun 2019 /  #57
@Rich,
Addiction most certainly is a disease, don't let's absolve ourselves of our societal responsibilities!!
Be it alcohol, drugs, tobacco, yes, even sure, an addiction is a disease. Look the word up in the dictionary.
Rich Mazur  4 | 2894  
24 Jun 2019 /  #58
If you say that a person failed to salute you, it means they didn't acknowledge you either by a word or gesture.

Under some circumstances, like in prisons, failure to show respect by briefly acknowledging another guy's presence can be deadly.
Short of that extreme, it's smart not to be a standoffish a-hole in bars, w "silowniach", and wherever booze or testosterone are in oversupply.
Swirekwkk  
24 Jun 2019 /  #59
When it comes to places with booze in Warsaw it is the females who are rude *****. Especially at this Latino music bar place called Sam Escobar. They are total ******* and users there. They routinely walk in front of you and shove you out of the way if you're male and I guess the people take it there or they act like there is no repercussions for their behavior.
Rich Mazur  4 | 2894  
24 Jun 2019 /  #60
This is when Islam starts looking better and better....

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