Patrycja19 62 | 2683 15 Nov 2006 / #31doctors in the US are more advanced in medicine than in Poland.That makes sense, if I had the money to adopt I would get least two more childrenboys, cause I have two girls. I already have a child with a metabolic disorder. shelooks normal, but alot happens without proper medical attention.wanted to ask to, can someone look up Trifunctional Protein defiency in Poland?I want to know if there are any children with this same metabolic disorder thereas well. my daughter is number 15 in the world, but I dont know where all the othersare from, only maybe two that I have spoke with.
lef 11 | 477 16 Nov 2006 / #32I think people adopted were treated as being inferior,, things have changed over the years
tofat642 5 Dec 2006 / #33HiFirst of all I want to thank u for the wonderful translation u did for me for my Christmas cards, I appreciate it so much.Also I went to your site and I see that you family has adopted children from Poland.My dil had 13 misses, we have twin girls, thankfully they are fine because she had to deliver them very early 7 months, but thankfully even though just 3 lbs. their lungs were developed. They were in the process of a private adoption but the girl decided to go to a family where she got more money.They would love to adopt a baby boy. Do u have any advice I could give them, like how to apply, money involved etc.I look forward to hearing from you. Any advice would be so appreciated.Also I would love to learn to speak polish, is it very hard to learn?Thanks again.Gerigeriraycal@msn.comIenclosed a picture of our twins.
OP krysia 23 | 3058 5 Dec 2006 / #34Are you looking at adoption from Poland?I'll give you a web-site with a lot of information and they can answer all your questions. That's a start at least.polbiznet.com/adoption.htmAnd as for learning Polish, you can learn enough in 6 months to communicate, but it all depends on how much time you will put into it, and on the teacher, and you.
Varsovian 91 | 634 6 Dec 2006 / #352 friends have adopted children over the last couple of years and have been reasonably open about it. I think the problem could be with other children when they get to school - kids can be very cruel.
Wroclaw 44 | 5359 6 Dec 2006 / #36Telling young children that they are adopted and telling everyone you know, is the quickest way to alienate the children.
reenie 29 Dec 2006 / #37we would like to adopt from poland , I have some family there, an Uncle in Nova Huta ( spelling?) anyhow a private foreign adoption sounds like it could be more afordable. any Insight or comments/\thank YouIrene T.
OP krysia 23 | 3058 29 Dec 2006 / #38You will have to contact an orphanage in Poland unless you know of some one who you can adopt privately. You will need a home study done (about $ 1.000) and since you have family there, your chances to adopt are greater. And it's easier to adopt siblings or a child who needs some medical care.
AnnaWladyslawa 10 Jan 2007 / #39Well At least in 1977 there weren't rules like that. But maybe my parents played by different rules if you still have family there and money. My parents adopted my brother who was 2 and myself when I was 5 and we are not defective, although sometimes I still wonder about him. LOL HA HATrue. It took may weeks or months with paperwork and then my parents came twice. The second time my dad only stayed a week or so but my mom stayed the whole time. Don't know if it is true but my dad said that they wanted to enlist him, although he wasnt a citizen or nationalist. Being in the US, I never gave up my Polish citizenship so as far as I know I still have dual citizenship. Does anyone know if that is true?What is it? What are symptoms?
OP krysia 23 | 3058 11 Jan 2007 / #40as far as I know I still have dual citizenshipyou do.You do if you still have your Polish passport, but since you left Poland as a minor you have to re-submit paperwork to obtain a Polish ID or passport. You are registered in Poland but you haven't lived there, so you are not registered (zameldowana) as living there.
MelissaPierce 13 Jan 2007 / #41New to the forum -Anna, we are hoping to adopt siblings the ages you and your brother were when you arrived in the US. Any tips for us?
Kasiaw 15 Jan 2007 / #42Dear Krysia,My name is Kasia, and I am also trying to adopt child from poland, however I cannot find agency that would help me. Can you ask your mom, who helped her adopt? I would really appreciate your help. Please e-mail me at kasiaw70@yahooKasia
DANA 16 Jan 2007 / #43WE ARE JUST STARTING THE ADOPTION PROCESS AND ARE CONSIDERING POLAND. WE ARE INTERESTED IN DOING IT OURSELVES. HAS ANYONE BEEN SUCCESSFUL DOING AN INDEPENDANT ADOPTION FROM POLAND. WHERE DO I FIND ALL THE INFORMATION AND STEPS TO START THE PROCESS?
OP krysia 23 | 3058 16 Jan 2007 / #45I will e-mail you kasia, but the first thing you need to do is contact a local adoption agency, each city has a different one, Catholic Charity is one of them, or a licensed child welfare agency where you have to schedule a home study. Tell them about your plans of adopting abroad.Once the home study is completed it should be sent to the Department of Health and Social Services. I don't know what State you're in, but each state has different laws. Immigration law requires that both spouses see the child prior to or during the adoption preceedings.During a visa application process, the INS does an extensive investigation of your background. They will need proof of citizenship, marital status, home study, a statement of financial status and a fingerprint check.All the documents will have to be translated into english by a certified translater.The process is long, but it is easier to adopt siblings. Also being of Polish origins helps in the process also.
Kochana_Babcia 2 | 70 16 Jan 2007 / #46Maybe they don't know that typing in upper case is considered SHOUTING :)My cousin and his wife adopted a little baby girl from Poland some years ago, but I don'tknow any details.
roxy 11 Mar 2007 / #50i am 48, my husband 68 and has non-hodgkins lymphoma - my question (as i have toyed with the idea of adoption for for the last 20 years) is are we too old? is his health an issue, even though he is not sick but it is diagnosed - hope not, since they wouldn't have a problem asking us to take a child in need of medical attention. Please offer an honest answer - i don't want to waste my time. thank you
Member 223 11 Mar 2007 / #51roxy,Don't ask us. This is a very serious matter, so please make the phone call to the right person.
BubbaWoo 33 | 3503 11 Mar 2007 / #52i really wanted to reply to you roxy but i am just not clear on my thoughts... call the right person and do the right thing...good luck to your husband... i had hodgkins twenty years ago... not nice but i came thru the other side... and medicine has advanced so much in the time since... :)
OP krysia 23 | 3058 14 Mar 2007 / #54i am 48, my husband 68 and has non-hodgkins lymphoma1. No, you are not too old, you just might not be able to adopt an infant, but a little older child. I know a couple in California who are about 47 years old and they adopted two children last year.2. No, your husband's health is not a problem. You have to meet a certain income criteria and be able to take care of a child, and that is the main concern.
Patrycja19 62 | 2683 15 Mar 2007 / #55i had hodgkins twenty years ago...WOW< things that we find out as we go along about each other.Bubba, Amazing. I am so glad things are where they should be health wise :)
BubbaWoo 33 | 3503 15 Mar 2007 / #56Bubba, Amazing. I am so glad things are where they should be health wisecheers patty... just another of life's experiences... :)
Burgh 13 Apr 2007 / #57I live in Canada and we are considering adoption from Poland. Does anyone know if you need to stay in Poland for a certain period of time, before adoption? how many tripds are necesaary for the adoption?
maxings 3 May 2007 / #58Hi, your problem is just to adopt a polish child then use this email address mamas_love@hotmail but if you have got a child already in Poland to adopt,then please am sorry it will not be easy.Let me tell you my own story:am also a Canadian but am now working in France,when i traveled to Poland 2 years ago,i decided to adopt a child after i left the place but it was not possible according to regulations of adoption and since my wife could not put to birth and i really love their children.Then i was directed to this catholic christain children home in Cameroon(MEMORIES HOME CENTER) were i got to have Lizzy just after 3 months and the cost was quiet minimal and we are living happily now.This home is a catholic home that specialized with only white children from Europe but since the home became crowded they started giving the children out for adoption,they are simple and easy to adopt but you only have to promise them that you will show all the love for the child he or she deserves.Here is my own email address maxings2000@yahoo and that of the home is mamas_love1976@hotmail.bye in case you need my help mail me.
kasiaw 15 May 2007 / #59So once you start adoption process, how long does it take before you get to hold your child? To be honest since the day we begin the process everything seems to go wrong. We are approved by the home study agency and we are begining to compile our Dossier.Krysia,I am in process of adopting through one of the agencies, however I have family who lives close to an orphanage and who works there. Can they help me adopt a child? So far the agency here in US indicated that if I find a child myself then they cannot help me due to legal issues. What would you do? Either I will have to wait 2 years for adopting a child or find one and do part of the adoption on my own.
OP krysia 23 | 3058 15 May 2007 / #60Does anyone know if you need to stay in Poland for a certain period of time, before adoption?Depending on the adoption agency. Sometimes you might have to stay 3 weeks so you can bond with the child and get the passports and documents ready.