Keeping a tight focus on Poles as racist becomes persecutorial. It's limiting and, dare I say, intolerant
I disagree and assert you feel that way because you are Polish. This is a Polish
forum...this aspect of the problem has to do with Poland. This is a typical argument put forth by Poles to try and take the attention and blame off of them for whatever the topic is. There is a huge problem with accepting responsibility here. Now...one theory as to why this is come from many old Poles I know. They say that in the communist times if you were deemed responsible for a problem bad things could happen to you or at the very least you may lose something. Thus is became a part of the culture to deflect blame. You see this to this day in many aspects of the culture and business here. Every expat I know agrees and has experienced this. Only 'some' Poles tend to disagree...several Poles I know even acknowledge this.
We are talking about Poland and Polish culture...don't try to change the topic to deflect.
And Greg...it's not just about looking at someone...its about how you treat them. I have been stared at in a lot of places where I looked very different. But in most of those places I was treated very well. That's the difference.