Individualism and a lot of pride might be seen as trying to prove being better in an offensive way in Poland. But there is individualism there, of course. Again I would say that comparing to eg, Sweden, Poland is very individualistic.The point is that it is less so than, for example, the USA, but hey - very many other places in the World, and Western/Northern Europe, are
Sorry, I dont want to sound offensive, but I would not call Americans individualistic. I do know, that you like to think about yourselvs as such, but you are anything but.
As a matter of fact I came to conclusion that Americans have a law fetish.
I've noticed that when debating Americans over various topics, they will often bring in (usually their own skewed interpretation of some) legal code and then declare the debate over, as if law trumps everything. This happens even when the legality of something is not even under consideration.
I will give two examples
me: we should not torture terrorist suspects
yank: but the Geneva convention only applies to soldidiers and terrorists are enemy combatants
me: but I wasn't talking about...
yank: LALALA I'm not listening!
me: internet sites should not censor unpopular opinions
yank: The right to freedom of speech only applies to government actions. Internet sites are private entities and can censor whatever they want
me: but I wasn't...
yank: LALALA I'm not listening!
This happens over and over and over again when talking to Americans about anything. I appeal to morality, they reply with law. I appeal to utility, they reply with law. I appeal distributive justice, they reply with law. And they feel so smug about it too. As if, I dunno, law was everything.
I find this disturbing and unhelpful.
In many ways, the USA is far more totalitarian than the USSR could ever hope to be. The law in the Communist Poland was basically a show-piece that everyone, from the common citizen up to the highest bureaucracy and the Politburo, tried to quietly evade or ignore and end up doing what they wanted to do anyway. Complaining to authorities about a minor offense was and still is viewed as a rather shameful lack of integrity.
In America people are socially conditioned to view the law as the reason behind everything, rather than a set of codified norms based on numerous factors, some of which may be outdated or passed with wrong/malicious intent. It's a bottom to top sort of dictatorship, where the people themselves will gladly rat each other out and point fingers for offenses that could have been easily ignored for the sake of community and understanding. Americans will gladly complain about their government and claim the Congress is filled with greedy morons, but at they same time do not question the laws these "morons" draft and vote for.