osiris80
16 Dec 2019 / #1
Hello,
i would like to have some opinions and advice about a situation that i encountered. Thank you in advance for all of you.
i am a foreigner working in Poland. I was in a relationship with a Polish girl. When i was about to end that relationship, she said that she is pregnant. I was protected until she said we were ok since she started getting pill. we waited a while for pills to affect after that we started having sex unprotected. After some times i got suspicious about her behaviors in bed but i preferred trusting her.
when she came up with pregnancy news. i said i wont accept child and dont want to be a father so i offered abortion and sharing the cost. i asked her opinion, she refused. after that moment i said this was her choice and i wont be part of that. i clearly said i wont give any support. i didint ask dna test because i dont want her to think i am interested in the child.
At the beginning she said she didint expect anything from me. But in time our discussion continued and she raised tension. In the result, we came a point that she says it is ok that i wont see child or her in the future but i should provide financial support. And she started threatening me. she says her male relatives will teach me how to behave.
I read some EU and Poland regulations and i saw that if i dont sign birth certificate and dont ask for partner rights, i wont be responsible of anything. Is it right ?
Is there any way that she can force me to do anything, or can she do something without informing me that puts me some difficult situation ? what are the regulations here ? and do these threats mean anything ? What can i do about them ?
I love Poland and Polish people. But this looks like a trap to me. When i searched the net, i saw lots of incidents like this.
i am not interested in religious or conservative comments. Please keep that comments for yourself.
Thank you for all the helps.
i would like to have some opinions and advice about a situation that i encountered. Thank you in advance for all of you.
i am a foreigner working in Poland. I was in a relationship with a Polish girl. When i was about to end that relationship, she said that she is pregnant. I was protected until she said we were ok since she started getting pill. we waited a while for pills to affect after that we started having sex unprotected. After some times i got suspicious about her behaviors in bed but i preferred trusting her.
when she came up with pregnancy news. i said i wont accept child and dont want to be a father so i offered abortion and sharing the cost. i asked her opinion, she refused. after that moment i said this was her choice and i wont be part of that. i clearly said i wont give any support. i didint ask dna test because i dont want her to think i am interested in the child.
At the beginning she said she didint expect anything from me. But in time our discussion continued and she raised tension. In the result, we came a point that she says it is ok that i wont see child or her in the future but i should provide financial support. And she started threatening me. she says her male relatives will teach me how to behave.
I read some EU and Poland regulations and i saw that if i dont sign birth certificate and dont ask for partner rights, i wont be responsible of anything. Is it right ?
Is there any way that she can force me to do anything, or can she do something without informing me that puts me some difficult situation ? what are the regulations here ? and do these threats mean anything ? What can i do about them ?
I love Poland and Polish people. But this looks like a trap to me. When i searched the net, i saw lots of incidents like this.
i am not interested in religious or conservative comments. Please keep that comments for yourself.
Thank you for all the helps.