Mark_c89
21 May 2014 / #1
I'm looking for some information on how this works in Poland and well how the whole ordeal works.
I have a mother-in-law that lives with us(never ever let yourself get into this situation)
(I'm English and my wife is Polish just to make things clearer)
Basically she's a nightmare. Refuses to leave the house, mopes around in a depressive state, hardly eats, moans that everything is a problem.
She has a nightmare history of her life, with problems with her children husband etc. and her life turn out really ****** up.
She is severely depressed and really needs some help, she claims there's nothing wrong when approached about the problem by any member of family and just claims she wants to die.
Its gradually gotten worse, as at point she would at least go out and go visiting sometimes. Now she lies when people ask her to come over for a few days or do anything she makes excuses about everything, of course we are none the wiser till long afterwards when we speak to somebody and they said that they asked her to visit (she will have come out with something stupid like I'm getting my hair done, which hasn't happened in years). We are currently at the stage where she sits in her bedroom 24/7
Anyway this is also becoming a problem with friction between me and my wife so I do need to do something about it.
My wife has told me you can arrange it in Poland as you can elsewhere, but I just don't know how although she keeps saying she will do it.
We want to get her forcefully removed from the house to go to a proper clinic be assessed and get some help. What can we do and how do we go about this? and basically as nasty as this sounds just take away her right to say no so she can no longer run away from this fact
Any help is very much appreciated
I have a mother-in-law that lives with us(never ever let yourself get into this situation)
(I'm English and my wife is Polish just to make things clearer)
Basically she's a nightmare. Refuses to leave the house, mopes around in a depressive state, hardly eats, moans that everything is a problem.
She has a nightmare history of her life, with problems with her children husband etc. and her life turn out really ****** up.
She is severely depressed and really needs some help, she claims there's nothing wrong when approached about the problem by any member of family and just claims she wants to die.
Its gradually gotten worse, as at point she would at least go out and go visiting sometimes. Now she lies when people ask her to come over for a few days or do anything she makes excuses about everything, of course we are none the wiser till long afterwards when we speak to somebody and they said that they asked her to visit (she will have come out with something stupid like I'm getting my hair done, which hasn't happened in years). We are currently at the stage where she sits in her bedroom 24/7
Anyway this is also becoming a problem with friction between me and my wife so I do need to do something about it.
My wife has told me you can arrange it in Poland as you can elsewhere, but I just don't know how although she keeps saying she will do it.
We want to get her forcefully removed from the house to go to a proper clinic be assessed and get some help. What can we do and how do we go about this? and basically as nasty as this sounds just take away her right to say no so she can no longer run away from this fact
Any help is very much appreciated